Why You Should Never Go Back To Your Ex | FriendZone

Summary

At FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC, our community recently held a deep discussion on the importance of moving forward after a breakup. The conversation highlights why returning to an ex is often a mistake and emphasizes the value of self-focus and personal pacing. This thread serves as a reminder that everyone has their own unique story and that healing is a vital part of finding the right person in the future.

sharpdolphin-67 OP

I hate Relationships Topic
But this is life lessons for chat
No matter how many times love don’t last in relationships or in general
Never ever go back to your EX
Whether they ask for 2nd chances or not
Let them change and develop from their mistakes they made along with yours too
Because obviously it isnt about one or the other
Its rather both situations from each side of the spectrum
Its always good to move forward from the pain and suffer y’all cause together
And move on from the memories and live on your life you want until you will find another person in your life
Theres always gonna be that perfect significant other for you and it will wait for you no matter how old you are
For me
Im still waiting on my end too
So you dont need to rush yourself whatsoever
And focus on yourself as long you want
Like i said
Everybody in life has their own pacing and we have our own stories written in the books

@sharpdolphin-67 I hate Relationships Topic But this is life lessons for chat No matter how many times love don’t la…
snowyorange-96

Charles

snowyorange-96

I am impressed

snowyorange-96

U can write a whole book god damn

@sharpdolphin-67 I hate Relationships Topic But this is life lessons for chat No matter how many times love don’t la…
snowyorange-96

Hmm nah its the exes fault to not see the good value in the person they use to date

snowyorange-96

Some has trauma bonds so its hard for them to move on

@snowyorange-96 U can write a whole book god damn
sharpdolphin-67 OP

Yeah something like that

snowyorange-96

And others idk

@snowyorange-96 Hmm nah its the exes fault to not see the good value in the person they use to date
sharpdolphin-67 OP

It cant always be one sided unless it REALLY is one sided

snowyorange-96

Yes but going back to exes makes u learn

snowyorange-96

To never do mistake again n

snowyorange-96

I went back to my ex prob 50 times

@snowyorange-96 Yes but going back to exes makes u learn
sharpdolphin-67 OP

Idkkkkkk 2nd Chances is usually red flags to me

snowyorange-96

I was crazy ik

@snowyorange-96 I went back to my ex prob 50 times
sharpdolphin-67 OP

Ragebait

@snowyorange-96 I went back to my ex prob 50 times
sharpdolphin-67 OP

ngl that is kinda insane

@sharpdolphin-67 Ragebait
snowyorange-96

No its true he unadded me added me and stuff and blocked unblocked

snowyorange-96

It was messy

@sharpdolphin-67 Idkkkkkk 2nd Chances is usually red flags to me
snowyorange-96

Ye it is

@sharpdolphin-67 ngl that is kinda insane
snowyorange-96

Well i did not know better

@snowyorange-96 No its true he unadded me added me and stuff and blocked unblocked
sharpdolphin-67 OP

