Is Love a Choice or a Feeling? Deep Talk at FriendZone

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FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime hosts deep community discussions on complex topics like love and relationships. This announcement highlights a thought-provoking debate on whether love is an unexplainable feeling or a deliberate choice. It matters to our community because it encourages members to engage in meaningful, clear communication while fostering connections in a chill, active environment.

quickbadger-36 OP

So if someone said they love you; and you are like "why" a few people find that unromantic. But that's not the point anyways, if there answer is "I just do or idk, I have no reasons"
Hmm, when things get hard there will be no reason for them to stay in the future . What do you think

swiftorchid-87

Love in that sense sometimes doesnt even make sense to the person

swiftorchid-87

who got in love

swiftorchid-87

with someone

swiftorchid-87

people many times dont even know why they love the other person

swiftorchid-87

and i think its better cuz there's no one reason behind that deelings

quickbadger-36 OP

But I need a reason

quickbadger-36 OP

I do know why I said I need one

quickbadger-36 OP

Because certain people may love you for what they think you are or what they want you to be rather than who you are

swiftorchid-87

thats maybe cuz of ur past experiences

quickbadger-36 OP

I can easily give reasons why I love someone since it's not something I do based on feeling

quickbadger-36 OP

But on choice

swiftorchid-87

but people do love others without any reason

quickbadger-36 OP

Nope. Just wondering why people don't question it

swiftorchid-87

its jus come subconciously

swiftorchid-87

there's always a reason

swiftorchid-87

but sometimes even that person

swiftorchid-87

doesnt know what that is

quickbadger-36 OP

Shouldn't we think about it

swiftorchid-87

people do..but not when the other is confessing their love

quickbadger-36 OP

Huh, I guess I might have been too direct in a few situations

quickbadger-36 OP

I always go straight to the point

swiftorchid-87

i mean at one point people do question their relation

swiftorchid-87

but mostly after its been long after the start of relationship imo

quickbadger-36 OP

Hmm. I don't know, I kinda like when things are clear and talked about in the very beginning

quickbadger-36 OP

Cause I take things seriously

quickbadger-36 OP

Oh

quickbadger-36 OP

That's a bit crazy though

quickbadger-36 OP

Although it's your pref

quickbadger-36 OP

I like when things are clear

quickbadger-36 OP

Like in the useage of my time. If I should give it intentionally (fixing time for things) or sacrificing time. I'm for of the first type

quickbadger-36 OP

Yeah. Cause you may tend to operate on the social scripts of relationship which is not written down rather than what you actually want

snowyorange-96

Well its normal to ask thay

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