Should You Text Your Ex? Relationship Advice at FriendZone

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silvertemple-38 OP

Pleaseeee help

ironarcher-48

advice regarding what?

silvertemple-38 OP

Should I text my ex

ironarcher-48

damn straight up.... why tho?

silvertemple-38 OP

I miss him but I also wanna mess with him

silvertemple-38 OP

I was thinking of sending this Bruh stop dreaming about me I needa sleep lmao 🤣

silvertemple-38 OP

Idk tho

ironarcher-48

oh that's a great one

ironarcher-48

wait so like do you want to get back with him or?

ironarcher-48

just for fun

silvertemple-38 OP

Thankssss ik

silvertemple-38 OP

I wanna get back with himmmm

silvertemple-38 OP

But he dating someone else 🙄

silvertemple-38 OP

He some bout if we break up than you and me can date

ironarcher-48

maybe u should say that and see how he responds and go on from there

silvertemple-38 OP

Say what?

ironarcher-48

the flirty line u were talking about earlier

ironarcher-48

its like flirty and lowkey funny at the same time

ironarcher-48

damn i should try that

mintguitar-64

Sounds like he wants to keep u as a side chick

silvertemple-38 OP

You shoulddd I feel like it wpuld work

silvertemple-38 OP

Shhh ima tryna be delusional

mintguitar-64

Or hear me out… move on

mintguitar-64

:cartoon_chilldaddy:

silvertemple-38 OP

Ive tried to i cant

mintguitar-64

Well the more you think about him the hard it will be

mintguitar-64

And talking about him also won’t help

silvertemple-38 OP

Okay but hear me out every time I move on a bit he texts me

silvertemple-38 OP

Its like he knows

mintguitar-64

Okay hear me out then.. u won’t like the one

mintguitar-64

Block ✨

silvertemple-38 OP

Hear me out Done it he texted from a different number

mintguitar-64

Hear me out… Keep blocking him

silvertemple-38 OP

To much effort

mintguitar-64

Worth it

mintguitar-64

He might know that u still down bad for it

ironarcher-48

hear me out go on a date

silvertemple-38 OP

With who?

silvertemple-38 OP

Him?

ironarcher-48

yea.....

silvertemple-38 OP

Okay and I am

mintguitar-64

Exactly

mintguitar-64

Idk how to help u

mintguitar-64

If you can’t help your self lowkey

silvertemple-38 OP

Okieeee

silvertemple-38 OP

Probably should mention i broke up with him 2 times

mintguitar-64

Bro-

mintguitar-64

And why did u

silvertemple-38 OP

Effort decreased he went from above bare minimum to below it

ironarcher-48

YAY

mintguitar-64

Lmfaoo

mintguitar-64

Crazy

ironarcher-48

damn

ironarcher-48

does he cheat?

silvertemple-38 OP

Fr?

mintguitar-64

Yep the septic up

silvertemple-38 OP

No i dont think so

silvertemple-38 OP

Ik that why I left then I came back he did it again so I left

ironarcher-48

does he ever look like he's trying to hide smth like messages or snaps... like that?

mintguitar-64

Well do you want to deal with that again?

silvertemple-38 OP

Lowkey yeah I think i can change him

silvertemple-38 OP

I know i can

mintguitar-64

Bro-

mintguitar-64

😭

mintguitar-64

I hate that life

mintguitar-64

“ I can fix him “

silvertemple-38 OP

Nope never I could go on his phone when ever

mintguitar-64

Bro u just going to get ur self hurt lowkey

ironarcher-48

green flag

silvertemple-38 OP

What if im into that lowkey

mintguitar-64

mintguitar-64

:ohno:

