Is Dating on Discord a Waste of Time? | FriendZone Debate
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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community recently sparked a lively debate regarding the reality of dating on Discord. Members shared conflicting views on whether finding a partner online is a matter of luck, wealth, or simply a waste of time. This discussion highlights the server's active social culture, where members openly debate modern relationship trends while prioritizing genuine friendships over online drama.
u wont find ur wife/husband on here
Dating in general is a waste of time🙃
Depending on luck
yes
Funny how people think they can find a partner here
The chances is slim....
I strongly agree
Tru tru
Am also looking for a serious lover anyone
And a partner to chat with I don't care old or young at least we should get along
There's no such thing as luck in dating
Its luck
There no luck at play
U can't say it's luck, when u're dealing with feelings or emotions
Ayooo tf
No there is
Finding someone sensible is luck
Meaning
Bro.....😭
At what age would u consider young if i may ask
Maybe 30
Theres other alternatives to find somebody online/irls
its just a preference thing tbh
and the crowd runs away
Calm down it was a joke lmao
Hmm
Here's an idea, u date him
I don't need to prove it
Honestly if you’re rich enough it’s pretty easy
Shi mb mb
And gamble your house
Not really.....
Partner in crime sure,so what bank are we robbing
This is hot takes not the most common sense things oat lol
ud think wouldnt u but a lot of people in this server and others try dating or somehow fall inlove on here
Who's revealing this
But my goal is genuinely to waste time on Discord 
girl they literally think its a flex its so sad
but it's a flex
Oh right some people take it seriously
I do take friendship seriously here.but dating is a whole new drama
It's more like let's keep ourselves emotional busy online
errrr❌
Okay, whatever that means
Hm
Thank for the discussion
Then if you ready to be my partner drop me a message or a friend request
Ok
That's it I got all you want
What
Oh
Nah...
Wow
You guys are going crazy
There is no right person actually
There is
But there are wrong people though
Yeah
Even wrong people see others as wrong people lol
Humans are the most sophisticated people to deal with
Why I love talking with Ghosts
Never complicated
Modern ghosts = AI
For real
Everyone has a wrong side, and that wrong side is usually defined by another
Can we see our own wrong sides ?
It takes intelligence to see your self
Oh. Not everyone wants to know about themselves I guess
Yeah
That's sad
Do you think selfishness is the root of all evil
Selfishness is the combination of Greed and Fear
Evil. Evil is just what doesn't benefit me I guess
Partly, but the concept of evil is quite broad since many people do have what they consider to be evil
There some things that doesnt benefit anyone ever (like RP)
For example,I don't think corruption Is evil. It's only evil if I am not involved in the benefits
Yeah🙂, that's why it's evil
Oh. It might benefit the one committing the act
I don't think they necessarily see it has evil
So evil is simply what benefits me but not others?
U could be evil tho, some ppl call themselves evil
Most of the times.
That's because it's has been agreed that those acts are evil
Suppose i am a drinker: Alcohol benefits me, but is evil because it does not benefit my liver
By what, society? Sometimes it's not agreed by everyone
Oh, drinking alcohol isn't necessary evil
Maybe self harm in the long run
But it does give it's temporary benefits
I think we agree on certain acts like Mrd
Some types of 'evil' also give temporarily benefits
Exactly. Most times it's actually the victims that get to call it evil and not the ones in control of the act
Well yh since that's an extreme thing tho not all acts, I mean ppl have opinions to things and diff perspectives
Victims and bystanders who have no connection to it
Give me one small thing that isn't punishable yet you consider it evil
Even the mrders have an explaination
A lie right 🙂?
We can add those to the list of affected people
Idk myself but ppl generally have diff idea of what they consider evil or not, two ppl could be doing the same act but only one considers what they do as evil
Well, all entails a lost of life. I see any act of lose of life as evil besides natural death Nd maybe accidents
Sometimes they aren't always affected directly
You should probably give an example
Implications?
Some could see smoking as evil since ur actively messing up ur insides while others might see it as not cos it benefits them with things like weight control
Basically an outsider's pov to how they perceive maybe a case from somewhere else
So what do we call acts that only affects the doer even though it has benefits Nd long run harm?
Alright
Who and what shapes our perspective of evil?
Environment, social groups, cultural ideas, religion (to a point), the conditions of which we're raised etc
Society, knowledge, experience
Peers
Emotions
Who shaped those peoples perspective
Many things
Themselves,the people they associate with
I can't understand this😭
Depends on what ppl think
Diff answers
Religion was always a gud thing for me in my pev. Like don't lie generally I think I was taught that as a religious thing I guess, although I may have learnt it even without the existence of religion
At the end we realizw we all are connected
Hmm. Maybe we can call it an act of freewill I guess instead of evil since it doesn't harm or affect us besides the doer
Nope. I'm my own person
Ok my brain ain't working now so I'm off, nice discussion tho
Connected by beliefs
A lot of things
Language
Is there anything like first human on earth
Oh, it comes with us being humans I guess
Even Ai is started to get that connection through language and the rest
It depends on which origin lane you want to go down with
I personally don't worry about the origin when I only exist in the present
If there is anything like first human, how did we get here?
To different races?
From one human
Also why assume that there was only one human
We could have easily started out as any number
Who started?
From what?
