Self-Hatred vs. Self-Love: A Community Debate | FriendZone

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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community recently engaged in a thought-provoking debate regarding whether self-hatred acts as a catalyst for personal growth or a destructive force. Members explored the thin line between wanting to improve oneself and the dangers of negative self-perception. This discussion highlights the diverse perspectives within our active chat, emphasizing the importance of mental well-being and healthy...

swiftorchid-87 OP

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warmpanda-50

True true

warmpanda-50

It also helped me trying to *ff myself twice though:armscrossed:

warmpanda-50

But yeah

warmpanda-50

Self hatred is nice once you make peace with it

gentleunicorn-93

No

warmpanda-50

And with the fact that no matter how much good I make, deep down I'll always be the same shit person I was:armscrossed:

swiftorchid-87 OP

yess cuz self love is gayy

swiftorchid-87 OP

it helps u to always go beyond ur current situation

warmpanda-50

Sure. If you manage to stop yourself from s*icide

swiftorchid-87 OP

hmm yeah..natural selection

snowyjungle-82

👀
Tf

swiftorchid-87 OP

why

snowyjungle-82

There is nothing good in self hate...

swiftorchid-87 OP

i mean if u hate urself then u would try to change urself

swiftorchid-87 OP

and wont like to live like

swiftorchid-87 OP

the current version of urself

snowyjungle-82

You don't have to hate yourself to try changing to a better version....
If you think so then you have issues ig....

snowyjungle-82

When you love yourself you will won't to be better....

swiftorchid-87 OP

at the end of day u need some motivation to help u change and better urself

swiftorchid-87 OP

if u cant find something

swiftorchid-87 OP

positive motivation

swiftorchid-87 OP

then hating ur current slef

swiftorchid-87 OP

can really help imo

snowyjungle-82

You don't hate your current self you just want to be more better that is loving your self to improve

snowyjungle-82

Just like increasing a quality of goods cus you love it to be better

swiftorchid-87 OP

well thats an another way to look at it

snowyjungle-82

Not necessarily hating you know...

snowyjungle-82

Not necessarily hating you know...

swiftorchid-87 OP

yeaa it could be seen that way

grandquiver-69

I agree kinda

swiftorchid-87 OP

but in ur mind u r hating that part of urself

swiftorchid-87 OP

and u want to get away from it

grandquiver-69

Self hatred helps for good character development

snowyjungle-82

You don't you just feel you could be better...

swiftorchid-87 OP

:pepethink2:

swiftorchid-87 OP

idk am confused now

swiftorchid-87 OP

and am hating myself for it....

swiftorchid-87 OP

🥀

swiftorchid-87 OP

its just bout perspective ig

swiftorchid-87 OP

some may call it hatred

grandquiver-69

U can't hate yourself for being confused 💔

swiftorchid-87 OP

and some call it trying to improve ursef

swiftorchid-87 OP

:m_monster:

grandquiver-69

Go all in if u do

swiftorchid-87 OP

ig self hatred will turn u into the best person possible

swiftorchid-87 OP

or u will die

swiftorchid-87 OP

W-W situation

swiftorchid-87 OP

:brain:

grandquiver-69

It will make u the best frfr 💯

swiftorchid-87 OP

lezzz gooo

grandquiver-69

Or the best in death (jkjk)

snowyorange-96

Okay

grandquiver-69

Hiya QiQi

swiftorchid-87 OP

hell yea

grandquiver-69

Ok no jokes lol

snowyorange-96

Hi

snowyorange-96

Self hate is power

snowyorange-96

Im strong bc of self hate

grandquiver-69

Deffo 💯

snowyorange-96

i called two dogs cutr

grandquiver-69

I'm a changed person due to self hatred for my former selves

snowyorange-96

I was a supporter

snowyorange-96

Valid

grandquiver-69

Nicee

swiftorchid-87 OP

No correlation..

swiftorchid-87 OP

but yeaa

snowyorange-96

Very nice

grandquiver-69

Lmao

snowyorange-96

I hated my self forever

snowyorange-96

And eventually kinfa

snowyorange-96

Kinda

snowyorange-96

Like my self

snowyorange-96

A tiny bits

swiftorchid-87 OP

thats the way..

snowyorange-96

Lol

snowyjungle-82

I get you....
That is self criticism not self hatred
Different things
self love would make you criticize and be honest with yourself to be better

quickranger-40

I love myself enough to make it better

quickranger-40

But yea you gotta have a high tolerance for some level of suffering in order to improve

quickranger-40

Whoever puts in the easy work will have easy returns

snowyjungle-82

Criticism or discipline
Is a act of love not hatred

goldenranger-95

Self-hatred doesn't make you a better person at all

goldenranger-95

You can only say that because you think self-hatred means self-reflection and a way of seeing your flaws

goldenranger-95

Though it's another extreme that pulls you down into a very bad hole

goldenranger-95

Maybe you are saying self hatred as in the david goggins "I'm weak, I gotta work out more" sense, not in its real sense

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