Are Men Better at Friendship? | FriendZone Debate
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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community recently sparked a lively debate regarding whether men or women are better at maintaining friendships. Members shared contrasting perspectives on emotional depth, communication styles, and the nature of social drama. This discussion highlights the diverse opinions within our active chat, proving that FriendZone is the perfect place to engage in thought-provoking social topics.
Men are better at friendship than Women
I dont know 🤷♀️ I have really amazing female friends and male friends and overall my female friends are better for depper conversations and emotional connection and my guy friends are just there for surface level stuff
i meant friendship within the same gender like men's freindship with men
are you a man or a woman first
man
How would you know😭 Do you have close female friends or a sister who gave the impression female friendships are hard
yes
and i have seen it a lot
what kinda issues did they bring up that men maybe deal with less?
women usually are more common to talk behind their freinds while men do not do that much
thats what i have felt
but its just my opinion with my experiences
In my mixed gender fg the guys usually get into more drama but they just are better at staying quiet
I don't know. I honestly don't agree much, sonce I have good friendships even with female friends instead of guys
Idk i think this isnt valid i feel like men and woman talk shit its natural
But woman have deeper connections tbh from my experience
Men worry too much about how they are perceived and are surface level and a bad support system
yea most men are def not good at consoling or things like that
but i feel men are more honest and straightforward
my friends would talk shit bout each other as a joke in front of each other but never say bad things bout anyone behind their back
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great opinion..blehh
Opinions are to be said
yea thats why it will always be a opnion and can never be a fact
Oh God, not you again 
You like tea
🤮
whats wrong with it gng
abdullah u have never tasted a good tea
Soooo am thr leader of the coffee gang and it's a gang for spreading coffee and love for coffee lovers
Because they are nonchalant, don't take everything serious
NO I DON'T
NUH UH
I hate tea
🤮
Ok i agree some parts
a morning without tea is not a great morning
Female sometimes only wanna be friends with female bc they have bf
Or husband
A morning with coffee is even better
Which is bad
Ragebait
Idk i have some female friends that are married
Coffee bait 
BC THERE NOT THE SAME ONE IS LIKE PISS THE OTHER IS LIKE HOLY WATER
Its different
Maybe
Lets say some female want steal
Their husband
Ohhhhhh right
That person cant be trusted
U gain trust issues
Damn
yeaa
Boom boom kaboom 💥
cap trust me
What if the women tried to manipulate him to go against u
And belive their words
Over urs
u r born too late for that abdullah /jk
Well it's a legacy i can live in 💥
so my friends are talkin shi bout me behind my back
thats a first one
Good good
In terms of deep friendship and connections
Women are better
But it's common for some to be shitty people and betrayer who talk I'll of their friends in their back
But in stable relationship o will say men
It's rare to see men jealous of their fellow men
Ye thats valid
yea..idk bout deeper connection but most men are def not jelous of eachother
i think most women prefer their bf to not have many female friends
thats great though
Female friends okay
Female besties
Hell nah
I am your lady and should be your only bestie
💔
yea cuz i wont feel good too if my gf has too many male best friends..
Everyone with their choices
For me a big "NO"
Males loves to flirt with their girl bestie
Some
Best friends aren't mere friendships , they are deeper
So....I am to possessive for that
btw he too won't be happy if I have male besties so I see no reason for me being happy if he has one too
u think non of them ever have or maybe a friend of a friend LOL
If it's a big friend group then in most cases yes, men do it better. mostly for women big friend groups don't work out. In the rest of the cases it depends on the person and personality not gender.
Yk he's your best friend when you know what will he do next or know more about him generally
The claim that women struggle with large groups often stems from the idea that female friendships are frequently more emotionally demanding. When a group is based on high level vulnerability and one on one deep connections, it becomes much harder to keep ten people on the same page than it is in a group that just meets up to play games or watch sports.
Yes
Not always sometimes a girl bestie is just like a sister, and flirting would actually be pretty awkward.
A guy i used to date called girls sister after he asked them to be gf
And they were very
Close
Like i said not all men are the same
I said some
.
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That sounds like a major red flag. Using family labels usually just makes the 'closeness' harder for a partner to question.
Honestly, if they were that close and he was asking them out, the 'sister' label feels like a total cover up.
Ye it was
They why risk it
In large groups, men tend to focus on the collective vibe rather than individual side-dramas, which can sometimes make big friend groups last longer.
For some, it’s just simpler you show up, hang out, and don't have to overthink the status of the friendship every day.
Yea fam
Some*
Others are dramatic
Play victim
Like the world ending or some
Facts
same ngl
well
i think thats a friendship based thing
maybe your more close with her than ur boys
same here
i havent
my boys we have deep convos
just friendshup
ye
Nth but facts
So what happened, how did they all get lonely?
