Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Join the Debate

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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community is currently engaged in a deep discussion regarding relationship loyalty. Members are debating whether cheating is ever justifiable or if it is a permanent character flaw. This thread explores complex perspectives on communication, trust, and whether one should date someone with a history of infidelity, highlighting the active and opinionated nature of our social hub.

sunnyjester-27 OP

Or once a cheater, always a cheater?

gentleharbor-49

Once a cheater always a cheater

gentleharbor-49

That's fact

rapidbadger-89

I need to know youll read this because i need a response... let me know your here

rapidbadger-89

stfu bru your probably 13 with a corn addiction

gentleharbor-49

Hahaha I'm old my guy

rapidbadger-89

right

gentleharbor-49

Yep

rapidbadger-89

mhmm

sunnyjester-27 OP

So you won't give them a chance?

rapidbadger-89

Are you with the same guy you cheated with?

gentleharbor-49

Depending on how the person cheated

sunnyjester-27 OP

Response about what?

rapidbadger-89

exactly

sunnyjester-27 OP

Wdym

sunnyjester-27 OP

Did you see me cheating?

rapidbadger-89

Did you cheat for the relationship or for the "fun" part

rapidbadger-89

Just askin bro

gentleharbor-49

I mean there should be a reason for my partner to cheat, it can be lack of communication and all the stuffs that makes relationship beautiful

gentleharbor-49

You know when the relationship lacks something the probability of cheating is higher

sunnyjester-27 OP

So there's a good and bad reason to cheat? Interesting, I thought cheating wasn't justified

sunnyjester-27 OP

But I'm interested to hear your opinion

sunnyjester-27 OP

It's a crazy question

gentleharbor-49

And if the partner cheat when everything is going well in the relationship that's intentional

gentleharbor-49

Yep there is

sunnyjester-27 OP

So if someone cheated for a good reason according to you,you won't mind them

sunnyjester-27 OP

He just said it. Earlier

gentleharbor-49

That means my partner cheated because i was at fault and the best thing my partner should do is to talk things down and if that don't work she can go ahead and cheat and the relationship ends there

sunnyjester-27 OP

I see, but if it's not your partner but the person you're trying to be with cheated for this reason

gentleharbor-49

As i said if the partner ignore to put the reason of cheating in front of you before cheating is considered as intentional and that person will do same thing again after accepting him or her

gentleharbor-49

As i said if the partner ignore to put the reason of cheating in front of you before cheating is considered as intentional and that person will do same thing again after accepting him or her

rustyvalley-83

First of, i dont think id date someone who i know cheated on someone else.

rustyvalley-83

It contradicts the saying "once beaten, twice shy"

rustyvalley-83

Only God forgives and forget lmao

gentleharbor-49

You got a point Bro

rustyvalley-83

Id could only help you become a better partner ...... but not my partner lol

quickranger-40

Depends on context

quickranger-40

If you cheated at age 17 on your highschool girlfriend when you were LDR in college…. I hold more forgiveness

quickranger-40

Cheated on your wife with 2 kids? Fuck off

quickranger-40

Cheated on your 4 year relationship with someone from work? Bye

gentleharbor-49

Yes that's true, the whole thing depends on the situation

rustyvalley-83

Ion even think people go about saying they cheated too

rustyvalley-83

To think I figured you cheated on someone else ..... its a no no for me

gentleharbor-49

Yeah no one will admit they cheated before

rustyvalley-83

Fred: Hi my name is fred, I cheated on my wife with 2 kids

rustyvalley-83

:y_shook:

gentleharbor-49

Yeah that won't happen

quickranger-40

You can lowk sniff it out by asking how the prev relationship ended

quickranger-40

Like long term relationship ended and yall had kids? Hmmm Did you feel like you were getting enough attention/satisfied?

quickranger-40

Women’s intuition never fails me

rustyvalley-83

Hm true tho

rustyvalley-83

I got one question tho, why does it seem people are more scared about getting married this days than ever

quickranger-40

I think hookup culture and cost of living is ruining gen z rn

quickranger-40

It’s easier to cheat nowadays than ever

steadyanchor-59

chez

swiftdelta-92

desperate people would

swiftorchid-87

hell naww

snowyorange-96

:tomsip:

@sunnyjester-27 Or once a cheater, always a cheater?
plaidgarden-51

Yep

@rustyvalley-83 Fred: Hi my name is fred, I cheated on my wife with 2 kids
sunnyjester-27 OP

They're ppl who admit because they feel guilty and some you'll find out from others

@rustyvalley-83 I got one question tho, why does it seem people are more scared about getting married this days tha…
sunnyjester-27 OP

Because nobody wants to suffer or and ppl are not as weak as before

@swiftdelta-92 desperate people would
sunnyjester-27 OP

:armscrossed:

sunnyjester-27 OP

Don't you think ppl can change

plaidgarden-51

What ?