silvertemple-38 OP

Ngl he seems gay

silvertemple-38 OP

My ex

ironarcher-48

damn

mintguitar-64

💀💀💀

mintguitar-64

With all due respect I don’t think I can help you

ironarcher-48

everyone is a lil gay sometimes ngl

mintguitar-64

Since you are “ into it “

silvertemple-38 OP

Anyone can be fixed

silvertemple-38 OP

Give me one good reason and I wont

silvertemple-38 OP

Fr thats so true

mintguitar-64

Just because they can be fixed doesn’t mean they want to be fixed

mintguitar-64

Or will allow it to happen

mintguitar-64

Just like u rn ngl

mintguitar-64

You like getting hurt

silvertemple-38 OP

I hear you and I agree with you but ima listen to Kevin and text him

silvertemple-38 OP

Im desperate

silvertemple-38 OP

Also I can live with getting hurt cause then I can move on

ironarcher-48

YAY, fix him this time, be hard to get

silvertemple-38 OP

Okie I will :3

ironarcher-48

hangout with him like 2 days straight and then ghost him for like a week

ironarcher-48

he'll realise ur importance

mintguitar-64

Good luck ig

mintguitar-64

Imma let u both sort it

silvertemple-38 OP

Okie thanks tho

silvertemple-38 OP

You gave smart advice

mintguitar-64

:girlheart:

mintguitar-64

But ur desperate won’t take it

mintguitar-64

😂

silvertemple-38 OP

Huh? Whatcha mean

mintguitar-64

You are too desperate for him

mintguitar-64

Lol

silvertemple-38 OP

Okay hes the first guy to not cheat

silvertemple-38 OP

Im taking my win

silvertemple-38 OP

Lol

mintguitar-64

Ykw fair enough

mintguitar-64

:drawnheart:

ironarcher-48

W mans

mintguitar-64

Anyway cya :kekha:

silvertemple-38 OP

Cyaa

silvertemple-38 OP

Frr i know rightt

mintguitar-64

:girlheart:

silvertemple-38 OP

Yk what ima listen to you instead

mintguitar-64

Oh?

mintguitar-64

Why the change of heart

silvertemple-38 OP

You right im coming off to desperate

silvertemple-38 OP

Ima be super embarrassed if he switches up on me again

mintguitar-64

“. Coming off desperate “ ???

mintguitar-64

U literally said u was

mintguitar-64

😭🫶

silvertemple-38 OP

I am I dont want him to know that tho

mintguitar-64

Good

mintguitar-64

Like I’m
Happy for you that he hasn’t cheated though

mintguitar-64

But the fact u said u are okay with getting hurt

mintguitar-64

Is sad

mintguitar-64

Protect your self and your feelings

silvertemple-38 OP

Is it getting hurt is apart of life if you aren't okay with it are you really living life

silvertemple-38 OP

You only live once

mintguitar-64

Well using that mentality

mintguitar-64

You want to live your only life

mintguitar-64

Being hurt? Living in regret ?

mintguitar-64

Stuck on to one man?

ironarcher-48

yea i like gettin hurt as well it likes builds a stronger bond... if that makes sense

silvertemple-38 OP

I dont regret anything

silvertemple-38 OP

Nope but I aint got other options

silvertemple-38 OP

That I like

mintguitar-64

Fair

mintguitar-64

I see

mintguitar-64

Well doesn’t mean h should dwell on the one person though

mintguitar-64

I think once you fully get over him

mintguitar-64

Then maybe you might finding someone else interesting slowly

silvertemple-38 OP

True but im the kinda person that obsesses over someone and the only way to move on is find someone else to obsessed over

silvertemple-38 OP

Or they make me hate them

silvertemple-38 OP

Hence being okay with getting hirt

mintguitar-64

Bruh😭

mintguitar-64

Stop with being hurt

mintguitar-64

Please lol

mintguitar-64

It’s not the way to live

mintguitar-64

In the short term idk maybe?

mintguitar-64

Build character

silvertemple-38 OP

Yeahhh it builds character

mintguitar-64

Do you even give other guys a chance to talk with you ?

mintguitar-64

In general

ironarcher-48

wait wdym by gettin hurt?

silvertemple-38 OP

Huh?

silvertemple-38 OP

Yes?

mintguitar-64

Okay just checking lol

ironarcher-48

like gettin hurt emotionally right

silvertemple-38 OP

Well im not sure i kinda ignore them

mintguitar-64

I would assume

silvertemple-38 OP

Yes

mintguitar-64

Bro-!

