Should Periods Be Discussed Openly? | FriendZone Debate
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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime server recently hosted a lively debate regarding whether menstrual cycles should be discussed openly or kept private. Members explored the balance between personal privacy and the need to destigmatize natural bodily functions. This discussion highlights the diverse perspectives within our community and our commitment to hosting open, thought-provoking conversations on important social topics....
I think periods should be discussed openly when appropriate, but people should also be able to keep personal details private if they prefer.
Agreed
Agreed
And it's very common
Of course
No
I dont agree
Its gross
periods are gross??
Yes it is cause if u talk to much of it its actually not needed you can say you on period
But not go in small details
Thats whats gross
Some did an period ads
That was disgusting
I am so glad its gone
but not talkin bout
would cause to turn this topic into taboo
there are still places where periods of women are considered type of curse
people should be educated more that its just normal bodily cycle of women

Well they can be knowing what kind moods they are in and what they need
Why yall debating here
Everyone's know what periods are
You are certainly wrong
Not everyone knows what it is
Someone would ditch someone from having period
Well people just don't talk about it that doesn't mean they don't know
Well idk
Some dosent know
Umm Who doesn't then?
Thats what happend
Bru some people
.
Bruh
99% people know about ut
I can bet on that
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Everyone on internet know about it btw
everybody knows what periods are..but they dont know that its just a cycle of a body
some even consider it a curse or sum like that
Bruh
You both just stop it
Bruh
thats why they should be openly talk bout
Just stop it
No
That ridiculous