The whole specie of what we consider to be humans
More like the egg Nd chicken question
What came before us
Were we always humans
Or we were something before this
And so why us out of all creatures
There has to be a beginning
search harder
Why are we the different ones
We know about our own beginning alone
What if conciousness is the beginning
So I guess the first humans also came from a process biological similar
Still doesn't explain why other consciousness begins are behind us
So its an endless loop
Endless chain i mean
Only if you want answers for the whole beginning rather than your beginning
Yeah im talking about the whole beginning
But we weren't there. We can't access past lives
I strongly believe that humans did start as a pair
Not necessarily one human
Two could come out of one
Unless you bring in the whole God thingy which is a matter of Faith
Why make two when one can make two
Take for example, if you can birth a person all by yourself
You probably would just replicate that process till you get a billion people
So it has to start out as two
Hm
So what were we before we begin humans
Or perhaps we were always humans
Some animals give reproduce through parthenogenesis
Hm
Well, I agree
But if it's effective for them
They shouldn't change
Unless there was something that demanded a change
There could be something that demamded humans to evolve to humans
Well,if that is what you think. Then we can agree we weren't always this kind of humans
Yeah
And the major change that could have occurred might be partly survival
Mainly caused by survival
Survival is selfish. Selfish is defined by enviroment, ideas etc
Oh right. Let's say you are in a jungle with a wild animal
And you survive, do you think that's selfishness?
Or just competition which is known as survival of the fittest
The wild animal sees me as a means to survive (food). I see the wild animal as a threat lol
Yeah. Maybe selfishness isn't always a bad thing
Its just non-mutual
Yeah. Most relationship in life are that way
Unless symbiosis
And I have forgotten the others
Dating on discord will work if both parties are mutual
Most creatures prioritise Thier own existence unless in certain cases
Yes Nd no
First. It might work if I'm interested in you as a mind/person
Instead of the whole you which is body mind
Since it's online. You would have to accept the fact that you can only get the version of the person that exist in the mind Nd behind screens
(very few people can live with that)
True
What if we all list out all the things we wanna benefit from the other party
And they do same
Then know what we can live with and without
Mutuality becomes Balance
But long distance relationship will still suck
Hmm. People don't exactly talk Nd list things out
They usually use the method of we shall figure it out
One of effects of love which I don't really get
Not always
But most times
People are paranoid about getting cheating lol
I agree
Well, yes. That's a natural thing
It exist in all forms of relationship
Physical or distanced
It does take some stuff of strong will to escape it in distance
But still physical relationships still have less paranoia about getting cheated in comparison to distanced ones
I think the cause of this is an explainable fear
We, that's why you should only do it if you can live with the fact that even if you discover that they are cheating you can live with it
What are Nd list things though?
I am not really someone who is keen on exclusiveness in relationship
I'mma note that advice
Fear is not a bad thing
It all depends on if you run with the mentality that the person can't break your trust
I for one don't expect anyone to trust me
True
True
I don't ask for it Nd also I don't demand it
A quick question to see if you can live with the whole distance relationship thingy
Imagine,a character in a book
You love this character but yet can't be with them in the book
Although you can relate Nd make the story of the book with them
It does take a lot to be satisfied with the mind of a person rather than the body of the person
It does
But at the end you all have to decide when to meet
What if I don't want to meet
We are all meant to be prioitize mind over body
Mind controls body
Can't we exist till the end without meeting
?
Yes can
Hmm, can you?
Depends on how connected i am to the mind
Love someone that you might never meet
Since we exist in both body Nd mind
It would take a toll on the body, Nd the mind would have to be strong enough to hold unto the relationship
Some people like when you are there will them physical, share their physical space. Others are okay with words, activities that doesn't involve a physical space
To thr first, physical presence defines emmotional presence
Which is fine
But does the other person want the same?
Not always, I can be physically present with someone yet show no care
Yes. You both have to state what you want Nd what you can live with Nd without
Exactly
State what you can live with and without
Find which is mutual
Thats balance
So can we all say dating on discord is not a waste of time
It is only a waste of time if you have not gotten someone who likes what you like and hates what you hate
Do people really want to list out things?
It's much better to have a clear outline
Nd leave it up to we shall figure it out
Nd also even if you have it all out. Can you stick to it
Do you think it becomes harder to keep to something when you list it out
Just asking
And which do you prefer?
Listing things out with a partner or "going with the flow"
Listing out is better
You can always look at what you sign up for
Like a contract
And know what to expect
Modt people are afraid of that
Yeah
Accountability sucks for a few people
There are rare cases where someone ticks all the boxes yet is termed too good for me
I didn't actual get the whole too good for me part
Had? What happened?
Theres a footballer whose wife divorced him because he was too good
Yeah what happened
Huh
My logical brain isn't comprehending that
Ohh
Look it up youll see
So she wanted a bad guy?
Lol i think a pinch of bad
Why would anyone want that
Would be a burden on me filling up a role of a friend for the reason of helping out with the fact of being alone
Why I make friends is simply just I really love to talk
True
Although there are days when im just exhausted
Or i have no contribution to the topic
That is what comes with being a human
Yah not an AI
god
So it's only to feel that way sometimes
Yeah
Nice having this convo bro
always nice talking with people
I currently am learning spanish
Wow. Goodluck
I gave up on having to learn a new language
It's not that easy though,the commitment to it
Yeah