mintguitar-64

So u barely give guys a chance to talk

silvertemple-38 OP

Well i let them talk but i dont listen

mintguitar-64

Bro why😭

mintguitar-64

That is what I mean

mintguitar-64

You don’t give them a chance

mintguitar-64

Like actually talk to them lol

silvertemple-38 OP

But i get nervous

mintguitar-64

U talking to me rn

mintguitar-64

News flash I’m a guy

silvertemple-38 OP

News flash there's a screen between us

silvertemple-38 OP

Makes it easier

mintguitar-64

Ohh he ur irl ex?

mintguitar-64

Mb lol

mintguitar-64

I’m
Being dumb

mintguitar-64

So valid

mintguitar-64

I’m no better

silvertemple-38 OP

Yeah he is but you good

silvertemple-38 OP

Fr?

mintguitar-64

Ty lol

mintguitar-64

No 😭

mintguitar-64

Yes lol

mintguitar-64

Never really talked to girls irl

ironarcher-48

damn with ur wisdom i thought you were moving

ironarcher-48

but respect tho

mintguitar-64

Coaches don’t play the game

ironarcher-48

frfr

mintguitar-64

:this:

mintguitar-64

Maybe that I why I’m giving. Decent advice?

mintguitar-64

Since I have not dealt it with

mintguitar-64

So I can’t relate ig?

ironarcher-48

that's a good thought

mintguitar-64

Yeah in some sense

silvertemple-38 OP

Frfr it is

ironarcher-48

do you wish to be single or haven't found the right person?

mintguitar-64

I want someone

mintguitar-64

I’m tired of being single

mintguitar-64

:ohno:

mintguitar-64

Wdym

ironarcher-48

get someone bro, there's plenty of fish in the sea

mintguitar-64

Idk how to😭

ironarcher-48

nah no way, you must find someone attractive.... like at ur school or neighbourhood or somewhere

silvertemple-38 OP

Listen to your own advice bro

mintguitar-64

Wdym bro

mintguitar-64

Idk how to talk fr

mintguitar-64

I’m telling u to move on

mintguitar-64

I have nothing to move on from

ironarcher-48

a great way to start a small talk is common interest or curiosity

mintguitar-64

I’m literally so bad at it

mintguitar-64

I can’t even hold a convo here

ironarcher-48

be confident don't overthink it and stop delaying it, the more time you wait, you loose ur confidence

silvertemple-38 OP

True its like 5am I haven't slept im being slow Nm

mintguitar-64

GO SLEEP

silvertemple-38 OP

Nah im invested now

mintguitar-64

That is too much for me. But good advice simple yet affective

mintguitar-64

GO…TO….SLEEEP

ironarcher-48

too much... common thats kinda like bare minimum bro

mintguitar-64

Yep

ironarcher-48

damn

mintguitar-64

Fr

silvertemple-38 OP

Nah i get that I barley talked in my relationship with my ex

silvertemple-38 OP

Noooo

mintguitar-64

Ohhh w

mintguitar-64

You can relate lol

mintguitar-64

Except u managed to get someone

mintguitar-64

😔

mintguitar-64

GO SLEEP NOW

silvertemple-38 OP

Yeah for some reason guys like that i dont talk lol

silvertemple-38 OP

Not tired

ironarcher-48

wait what's ur sleep schedule like?

mintguitar-64

Go sleep

mintguitar-64

Ykw so valid

mintguitar-64

Some girls be complaining too much

silvertemple-38 OP

I pass out at like 8am and wake up an hour later

ironarcher-48

wait how many hours do you sleep then?

silvertemple-38 OP

Fr I think thats it or its a weird fetish

silvertemple-38 OP

Idk

silvertemple-38 OP

Im sure a girl would like ypur shyness

silvertemple-38 OP

An hour

ironarcher-48

yea but in my experience shy girls are the wreckers, they seem innocent and all

ironarcher-48

but they mad sus

mintguitar-64

Idk tbh

mintguitar-64

Maybe

ironarcher-48

omg... are we serious, don't you want to live till ur 60s?

mintguitar-64

How tf do u sleep an hour everyday a

mintguitar-64

Don’t say that since she is kinda shy😭

silvertemple-38 OP

Nah

silvertemple-38 OP

Energy drinks

mintguitar-64

Stop drinking.

