Finding Hope: Overcoming Past Trauma and Moving Forward

Summary

This discussion in FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime explores the challenges of processing past trauma and the desire to start over. Community members share perspectives on letting go of the past, the importance of self-growth, and finding motivation despite life's difficulties. It highlights the supportive nature of the server, where members can engage in deep, meaningful conversations about mental health and resilience.

sharpdolphin-67 OP

Idk if people can relate but
Life sucks a lot
Ive been depressed for months because of how life is going and such
Been in this loop since I was a little kid
Been through therapy and counseling
Didn't help for shit
Like Mentally speaking Im about to lose myself to the point Im gone
Like we wish we can start over life again but we only live once in this world
The message is
Never take your prime years for granted and always keep on moving forward and strive from greatness
Because people that works hard in this world deserves the best future among theirselves and their peers

quickbadger-36

What do you want to do when you start again?

quickbadger-36

You know basically you start the whole process with no database as usual like the first time

sharpdolphin-67 OP

I never even had any goals all my life, was constantly getting picked on by my so called friends back in the day

sharpdolphin-67 OP

Like my life was always constantly depressed all my life

@sharpdolphin-67 I never even had any goals all my life, was constantly getting picked on by my so called friends ba…
quickbadger-36

That wouldn't happen if you start over again?

sharpdolphin-67 OP

I had friends and we still do talk

@quickbadger-36 That wouldn't happen if you start over again?
sharpdolphin-67 OP

Beacuse I cant accept my own past

@sharpdolphin-67 Idk if people can relate but Life sucks a lot Ive been depressed for months because of how life is…
snowyorange-96

Animals will always be ur friend

sharpdolphin-67 OP

and never will

sharpdolphin-67 OP

I cant forgive people who hurt me

@sharpdolphin-67 Beacuse I cant accept my own past
quickbadger-36

Why? You can't change it So I don't see the point holding unto that

quickbadger-36

Why do you even remember it though :r_kermitcorner:

@quickbadger-36 Why? You can't change it So I don't see the point holding unto that
sharpdolphin-67 OP

its just trauma atp

@sharpdolphin-67 I never even had any goals all my life, was constantly getting picked on by my so called friends ba…
snowyorange-96

It happens, people pick on people

snowyorange-96

But u know who you are

quickbadger-36

I barely remember anything from years ago

snowyorange-96

You are good as you are

@quickbadger-36 Why do you even remember it though
sharpdolphin-67 OP

because i have a good memory throughout all my life

@sharpdolphin-67 its just trauma atp
quickbadger-36

Hmm. Everything is trauma for alot of people

sharpdolphin-67 OP

i cant be bothered to bring my personal life online but at least know from experiences

swiftdelta-92

you're ragebaiting

@swiftdelta-92 you're ragebaiting
sharpdolphin-67 OP

yeah man

@sharpdolphin-67 because i have a good memory throughout all my life
quickbadger-36

Well, remember those good times then

@swiftdelta-92 you're ragebaiting
quickbadger-36

I'm not

quickbadger-36

Alot of people get traumas easily theses days

@sharpdolphin-67 i cant be bothered to bring my personal life online but at least know from experiences
snowyorange-96

You can only make yourself see better if you choose to and put ur self together and enjoy stuff

@quickbadger-36 Well, remember those good times then
sharpdolphin-67 OP

the more i reminisce abt the good times the more i feel empty

swiftdelta-92

yea you are, dont pay attention to this person, professional rafebaiter

quickbadger-36

What I would consider not as a traumatic event might be a traumatic for someone else ig

@snowyorange-96 You can only make yourself see better if you choose to and put ur self together and enjoy stuff
sharpdolphin-67 OP

yeah im just glad i got a good childhood in the end

@sharpdolphin-67 the more i reminisce abt the good times the more i feel empty
quickbadger-36

Okay

@sharpdolphin-67 yeah im just glad i got a good childhood in the end
snowyorange-96

Thats good

snowyorange-96

Dont complain from past

@swiftdelta-92 yea you are, dont pay attention to this person, professional rafebaiter
quickbadger-36

Like I said I am not ragebaiting him

snowyorange-96

You can only look forward

snowyorange-96

In life

swiftdelta-92

its so obvious

swiftdelta-92

trying so hard yet being bad at it

quickbadger-36

Well,suite yourself

quickbadger-36

Idgf

snowyorange-96

You can choose to stay depressed

snowyorange-96

Or do changes

snowyorange-96

And enjoy ur life

snowyorange-96

Its only up to you

snowyorange-96

To find ur self

snowyorange-96

And ur own goals

swiftdelta-92
@snowyorange-96 Dont complain from past
sharpdolphin-67 OP

its hard

@snowyorange-96 You can only look forward
sharpdolphin-67 OP

thats true

sharpdolphin-67 OP

QiQi fr cooking

@sharpdolphin-67 its hard
snowyorange-96

I know it is but how can you move on

snowyorange-96

If you are stuck in past

sharpdolphin-67 OP

by moving forward yes

swiftdelta-92

i lise braincells everytime i read one of qiqis messages

swiftdelta-92

see, im having grammar issues now

@sharpdolphin-67 Idk if people can relate but Life sucks a lot Ive been depressed for months because of how life is…
sageviolet-79

yo wtf are you on deal with it?

