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Hi, I'm Nightshade (that's my preferred online name). I'm 19, engaged, and a momma of 1. I'm currently looking for friend to chat and game with. I'm usually busy with work, but in my free time I like to read, write, draw, game, swim, and go to the gym sometimes. My DMs are always open
You’re engaged have a baby and are 19? How’d you two meet if you don’t mind me asking? Feels like it’s so hard to find a committed relationship these days
19??? Already engaged??? Have a baby tooo???? Seriously 😐
It does happen just is very rare ik someone else on here who’s married at 19 with a kid
Okay but it's too early for marriage and all those things 😭
I mean it sued to he the standard
I wanted to wait and have kids when I was in my early 20s, but life happened and even though I wasn't ready for it I'm still grateful. Even if people get engaged, they don't have to get married right away
That is true! I assume most kids before 20 are probably accidents but happy ones haha
We exist to reproduce that’s why we’re on this planet
Exactly! I mean yes I wasn't mentally for financially prepared to have a child, and yes it was an accident, but I'm still gonna love him regardless if he was an accident or not
You're 19 and a momma?
I mean, is anyone ever ready? Espically financially plus this way you and your partner have the energy to do stuff with him and chase him around whilst you’re young
Win win if u ask me
Hii
Hi
Yes I am
Hey
Could be better, hbu
How are you
Could be better
Fight with my fiancé
It's over something stupid
I wouldn't let him go through my phone before he left for work
Yea, he said "bc I can" and slammed the door on his way out when I said no
Bc at the time I was on tiktok, but he knows the pin to it and can easily get on it whenever he wants, I dont care if hes on it bc I have nothing to hide, it's just im never really on my phone and the one time I wanted to be he cusses me out and slams the door
I did, and he said he was blocking my number until he gets home and I fix my attitude problem
I'm used to it at this point
I've tried and everytime I do he tells me to get out of the apartment or says he will take me to court and get full custody
He is my fiancè. That is telling me he will kick me out or take me to court to get full custody then break up with me when I try to talk to him about his behavior
what's going on
Oh and also not only that, I was on his messenger one day, and saw he was texting his ex gf before me, she mentally and physically abused him. I asked him about it, he said he didn't text her, so I blocked her. Next day I check again, shes back on his messenger asking when they can meet up and work things out and his response was in a week
Honestly, that doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship although I guess you’re both under a lot of stress with a baby.
Like my parents been married 30 years and don’t block each other or treat each other that way.
Just something to bear in mind cus marriage is a big commitment
Maybe you guys need to go to like couples therapy or something