mintguitar-64

Start sleeping.

ironarcher-48

omg pls take care of ur health

mintguitar-64

Fr

ironarcher-48

do you exercise?

mintguitar-64

Doesn’t sleep

mintguitar-64

Just drinks energy drinks

mintguitar-64

Bad bad

silvertemple-38 OP

Fr I do they are my breakfast and lunch

mintguitar-64

What tf girl

mintguitar-64

Stop drinking them

ironarcher-48

omg how are u even functioning rn?

mintguitar-64

EXACTLY

mintguitar-64

You are completely messed up

silvertemple-38 OP

If I do ill miss work and my classes

mintguitar-64

Learn to sleep

mintguitar-64

NOT 1 hour

mintguitar-64

cut back on them

silvertemple-38 OP

Some sleep is better than none

silvertemple-38 OP

I barley am ngl

mintguitar-64

Yes but that is basically nothing

mintguitar-64

Exactly u are living on hopes and dreams

ironarcher-48

nah sleep does wonderful things, sleep is like a superpower

mintguitar-64

Maybe he means that how little she is sleeping it won’t help ?

mintguitar-64

Yeah good point

silvertemple-38 OP

Damn im not tired tho

mintguitar-64

Imma slap you

mintguitar-64

You can’t be tired if you have drank 20 monsters in 24 hours

silvertemple-38 OP

30

silvertemple-38 OP

But yeah

mintguitar-64

Pls tell me ur joking

silvertemple-38 OP

No i drink them like crazy

ironarcher-48

oh my bad

mintguitar-64

How much roughly do u actually drink in a day

mintguitar-64

Like actually

ironarcher-48

exercise or go to the gym for atleat 1 hr you'll sleep like a baby

mintguitar-64

I see u want her to tied her self out fully

silvertemple-38 OP

Roughly I drink 3 every hour so idk im not good at math

mintguitar-64

WHAT THE ACTUAL FU-

ironarcher-48

tire herself in a good and healthy way

mintguitar-64

So quite literally like 30 a day

mintguitar-64

Yeahhh

ironarcher-48

omg whar flavour is ur fav tho?

mintguitar-64

WHAT IS WEONG WIRH U ( respectfully )

mintguitar-64

Bro fr???😭

mintguitar-64

Bro has his priorities

silvertemple-38 OP

Strawberry dreams or the white one :3

silvertemple-38 OP

Nothing

mintguitar-64

Good now make ur consumptions less

mintguitar-64

Cuz wtf

silvertemple-38 OP

I needa stay awake tho

mintguitar-64

Bro you are going to be awake even in your sleep

mintguitar-64

Stop drinking so much now

mintguitar-64

I’m being fr

mintguitar-64

Exactly wise words

ironarcher-48

oh the white one is the og but i've never tried the strawberry one

silvertemple-38 OP

Okay but one dont work ill fall asleep so I need 3

mintguitar-64

BRO please

ironarcher-48

yea my bad

mintguitar-64

No

silvertemple-38 OP

Ooh the strawberry one is gooddd

mintguitar-64

Get ur priorities straight

ironarcher-48

alr bet ima try it soon

silvertemple-38 OP

Okie but im failing classes i needa study

ironarcher-48

what about celtic? do you drink that?

ironarcher-48

studyin with 1hr of sleep is impossible

mintguitar-64

But u are failing ur livers

mintguitar-64

Exactly

ironarcher-48

fr

silvertemple-38 OP

Not if you drink 30 energy drinks

mintguitar-64

Ur brain is fuc—ed

ironarcher-48

is ur mind ever calm?

mintguitar-64

Good question

silvertemple-38 OP

Yes

silvertemple-38 OP

It is good

silvertemple-38 OP

No

ironarcher-48

well then i recommend you to hit the gym and meditate and for gods sake stop drinking

silvertemple-38 OP

Sometimes I go for runs to lose energy cuz its to much

silvertemple-38 OP

Then I drink more

silvertemple-38 OP

Yk what I might be addicted

silvertemple-38 OP

I need help

mintguitar-64

Nah you ain’t addicted

mintguitar-64

Who can be addicted from drinking 30 energy drinks a day 😒

silvertemple-38 OP

Nah you right I ain't

ironarcher-48

yea fr no one

silvertemple-38 OP

What about 31?