🤷‍♂️

snowyorange-96

So uhm yeah

snowyorange-96

He replaced me later

snowyorange-96

With a girl

sharpdolphin-67 OP

🤷‍♂️

snowyorange-96

And did u know

snowyorange-96

Its bc of that story

snowyorange-96

I found friendzone

snowyorange-96

Long ago

snowyorange-96

On my old acc

snowyorange-96

Ye i deleted some accs

snowyorange-96

And never got on some again

snowyorange-96

And switched mains

snowyorange-96

To much

sharpdolphin-67 OP

dang lots of alt accs

@sharpdolphin-67 dang lots of alt accs
snowyorange-96

I have 7

snowyorange-96

If i would compared to what i had before

snowyorange-96

And not deleted

snowyorange-96

I would have 9

sharpdolphin-67 OP

Why u need so many

@sharpdolphin-67 Why u need so many
snowyorange-96

Protecting my self

snowyorange-96

If i get hacked

snowyorange-96

Or banned

snowyorange-96

But i have good reputation

@snowyorange-96 Protecting my self
sharpdolphin-67 OP

Just dont do anything stupid is all

snowyorange-96

So i am shocked i do

@sharpdolphin-67 Just dont do anything stupid is all
snowyorange-96

Well i dont think i do anything that break

snowyorange-96

Discord tos

sharpdolphin-67 OP

Oh u had 9 discord accs is wild

sharpdolphin-67 OP

ive had my own discord acc for almost a decade now

sharpdolphin-67 OP

makes me feel OG

@sharpdolphin-67 Oh u had 9 discord accs is wild
snowyorange-96

Yeah

snowyorange-96

I have trauma

snowyorange-96

I escape trauma

@sharpdolphin-67 makes me feel OG
snowyorange-96

Frfr

@snowyorange-96 I escape trauma
sharpdolphin-67 OP

thats very rare nowadays

@sharpdolphin-67 thats very rare nowadays
snowyorange-96

Well so i had a huge trauma with one of my exes on discord

snowyorange-96

So i deleted the acc

@snowyorange-96 Well so i had a huge trauma with one of my exes on discord
sharpdolphin-67 OP

mmm i see

@sharpdolphin-67 mmm i see
snowyorange-96

Yeah and uh i Kinda abondened all my friends

snowyorange-96

Which was stupid move

snowyorange-96

When i deleted acc

snowyorange-96

Should saved their discord fr

@snowyorange-96 Yeah and uh i Kinda abondened all my friends
sharpdolphin-67 OP

Do u have other ways to contact them?

sharpdolphin-67 OP

or is it just only through discord

@sharpdolphin-67 Do u have other ways to contact them?
snowyorange-96

No bc roblox decided to delete my roblox acc

snowyorange-96

For No reason

snowyorange-96

Like bruh

sharpdolphin-67 OP

Are they like your true friends?

@sharpdolphin-67 Are they like your true friends?
snowyorange-96

Tbh i dont recall

snowyorange-96

Any memories

snowyorange-96

If they was

snowyorange-96

It was 6 yrs ago

sharpdolphin-67 OP

dang i was 21

snowyorange-96

Ye

snowyorange-96

And i litteraly only remember having friends there

snowyorange-96

And a weird group chat

snowyorange-96

People were sus

snowyorange-96

Im like shock

snowyorange-96

When i saw that

sharpdolphin-67 OP

Dang there was something like that back in the day

sharpdolphin-67 OP

U wasnt around during KIK days

sharpdolphin-67 OP

I was in random group chats with strange people

sharpdolphin-67 OP

dk them whatsoever but ended up making few friends on there

snowyorange-96

Yes thats nice to gain friends too

snowyorange-96

But ye

snowyorange-96

Interesting seeing diff ppl fr

snowyorange-96

Fr

sharpdolphin-67 OP

Im glad I made friends later in my life and i still get in contact with my irls a lot thank goodness

amberyellow-59

Never get relationship advice from discord bots

@amberyellow-59 Never get relationship advice from discord bots
sharpdolphin-67 OP

you genuinely ragebait people for fun

ambereagle-71

If you never get into a relationship you don't have to worry about cheating heartbreak or anything. being alone is so fun

@ambereagle-71 If you never get into a relationship you don't have to worry about cheating heartbreak or anything.…
sharpdolphin-67 OP

The Freedom to Single is amazing

sharpdolphin-67 OP

and having friends and family as well youre not technically alone at all

ambereagle-71

I hate being lonely but I love being alone

ambereagle-71
@ambereagle-71 I hate being lonely but I love being alone
sharpdolphin-67 OP

Its kinda like that most of the time but if u keep ur head up the game youll fr be locked in and not worry as much

@ambereagle-71 I hate being lonely but I love being alone
swiftorchid-87

truer words were never spoken

@sharpdolphin-67 Im glad I made friends later in my life and i still get in contact with my irls a lot thank goodness
snowyorange-96

Thats good

@sharpdolphin-67 I hate Relationships Topic But this is life lessons for chat No matter how many times love don’t la…
snowysilver-75

After not so thoroughly examining this let me go back to.my Ex :cutebaby:

snowyorange-96

Big sarcasm

snowyorange-96

Speaking

@snowysilver-75 After not so thoroughly examining this let me go back to.my Ex
sharpdolphin-67 OP

Gg

@sharpdolphin-67 Gg
snowysilver-75

Lmaoo

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