Nothing to do?
Or people dependent?
Well, I hope they get out of it
I for one view things such as sadness, depression Nd loneliness as things I avoid at all cost
How so?
You like being sad?
That's not normal
Your choice
Enjoy what suits you
I choose happiness all day of my life
Oh really
Hmm. I have a sister Nd a mom Nd alots of female friends
some women bitch on eachother sure some dont
Talking about ladies in that way just doesn't add up
Valid fr
Dam
😅
Tf
That's a you problem
Just give me money, I'm happy
There is no sadness
Everything is a choice
You can have one without the other
You just what both to prove their philosophy
Definitely happy people
They were given a chance to have kids if we follow his sufferings to happiness logic
Nah. They prefer if happens ofc. Since suffering is balance for happiness
what has this convo turned into lolll
You said you can have both
That happiness without suffering isn't gud enough
if I was the son of Elon Musk
I agree
That's happiness without suffering,at least not mine
Even elon musk has problems of he's own
I think I want his problems
Mine are too small
Yes bc without suffering happiness would have no purpose
That's a forced logic
Plz don't hope for other ppls lifes some are not as sweet as you think
Give if your money and I will prove you wrong 😅
Yes
Lol
For real. Some of us has to choose to be the poor ones so that the rich ones can have meaning
Damn, this is crazy
Let's say i give you 100 billion dollars cash and you made all your dreams to be true and you are married and you have a good life but you will lose all purpose bc you've just been given free happiness with no suffering
My purpose is to enjoy
Did I achieve it
Yes I did
If suffering was what makes happiness meaningful
Why don't people like it?
They should strive to suffer more
When you climb a mountain and you are tired and your hand is numb and you almost fall and you reach the top you will be happy very happy but let's say i took you up with a helicopter now where's the happiness
Was the ride not sweet?
My point is that, we only think suffering makes things meaningful because that's all we know
If I had to power to not suffer, I can find my own meaning
No that's different bc pol are suffering but if i give the same ppl a lot of food they would be grateful and they would thank me with all of there heart now let's give ppl who already have a loot of food regularly in there life they would be grateful yes but not as the other ppl
Oh. Right. Let them suffer give them food
Aren't we supposed to remove the suffering
Using suffering as a source of meaning just doesn't make sense
There are other sources for meaning
I didn't say that what am trying to say is ppl who are give happiness after suffering appreciate it more than ppl that have happiness in a golden plate and it would be meaningless
It's like saying life is only meaning because we can die
If I can't give, men. I have a thousand times that would never end to do
Ok let's say we made all ppl happy in the world free food free homes and made them all live happily you think all problems will go away or we would have more ??
So you don't want a golden plate?
we can't please everyone
No but i rather accept that someday i could get a golden plate that's the meaning
Let's say we did please everyone
What if you don't get it
Was all the sufferings worth it
Yes bc i died bowing my head to the one creator bc life is nothing but a test and a test must have hardships
I guess we all find meaning in different things
I find meaning in an enjoyable life
You mean in different ways i assume
I can accept that but life will never be enjoyable no matter how rich strong handsome you are hardships will always come
Yh
Understandable
At least. Let me enjoy on the gud side of life 
You mean the bad side of life
Gud side
Oh well you can enjoy it but the bad side will always come no matter what you do ever jesus himself didn't live a fair life
Lol, I'm running from it
As i said you could try to but it will always get to you
Never had an heart break
Elders are doing fine I guess
Hope you don't find someone like me cus i swear you will regret ever knowing me
If you try that sh*t
genuinely trash ragebait ur such a chud
idek what it means fr lol but hes just a fat incel
neither did i its bad either way 😑😑
incel doesnt mean that and trust me you fit into that crowd
but curious what way DID you mean all the shit you said
no one wants to do you
it literally means involuntary celibate
it still means that
dont make me agree with alphafoorframe bro😭😭💔💔
girl how have u never had any good female friends 😭😭
how old ru💔
Not even close 👍
incel
maybe its ur environment theres soo many cool girls on here though
im sure u will find some nice girls to befriend :p
i mean all my freinds r females well most
and their great freinds
including
A very old hot take..
LOL
ig it makes u old too
Unc unc
thankyou 
Im like 38 yo
Oldie
I'm 19 btw
Unc
Niece
must be wind
im getting head from a leech
Hi
it jsst clinged on and tbh im feeling EVERYTHING
Good
Ksa
personally i think it just depends on the type of people, and i don't really think it's the gender that determines whether or not someone is better at friendships but idk 😋