silvertemple-38 OP

🤔

mintguitar-64

I’m going to slap u

mintguitar-64

I drink 40 a day but I’m not addicted

silvertemple-38 OP

I did the math I drink 72

silvertemple-38 OP

A day

mintguitar-64

No u don’t…

ironarcher-48

yea that's pretty normal

ironarcher-48

omg like 3 every hour

silvertemple-38 OP

Yeahhh

mintguitar-64

There is no way in hell you are drinking 70 energy drinks a day

mintguitar-64

Even 30 is way to much

ironarcher-48

yea that's crazy

mintguitar-64

What the actual fuck-

ironarcher-48

wait how do u spend on monsters every month?

silvertemple-38 OP

Idk a lot

silvertemple-38 OP

I dont keep track

ironarcher-48

maybe u should

mintguitar-64

Probably like a $1000

mintguitar-64

How much does one can cost you ?

silvertemple-38 OP

3 dollars

mintguitar-64

This can’t be right

ironarcher-48

omg i did the math its 6k$

mintguitar-64

EXACTLY

mintguitar-64

THIS HAS TO GE RAGE BAIT?

mintguitar-64

There is no fucking way u are spending around 6k a month on energy drinks

ironarcher-48

yea fr

ironarcher-48

no way

ironarcher-48

thats like 72k$ a year

ironarcher-48

a median household salary on monsters is crazy

ironarcher-48

i admint it you got us well played

mintguitar-64

Yeah this can’t be real

silvertemple-38 OP

Nahh Im being fr

mintguitar-64

No

silvertemple-38 OP

Yeah

ironarcher-48

stop the cap

silvertemple-38 OP

Im not caping

mintguitar-64

I don’t believe you are spending $6k A MONTH

ironarcher-48

its no use, we ain't that dumb

mintguitar-64

On energy drinks

mintguitar-64

You could buy a house with the amount u are spending on energy drinks

ironarcher-48

fr even a decent car, like a mustang or corvette

mintguitar-64

Unless you are making like 300k+ a year

silvertemple-38 OP

I buy like 5 cases of them and my friends buy me some ans buy more when they aren't around

mintguitar-64

Or should I say 100k to be generous

silvertemple-38 OP

So it not just me buying them

silvertemple-38 OP

I do make 3k a month tho

silvertemple-38 OP

So

ironarcher-48

wait i just figured it out, 72 cans of monsters per day is 11k mg of sugar and the lethal does is 5-10k mg, so you're technically dead

silvertemple-38 OP

Make sense i knew i felt weird

ironarcher-48

ur a living corpse frfr

mintguitar-64

You are telling me your friends are spending 2k on you?

silvertemple-38 OP

Well yeah i guess they are

silvertemple-38 OP

Cool

ironarcher-48

this is so cap

ironarcher-48

i can't believe i fell for this shi

mintguitar-64

How long have you been doing this

mintguitar-64

It was crazy enough before

mintguitar-64

But when we did the maths

mintguitar-64

It didn’t add up

silvertemple-38 OP

Um 2 months

ironarcher-48

there's no way in hell she is alive rn

mintguitar-64

Exactly

mintguitar-64

You have been going 2 month on like 2 hours asleep

mintguitar-64

And like 70 cans of monster ?

mintguitar-64

No way

silvertemple-38 OP

No 2 months on 70 monstera

mintguitar-64

I was scared u was going to say longer tbh

mintguitar-64

That surely has to be like impossible

mintguitar-64

Your body has to collapse

silvertemple-38 OP

Ive been sleeping an hour for like 5 years

mintguitar-64

Okay wtf

ironarcher-48

no way in hell

silvertemple-38 OP

Nah i did pass out once but idk if thays why

mintguitar-64

Nah it’s cuz you miss ur ex

mintguitar-64

😐

silvertemple-38 OP

Nah we were in a situationship than

silvertemple-38 OP

I was with him

ironarcher-48

This is not survivable for a full month. A person would likely die from cardiac arrest, seizure, or multi-organ failure within the first 24–72 hours. Before that they'd be violently ill — vomiting, heart racing uncontrollably, disoriented, possibly seizing. Medical intervention (IV fluids, activated charcoal, hemodialysis) might extend survival by a few days at most, but the cumulative assault on every organ system at once is more than the body can handle even with ICU care.