@sunnyjester-27
plaidgarden-51

??

swiftorchid-87

maybe they can and would change..but ts shit aint for me

swiftorchid-87

i dont i can be ever comfotable with that sort of thing

@sunnyjester-27
plaidgarden-51

I said yes to once a cheater , always a cheater

@sunnyjester-27 Because nobody wants to suffer or and ppl are not as weak as before
rustyvalley-83

Hmm

@sunnyjester-27 Or once a cheater, always a cheater?
grandquiver-69

No but then again I just wouldn't date, too much issues

@grandquiver-69 No but then again I just wouldn't date, too much issues
rustyvalley-83

Yeah marry instead

@rustyvalley-83 Yeah marry instead
grandquiver-69

Nah, staying single is the best option

rustyvalley-83

Nah

rustyvalley-83

I still belive in love

brightanchor-51

Hell nah

@grandquiver-69 No but then again I just wouldn't date, too much issues
sunnyjester-27 OP

That's what everyone else says then ended up attached so badly to someone

@plaidgarden-51 I said yes to once a cheater , always a cheater
sunnyjester-27 OP

I see now, sorry🤭

@sunnyjester-27 That's what everyone else says then ended up attached so badly to someone
rustyvalley-83

@swiftorchid-87 i dont i can be ever comfotable with that sort of thing
sunnyjester-27 OP

What if you never knew until you started dating then found out, are you going to break up

@sunnyjester-27 That's what everyone else says then ended up attached so badly to someone
grandquiver-69

I made that point since I've never felt attracted to anyone nor even had a crush so I don't believe I will feel attached to someone in a romantic way, nor would I want that to happen with me

@sunnyjester-27 What if you never knew until you started dating then found out, are you going to break up
swiftorchid-87

I dont know tbh..and i hope i never find myself in that situation ever💔

@swiftorchid-87 I dont know tbh..and i hope i never find myself in that situation ever💔
rustyvalley-83

Real

@grandquiver-69 I made that point since I've never felt attracted to anyone nor even had a crush so I don't believe…
sunnyjester-27 OP

We shall see👀

@swiftorchid-87 I dont know tbh..and i hope i never find myself in that situation ever💔
sunnyjester-27 OP

That's why I asked, because it's not something usual

nobleriver-83

Call me stupid, but yes I would, ppl change

swiftdelta-92

changes you for someone else*

@gentleharbor-49 Once a cheater always a cheater
olivedolphin-12

AGREED

royalguitar-91

Maybe. I do believe can reform

gentleharbor-49

Well people change when they benefit from it, before someone will admit he or she cheated that means wher he or she went wasn't good like th old place

gentleharbor-49

I hope yo get my point?

@sunnyjester-27 We shall see👀
grandquiver-69

No

warmmeadow-65

WSP

@gentleharbor-49 Well people change when they benefit from it, before someone will admit he or she cheated that mean…
sunnyjester-27 OP

Yea, they regretted their actions

@nobleriver-83 Call me stupid, but yes I would, ppl change
sunnyjester-27 OP

Yea some learn from their mistakes and changed

@swiftdelta-92 changes you for someone else*
sunnyjester-27 OP

How?

@sunnyjester-27 Or once a cheater, always a cheater?
snowysilver-75

Most likely nah but if the person suerly changed then why not

snowyjungle-82

Nope...there is high probability they might do it again if we are together

smarteagle-90

Hey

royalanchor-52

What he/she is changed now

royalanchor-52

I'm a Monk btw

royalanchor-52

Maybe they want a true love

royalanchor-52

So if you cheated on someone who cheated on someone in the past, that would be fair lol

royalanchor-52

Everyone has to go to hell anyway. .

royalanchor-52

So and so

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