Do Looks Matter More Than Personality? | FriendZone Debate
Summary
The FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC community recently held a deep discussion on whether looks or personality hold more weight in modern dating. Members debated the challenges of finding loyal partners and the impact of social expectations on relationships. This conversation highlights the active, thought-provoking environment found within the server, where members openly share their perspectives on life, love, and personal experiences.
Nowadays only looks matter, we judge someone before understanding their character, and the girls with great personality but with looks of an average are always the least priority for anyone, never payed attention enough, even when they try their best to get noticed and in the end the girl with popularity and looks claims the spotlight with many supporters,
Both genders lowk do this.
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Nah not lowk.
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HIGHKEY.
This ain’t a girl thing this is a general thing and woman do it too if not more than men because they have a lot more options
Y'all think girls do this, but later u end up seeing a pretty girl with a chopped off guy, why u may ask?? She only thought abt personality and other shi , and that dude mostly chose for looks,
It depends
No I think for a lot lowkey they think their not pretty so settle
Im a guy who cares about personality only but trust me girls don’t give me a chance
In most cases it's like that, cause girls have very high expectations whereas the guy jst wants a loyal partner,
Yep exactly I just want a woman to marry lowkey and spend the rest of my life with and make memories!
But feel li that’s not really a thing anymore
And do u think, u can find a girl like that??
Eventually maybe
But I think it’ll take a long time
Because I don’t think the majority of woman want to settle down anymore
Lol our gen is way more ahead
How old r u rn age iydm me asking?
24
I wish all the best for your upbright future bro..
You too
But mate ik you’re young but don’t loose hipe
You’ll find someone too
No thanks, I'm thinking of living a yolo life instead
Wait
Just get a dog
Or something lol
I have already lmao
Your set then lmao
Lol
Aren't you indirectly proving me right by saying she should be with someone that looksmatches her? 💀
Everybody inherently judges based on looks on first impression, the only ones who don't are blind people.
and literal babies.
I’m blind
Hi blind, I'm dad.
And I agree tbh ppl judge based on looks too much lmao
Um around here it's behaviour
We are basically here to debate, thus I'm on the opposing team, as we both are right and wrong in a few point bases,
Fr I'm trying hard to frame a question against it,
But Dude.. One thing that i noticed is that You’re proving that looks can affect a first impression, not that looks matter more than personality. Those are two completely different claims. If your argument is ‘everyone notices appearance first,’ sure. But noticing someone’s looks ≠ choosing them because of their looks. Attraction can start with appearance, but whether someone actually wants a relationship depends on compatibility, personality, values, trust, etc. So unless you can prove that boys prioritize looks over those things, your conclusion doesn’t follow from your premise..
What about the money :D. Isn't if a factor too ?
That is not true bc im a boy and i look for personality not looks idc if you look good or not
But i understand your point
You mean generally
But im just talking about myself
So i agree
Not really if you are the husband you would carry the family most even if you had a gf you would pay for most stuff
Obviously money can be a factor,
but that still doesn’t prove looks > personality. If we’re adding every possible factor, then the argument isn’t ‘boys go for looks,’ it’s 'people consider multiple things.'then..
Bro switched up from do boys prioritize looks? to who’s paying the bills? 😭 Stay on topic, we’re debating attraction, not your imaginary marriage contract.
He asked if money was a factor i answered why even care while im talking to him i already answered your take
I gave the reply for this,
