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hazelpanda-96 OP

What is wrong with not being productive, why do we have to do anything at all? Why can’t we just lie down and nothing great and not feel guilty. Is it necessary to have a purpose in life? Can life just not be enjoyed by shit content? If yes, why do majority of people feel guilty about it.

hazelpanda-96 OP

Is it really that bad to be unproductive ?

@hazelpanda-96 What is wrong with not being productive, why do we have to do anything at all? Why can’t we just li…
pearlguitar-88

Well you see everything in this life has a purpose even a bacteria that is so small you can't see with the human eye has purpose so why you the human with the great mind and complex thoughts don't have a purpose??

hazelpanda-96 OP

No I am not talking about human beings as a race. Sure we, "the species" has prupose. But individually having purpose that I want to do something, get a job or be better at this, taking stress and anxiety for the smallest of things.... Arghhh....
It should be okay to be happy and purposeless. We measure happiness by success and success by a specific set of paraemetrs, when happiness comes from within

hazelpanda-96 OP

One can be unproductive and perfectly content and happy, is what I a trying to say.

snowyorange-96

I guess it is

@hazelpanda-96 What is wrong with not being productive, why do we have to do anything at all? Why can’t we just li…
sunnyjester-27

Who's going to provide for you?

hazelpanda-96 OP

Ofc I am not talking about the whole entire life peopleeeeeee!!!

@sunnyjester-27 Who's going to provide for you?
hazelpanda-96 OP

I am talking about thoughts like this, that I am going to a college class and doing a job or soemthing, but the rest of the day also there is a serious need for being productive with people

hazelpanda-96 OP

Or feeling guilt if you are not productive

@hazelpanda-96 I am talking about thoughts like this, that I am going to a college class and doing a job or soemth…
sunnyjester-27

I don't ☝understand

@sunnyjester-27 I don't ☝understand
hazelpanda-96 OP

I am talking about the feeling that being ‘unproductive’ is bad.

hazelpanda-96 OP

Unproductivity can be outside of work too.

@hazelpanda-96 What is wrong with not being productive, why do we have to do anything at all? Why can’t we just li…
wildmartin-15

Nothing wrong with being unproductive if you and your loved ones don't have a problem with it!!
It's your life why not live it, but only if you are sure that it won't effect you badly!!!
People feel guilty thinking what they can and could achieve, and if they are questioning themselves, I think they should work for a better life because that surely will make them happy.
Sometimes it's an ethical crime, I'd say to not improve- you can hurt yourself and your loved ones(many people who do not grow tend to find other things to blame and can become too miserable thinking about themselves all the time).
"People when decide not to grow they do not remain constant(like we think they should) they degrade"- a very famous observational statement!!!!

@hazelpanda-96 What is wrong with not being productive, why do we have to do anything at all? Why can’t we just li…
swiftorchid-87

exactly what am doing since last 3 years..not recomended🥹

@hazelpanda-96 What is wrong with not being productive, why do we have to do anything at all? Why can’t we just li…
sharpdolphin-67

Lets take a step back here
First thing is though
We weren’t forced to even be born into this world to begin with

sharpdolphin-67

Honestly like if you’re unproductive
Without having to deal with any obligations, nor having to pay back debt, nothing whatsoever
You’re a free person to do whatever the fuck you wanna do whether its unproductive or whatever
Like you’re a free person without no bs around you

@wildmartin-15 Nothing wrong with being unproductive if you and your loved ones don't have a problem with it!! It'…
hazelpanda-96 OP

Well.. really good words and I agree to most of it. I just feel soemtimes that it is totally unnecessary to feel anxiety or sadness or any sort of negative emotion for what could have been. Sure, it hels us do better, but if the goal in life is to be happy, why not be successful today. :cuteblob:

@wildmartin-15 Nothing wrong with being unproductive if you and your loved ones don't have a problem with it!! It'…
hazelpanda-96 OP

But I agree with what you said.

@swiftorchid-87 exactly what am doing since last 3 years..not recomended🥹
hazelpanda-96 OP

:y_shook: :y_shook:

@sharpdolphin-67 Lets take a step back here First thing is though We weren’t forced to even be born into this world…
hazelpanda-96 OP

Exactllyyy

@sharpdolphin-67 Honestly like if you’re unproductive Without having to deal with any obligations, nor having to pay…
hazelpanda-96 OP

Yessss the freedom it brings from all the societal expectations, from truly pursuing something you like instead of what you are supposed to do. We are not truly free right now.

hazelpanda-96 OP

I am suddenly reminded of One Piece

@hazelpanda-96 Well.. really good words and I agree to most of it. I just feel soemtimes that it is totally unnece…
wildmartin-15

Yeah you speak so true!!
But as our mind is we keep thinking about stuff all the time lol.
I have done a lot of research this problem and the core solution I found was" the person who keeps thinking about himself/herself will be the most miserable".
The people who just learn to live life by seeing things other than themselves and enjoy it as it is- its adventures, it's gifts, it's curses, it's pains and problems... enjoys the most satisfactory and free life!!!!

wildwillow-13

mhm another one

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