@sageviolet-79 yo wtf are you on deal with it?
sharpdolphin-67 OP

:y_stare:

sageviolet-79

your prob depressed cuz your goldfish died

@sageviolet-79 your prob depressed cuz your goldfish died
sharpdolphin-67 OP

the classic goldfish

sageviolet-79

saying you have trauma then going on abt how you remember ur whole childhood is sad 💔

sharpdolphin-67 OP

Is this another ragebait again bc i aint surprised

vividtiger-76

i do too fr

sageviolet-79

its not eben ragebait its a genuine question because people who dont fake their trauma actually can't remember their childhood

@sageviolet-79 its not eben ragebait its a genuine question because people who dont fake their trauma actually can…
sharpdolphin-67 OP

:y_stare:

grandquiver-69

That's just them not remembering cos they have a bad memory (my own memory is shit)

sageviolet-79

greatest response of all time

@sageviolet-79 its not eben ragebait its a genuine question because people who dont fake their trauma actually can…
snowyorange-96

You are wrong

snowyorange-96

People can remember their childhood trauma

snowyorange-96

Some of it

snowyorange-96

Not everything

snowyorange-96

But some of it

sharpdolphin-67 OP

you dont necessarily have to remember your childhood even if your going through that rough upbringing of your life

grandquiver-69

I don't have trauma, I make it (fictional)

sharpdolphin-67 OP

I dont get that logic whatsoever

@grandquiver-69 I don't have trauma, I make it (fictional)
sharpdolphin-67 OP

:tomsip:

@sageviolet-79 your prob depressed cuz your goldfish died
snowyorange-96

You can hide behind a screen and be toxic

snowyorange-96

but if you dont know anything

snowyorange-96

Then why u even comment

snowyorange-96

You might think being toxic is okay

snowyorange-96

It really is not

snowyorange-96

Not our fault ur so mad bc someone posts this like

snowyorange-96

Its embarassing

@sharpdolphin-67 you dont necessarily have to remember your childhood even if your going through that rough upbringi…
snowyorange-96

Dont u remember it if you get flashbacks

@snowyorange-96 Dont u remember it if you get flashbacks
sharpdolphin-67 OP

yes

@sharpdolphin-67 yes
snowyorange-96

Exactly so therefore you do remember ur past

snowyorange-96

I love getting flashbacks daily 💔

@snowyorange-96 You might think being toxic is okay
sageviolet-79

you might think being an angel is going to help anything

sageviolet-79

but it doesn't 💔

@snowyorange-96 Its embarassing
sageviolet-79

its embarresing to help someone who can't even defend themselves

@sageviolet-79 you might think being an angel is going to help anything
snowyorange-96

It helps more then being toxic

snowyorange-96

Toxic behavior is not cool

@sageviolet-79 its embarresing to help someone who can't even defend themselves
snowyorange-96

They can defend themselves if they want too, and if they don't then you are not worth their time

snowyorange-96

And effort

sageviolet-79

exactly so stop stepping up for them?

@snowyorange-96 Toxic behavior is not cool
sageviolet-79

omg im so hurt

@sageviolet-79 exactly so stop stepping up for them?
snowyorange-96

Who are you to tell me that

snowyorange-96

💀

sageviolet-79

your the easiest person on the planet to argue with 😭

sageviolet-79

please get better

@sageviolet-79 please get better
snowyorange-96

You can seek help

snowyorange-96

I advice therapy

sageviolet-79

i agree

@snowyorange-96 I advice therapy
sageviolet-79

i advice an asylum

snowyorange-96

Like idk what ur getting from this

sageviolet-79

its entertaining

sageviolet-79

what are you getting from this

sharpdolphin-67 OP

so just ragebait atp?

@sageviolet-79 its entertaining
snowyorange-96

Entertain ur self with grass

snowyorange-96

Its so much of it

sageviolet-79

damn your giving yourself advice now?

@sageviolet-79 damn your giving yourself advice now?
snowyorange-96

I gave you advice

snowyorange-96

Not my fault u dont have eyes

@sharpdolphin-67 so just ragebait atp?
sageviolet-79

you can even defend for yourself i would suggest shutting up kid 💔

@sageviolet-79 you can even defend for yourself i would suggest shutting up kid 💔
sharpdolphin-67 OP

defend myself for what? i dont understand

sageviolet-79

anything

snowyorange-96

You are sad bc he won't do what you want?

snowyorange-96

Crazy

sageviolet-79

yo twisting words is crazy

sharpdolphin-67 OP

i dont necessarily need to say much tbh

@sharpdolphin-67 defend myself for what? i dont understand
sageviolet-79

damn this nigga be sounding like a girl

sharpdolphin-67 OP

:y_stare:

sharpdolphin-67 OP

whos mans is this

@sharpdolphin-67 i dont necessarily need to say much tbh
snowyorange-96

Meh they are bored

snowyorange-96

Not me argue at 2 am

sageviolet-79

thats cringe

@sageviolet-79 thats cringe
snowyorange-96

You cringe and thats a fact

snowyorange-96

Now we can move on

snowyorange-96

Its clear

@snowyorange-96 You cringe and thats a fact
sageviolet-79

nigga ur bio says "anger issues" and "its/it" like hop off

@sageviolet-79 nigga ur bio says "anger issues" and "its/it" like hop off
snowyorange-96

You can hop off

snowyorange-96

I am good

sageviolet-79

greatest comeback of all time

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