Should Parents Cuss Around Kids? | FriendZone Debate

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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community is diving into a heated debate about whether parents should use profanity around their children. Members discuss the fine line between casual, authentic speech and harmful verbal abuse. This conversation highlights how different upbringings shape our views on language, making it a perfect example of the engaging, diverse discussions found in our active social server.

quickranger-40 OP

It’s just bad parenting. Im talking about the parents who don’t care, not the parents who do it by accident here and there

sharpdolphin-67

And also parents shouldn’t be verbally/non-verbally abusive to their own kids as well
Like why have a family atp 🤷‍♂️

@quickranger-40 It’s just bad parenting. Im talking about the parents who don’t care, not the parents who do it by…
snowyorange-96

Yes but they cuss and argue and many of them are selfish

snowyorange-96

So they dont care really

snowyorange-96

They only care about their own needs

gentlecomet-37

I can agree partially even if I don’t have a negative experience with it. My entire family are very jokey people along with just having a way of talking that lends itself to cursing very casually.

It’s just one of those things where you have to consider how the language is used. If it’s only out of anger, then it’s easy for a kid to associate those words with hate, which can lead more extreme forms of language. Didn’t have that around me thankfully but even then it sort of hurt me in the long run since I didn’t do well in more professional conversations but it helped me with more casual stuff.

@gentlecomet-37 I can agree partially even if I don’t have a negative experience with it. My entire family are very…
quickranger-40 OP

yea my family and i are like that too in the jokey sense but that's because we're all grown. they weren't doing that when i was a kid

quickranger-40 OP

cussing is vulgar and it has no place around children

grandquiver-69

Depends on what the words r ig

@quickranger-40 cussing is vulgar and it has no place around children
gentlecomet-37

It’s vulgar and I agree that it shouldn’t be around kids. But I wouldn’t say it’s bad parenting as much as it just depends on how it’s being used.

My grandmother used fuck more times in a sentence than any other person I have ever met but she did a good job helping raise me irregardless. Got me in a bit of trouble when I was small and just repeating what I heard. But it also taught me the differences in how you approach conversations; casual versus friendly. If she was throwing slurs down the Walmart aisles for the crime of shopping near her then I’d say yeah that’s bad parenting. I just see cursing as just a more casual way of speaking and in some ways being more authentic.

@grandquiver-69 Depends on what the words r ig
sharpdolphin-67

What the words are 🤣🤣😭😭
Words in general can fr hurt people

@sharpdolphin-67 What the words are 🤣🤣😭😭 Words in general can fr hurt people
grandquiver-69

I mean I feel like I can say the word shit around kids, it shouldn't hurt them

sharpdolphin-67

Maybe if its in a different context
Saying it verbally for instance
Or rather saying it in a chilled vibes way

grandquiver-69

Yeah it's not much of a big deal

@grandquiver-69 I mean I feel like I can say the word shit around kids, it shouldn't hurt them
quickranger-40 OP

are they your kids

@quickranger-40 are they your kids
grandquiver-69

No but ik many people with kids

grandquiver-69

My siblings r kids, not every cuss word is restricted around them

@grandquiver-69 My siblings r kids, not every cuss word is restricted around them
quickranger-40 OP

I mean that’s weird asf to cuss in front of your little children family members but clearly this is a result of your parents parenting decision that makes you think it’s ok

@quickranger-40 I mean that’s weird asf to cuss in front of your little children family members but clearly this is…
grandquiver-69

Well I don't say any strong words since that's just bad imo, main mild one is probs saying shit but I don't cuss other words in front of them

grandquiver-69

Can't even say damn sometimes

@grandquiver-69 Well I don't say any strong words since that's just bad imo, main mild one is probs saying shit but…
quickranger-40 OP

I’m confused why u don’t agree with this hot take then lmfao

@quickranger-40 I’m confused why u don’t agree with this hot take then lmfao
grandquiver-69

I partly agree, I think minor ones r fine tho

grandquiver-69

If you mean the stronger words then yeah not those but they're gonna learn those words eventually

quickbadger-36

:pepetea:

quickbadger-36

Can't wait for yah all to be parents

@quickbadger-36 Can't wait for yah all to be parents
wildmartin-15

Damn my man!!
Exactly lol.
Parenting is hard!!!!

swiftorchid-87

its a canon event..dont interfere

hazelpanda-96

I agree

@quickbadger-36 Can't wait for yah all to be parents
grandquiver-69

Ew... Kids

grandquiver-69

That won't happen for me if I can help it

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@grandquiver-69 That won't happen for me if I can help it
quickbadger-36

Well. If you can help it

quickbadger-36

Kids would have mind of their own :armscrossed:

@quickranger-40 It’s just bad parenting. Im talking about the parents who don’t care, not the parents who do it by…
happycandle-23

How will children learn cusses then

@happycandle-23 How will children learn cusses then
vividpanda-28

they shouldnt learn it 🙂

@vividpanda-28 they shouldnt learn it 🙂
happycandle-23

It's important

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