Relationship Hot Takes: Is Love a Two-Way Street?

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jadeumber-10 OP

HOT TAKESs!!

many relationships fail because women weren’t taught how to treat a man, they were only taught how a man supposed to treat them

quickbadger-36

:pepetea:

sharpdolphin-67

Either or

sharpdolphin-67

not always one way or another

quickbadger-36

People just have expectations as always, Nd not everyone can live up to it even though we try to, in the end we are all just humans :armscrossed:

swiftorchid-87

yea they should take a course in college on how to treat men 101

silvertemple-32

i think it's not abt who treats how but more like how to keep things excited every now n on

jadeumber-10 OP

Like bfr, I tried my best to give her everything because she said, “Don’t disappoint me.” I apologized to her in case I couldn’t give her those kinds of things, but she’s still upset because I couldn’t get what she wanted. Even if she tried to give me something and couldn’t, I wouldn’t be mad at her.

rustyvalley-83

Youll be fine

fleetriver-67

At some pple get tired

jadeumber-10 OP

How can you so sure it’ll be fine

silvertemple-32

yea it's like a work in a group either u send the assignments with perfect marks or to meet the deadline u guys do whatever it can to make it work

fleetriver-67

But some pple wouldn't want to even put effort... What would you do

rustyvalley-83

But you love the person so much?

fleetriver-67

Yeah but if no effort then the love is useless

silvertemple-32

why would u even wanna be with that person from the start ..

fleetriver-67

They say love is blind ma'am

fleetriver-67

:tomsip:

snowyorange-96

And guys were not knows how to treat women

snowyorange-96

Dont be biased

silvertemple-32

nah it's not it's at least one thing that u get hooked by the other person, the problem is after u know more abt them

snowyorange-96

We all know that guys can be trash towards women

snowyorange-96

And both can be bad

snowyorange-96

So dont blame the women

snowyorange-96

For everything

snowyorange-96

Its the guys fault too

snowyorange-96

To fulfill their duty

snowyorange-96

People love to play

snowyorange-96

Not true

snowyorange-96

People are going for what makes more money

snowyorange-96

And looks

jadeumber-10 OP

True.

snowyorange-96

And have much expectations

jadeumber-10 OP

i’m not blaming all the women tho

jadeumber-10 OP

Some women

snowyorange-96

Some guys too btw

silvertemple-32

maybe u just happened to meet all of those

silvertemple-32

like what's the relationship built from the start?

snowyorange-96

Its the truth whats the generation turns to

jadeumber-10 OP

I’m currently experiencing this rn

snowyorange-96

Its play

snowyorange-96

And money

snowyorange-96

And fun

snowyorange-96

They pretend to love to gain

snowyorange-96

What they want

snowyorange-96

So people get fooled

jadeumber-10 OP

thats true, both genders btw

silvertemple-32

yeaaa but if u're selective enough u won't meet those ppl

snowyorange-96

You will meet those people regardless

silvertemple-32

why it start with the money tho

silvertemple-32

don't u feel bad achieving someone's money

snowyorange-96

You overlook what i said , i said people not me

silvertemple-32

gladly i haven't met those

snowyorange-96

Well it comes time

snowyorange-96

People are there

snowyorange-96

For shi

silvertemple-32

ahh my bad i mean by ppl as well

snowyorange-96

Greed is by peoples choices

silvertemple-32

then don't ever start the relationship then everything's got their own risk

snowyorange-96

Now people just wants bodys or like money stuff

snowyorange-96

Its sickening

fleetriver-67

True

snowyorange-96

Or to be rated

snowyorange-96

Wtv

silvertemple-32

well cut them off from the start? isn't it giving ppl some turn off when the other just suddenly ask abt that

snowyorange-96

If people are faking their personality

snowyorange-96

Its not easy to see

snowyorange-96

What they are actual after

snowyorange-96

People love to fake stuff

snowyorange-96

And when ur in love

snowyorange-96

Yeah they try trap you

silvertemple-32

yeaaa I think to build a relationship emotional stability is needed

snowyorange-96

Well so you see

snowyorange-96

It isnt easy always finding right people

snowyorange-96

Bc people love to play roles

snowyorange-96

They arent

silvertemple-32

then play ur own role then

silvertemple-32

if u feel lonely just playing someone around

silvertemple-32

u can't never get the real one when u're in desperate state

silvertemple-32

idk prolly u're just gonna pour urself to the bone

silvertemple-32

n it ended up like u're being the one who does lots of effort

silvertemple-32

cz u make the other comfortable by letting them do whatever they want

silvertemple-32

cz they know that the other is love em

snowyjungle-82

Even with the amount of abusive relationship
Women in those abusive marriages still treat those dumb men with care
Women are more likely to treat their partner well in a relationship
So your takes applies for only a few and can't fully be generalized

snowyjungle-82

Omy....🤦
So now the right thing to do is make a take of it here

grandquiver-69

Love seems to have too many rules

emberdelta-36

I agree with this

emberdelta-36

Finding a real and genuine person who will truly love you these days is rare,
speaking from experience lol.

grandquiver-69

Could be cos they're usually being fake from the start

rustyvalley-83

Regardless bro imma try love anyday anytime

jollynoodle-23

you were never even in a relationship shut the fuck up

emberdelta-36

Maybe

sunnyjester-27

Yeah same, a lot of men were never educated on healthy relationships, so they expect women to endure everything for love :armscrossed:

sunnyjester-27

Better to be with someone who is in your budget, not someone too expensive for you to afford

rustyvalley-83

This generation is cooked

rustyvalley-83

Cant we sit down and enjoy life's moment?

rustyvalley-83

Whats the worry about who loves and who doesnt?

rustyvalley-83

Take photos of every happy moment you encounter, cos thats all youll have after all

rustyvalley-83

Theres alot you cant handle at all

rustyvalley-83

Moments can never be never be recovered, same with life

rustyvalley-83

Love who hates you

sharpdolphin-67

Fax

sharpdolphin-67

i hate the biases with relationships lol

happyriver-46

yo wsp

happyriver-46

good wbuuu

happyriver-46

why did u ping me here?

sunnyjester-27

I'm enjoying life every day thank God :pepetea:

sunnyjester-27

Wasn't the one who made this take

rustyvalley-83

The world us slowly degrading and become more cold each day.

Worst part is that it would not get better

rustyvalley-83

(Sighs)

rustyvalley-83

As for me, imma live in my world (where love and peace exist)

You wouldnt wanna die with a frown on your face would you?

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