ironarcher-48

stop the cap

silvertemple-38 OP

Okay google and people can be wrong cuz im still alive

mintguitar-64

Exactly like surely you body would have to over load from the amount of sugar and caffeine you are taking

mintguitar-64

We aren’t even trying to hate on you or nothing

mintguitar-64

We are more concerned assuming this is ACTUALLY TRUE

ironarcher-48

bruv we fell into her trap she is playin with us

silvertemple-38 OP

Im not

silvertemple-38 OP

Im being fr

ironarcher-48

ain't no way in hell its true

mintguitar-64

With all due respect

mintguitar-64

If by some miracle it’s tire

mintguitar-64

True

mintguitar-64

U are a zombie

ironarcher-48

an alien frfr

silvertemple-38 OP

On my life im not capping

mintguitar-64

What life?

mintguitar-64

You are a caffein addicted zombie

silvertemple-38 OP

True

silvertemple-38 OP

Ngl i honestly dont know if I did my math right

silvertemple-38 OP

I cant think

mintguitar-64

Even like 50 cans a day

mintguitar-64

Is absurd

silvertemple-38 OP

How many hours would it be if I stop drinking them at like 9pm

silvertemple-38 OP

I get up at 9am

silvertemple-38 OP

12?

mintguitar-64

Yes

mintguitar-64

36 cans in 12 hours

mintguitar-64

If u drjnk 3 an hour

silvertemple-38 OP

Yeah so not 72 im to tired for math

silvertemple-38 OP

My bad

mintguitar-64

Nah even that is way too much

silvertemple-38 OP

Nahh

mintguitar-64

Yes.

ironarcher-48

so wait is it 36 cans in 24hrs?

mintguitar-64

12 hours

mintguitar-64

Well yes

mintguitar-64

36 cans a day

mintguitar-64

Roughly

silvertemple-38 OP

But all drunk in 12 hours

ironarcher-48

hmm that makes sense but thats still a lot

ironarcher-48

bruv so it 72 cans in 24hrs then

mintguitar-64

No she means she only drinks 12 out of the 24

silvertemple-38 OP

So in 2 days I drink 72

mintguitar-64

If u are doing n that

mintguitar-64

It’s about 31k a year

ironarcher-48

oh i see

silvertemple-38 OP

I could be rich rn

mintguitar-64

You should stop rn

silvertemple-38 OP

Stop sign? Where

mintguitar-64

With the amount you have drunk I would probably be awake for like 2 weeks straight or something

silvertemple-38 OP

What stop sign?

mintguitar-64

We are convened about you

mintguitar-64

And you are making jokes

silvertemple-38 OP

Ypu right my bad

mintguitar-64

I’m done here

ironarcher-48

are u done fooling us around?

mintguitar-64

Take care of ur health girl

mintguitar-64

Stay healthy

mintguitar-64

Take care

silvertemple-38 OP

Okieee fine

silvertemple-38 OP

I will

silvertemple-38 OP

Huh?

mintguitar-64

This is upto you

mintguitar-64

I’m done here

silvertemple-38 OP

Aww okay

mintguitar-64

:Logout:

ironarcher-48

nah im done aswell

mintguitar-64

:fr:

ironarcher-48

bye pls take care and stop fooling ppl around

mintguitar-64

:pepeeyeswide:

silvertemple-38 OP

Im notttt but thanks

mintguitar-64

Bye

mintguitar-64

Take care of your self.

silvertemple-38 OP

Thanks you tooo

mintguitar-64

:thicc:

silvertemple-38 OP

Lmao ima sleep

silvertemple-38 OP

Lmaooo now I dont want to

silvertemple-38 OP

:kyliesip:

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