If u want us to stop why u even on this
Topic
Imagine
::
Idj
Idk

Exactly topics is for debates
Okay
Then It's up to women what she want
Many guys r ignorant
And Men can only agree or disagree
And think they experience simple pain
And yada yada
Bruh
If u want u can tell someone
If u don't want then don't tell
Simple
They wont always belive u
Imo
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Just use common sense
U don't have to tell everyone About this
but u can only tell people who u trust
Who said someone wanted to tell everyone
Use ur brain
They're just dumb
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You call someone dumb then what about you
I am neither sides
You are on this take even if u dislike hearing about it
Its so funny
this post was more about periods being discussed in society as a whole
I am just telling u can tell people u trust
rather than someone's personal
Bruh it's their choices
yea..
AND THAT'S IS VERY COMMON
It will get annoying if someone says its not that serious stop being dramatic
About it
Then they will just stop
And not even feel seen
Bruh It's so common
Whats common
Periods
Yeah but many says its not that serious and stop being dramatix
And lot more
Well idk , cuz i am not A girl ,but i heard period are stressful
It causes stress and pain
It causes mood swings
I know what's period are at age 8
Or maybe younger
Okay
So i think everyone knows about it
They ignored the signs
Much
Cuz they just don't wanna talk about it
And that's how society build
No they dont wanna be a good bf
Thats what
People don't like to talk about periods
Nah
Bruh
Yeah it is
Idk about others men
They actually ignore it?
Maybe cuz , they feel embarassing
Even Women don't like to talk about it
So how it's their fault
humans r meant to express things
Yes
soo yeah just do it
I mean , yeah if they wanna do
It's their choice
depends on the comfort nd safe they feel
Yea
Funny how even men know periods are natural and shouldn't be hidden like it's a taboo than some females
I mean let’s not normalize talking about any bodily fluids but I agree that periods are not a big deal at all
It’s a shame that some women in the world have to be exiled while they’re on their period JUST because it’s a period
thats why it should be discussed properly
so it doesnt be seen as a taboo
This is why having older sisters are the move
My brother isn’t one of those dumb ass men that go “ewwww” about periods
Yall ain’t men if u do that btw
faxx
Fr
Agreed
Ur a grown person saying periods are gross? Lmao
Ya know im just glad i was born as a male
Congratulations(?)
And a women too
Common qiqi L
For once it is a common QiQi L
remember that KiKi song by drake oh man lots of people were putting that song on repeat
Oh well I guess this is common for them 😭 embarrassing tho
Yes?
U got a problem?
There's no way ur serious
I am serious
Wow okay
So what about a period is gross to you?
Imagine someone is talking about the things that come out and the blood on the thing then it is disgusting topic like dont need to go that far
Thats definitely a perspective
I dont really find that gross 😭 im friends with mainly women so we do talk about our cycles sometimes
It's important to talk about these things since its kind of a big deal
Why especially that part
It's not like its inappropriate
It's just blood dude
And like whenever periods get mentioned in public spaces do you just get all angsty in the corner
yes
its not like theyre some evil process it’s pretty normal
i dont think anyone should care about them
Yaar as a man me yeh kahu ga idfk wo uncle ko banda mare jo marzi kare jo kehtw apni ammi behen ke liye sanitry pads leke jane se izzat kam hoti we should educate our sons about it and tell them to tespect and not to misbehave woth women as they r not in a very good mood
Yes!
Uh its a english chat fck
qiqi stfu
Well not everyone wanna hear what comes in ur pads
ur 21 get a job
arguing with little ass kids man damn
Everyone knows whats in it 😭
Its not arguement
Kids should get wisdom from the elderly
There's no wisdom on discord lmao
yeah
Im saying not everyone wants to know every little damn information
yes!
There was one person who changed the way i saw life
and they dont say every information
😭
Why are you so mad its not an argument
She said argue
im sorry to say but that was one person who was probably very rare to find on disc
Also if someone talking about their cycle made you uncomfortable, just tell them, don't complain on discord about it
Not very 21 year old of you
Yesss he gave me an whole lecture when i told him i was addicted to smoking and some other things i left them easily afterwards
I can talk how i want
Ok then people can talk about their periods
yes’
yes!
does that make sense to you qiqi
if not youre a hypocrite ooouuu
do u wanna be a hypocrite 🥺🥺🥺
Lmao did you block me?? I thought we weren't arguing
Let's be civil like adults 😹 lol
Depending on the people, personally I don't want to talk about it. And I don't really like ppl to know I'm having it
The topic in general not to a specific person
Its funny to complain about blocked
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Imagine grouping on someone
if that's how u feel 😭?
And the point you see me u will reply like
What💀
I dont understand what you're mad about. I just thought it was a bit immature how you were acting earlier...
Immature?
"I can talk how I want"
The only immature thing is yall grouping on me
Like bfr
I dont think anyone is grouping on you
Its a debate
I wont waste my time with no brainers
Ok you should probably get a job then
yea exactly
You should be to school not always stalking hot takes lmao
It's summer break 😭
WTS goin on chat
All gud?
Its all good 👍🏾
Lets see
They were grouping on me
So i stopped reply
It was only meant playful at first but others started to group
So i went on peaceful movie time
What about thinking periods are gross is playful
You dont know what thing i am talking about
Then explain?
I dont have to explain what i mean
Ok
Lowk..crows come in groups kinda
Anyone feels gross.if the topic is related to blood nd all..y'all shld try making the topic clean as possible ..its not like don't open up..yk weak minded ppl exist who might get scared when y'all mention such details..so y'all can just tell "periods" and continue the topic ig
what are they gonna discuss about?
rate periods
Why are...you typing.. like this... and I don't think op was talking about periods being brought up in random convos
I could be wrong but
Its kinda sad people get scared by periods . Sounds like a personal failing
0/10
poor women, i feel so powerless when i heard about an innocent woman suffering because of periods
(im 6'3 btw)
four shore
capppppppp
Yes that too
Yeah but unexpected
No you are failing to understand why people get scared of it
People can have trauma and all sorts other traumas
Who has trauma caused by periods??
The blood in general
If they have a traumatic past it will still trigger them
This is a reach
Are you one of those people?
Well yes i have intense fear of it
Oh QiQi u have Hemophobia/Hematophobia?
Well damn why didn't you start with that
Hemophobia
Nobody asked and i did not feel its needed in this conversation
Regardless of if ur afraid of blood or not, I still think periods should be discussed more openly. Just not with people like you
Well and also maybe some can ask questions about it sure then u can talk about it , but if u randomly talk about it and the person feels utterly uncomfortable then it just gets weird
And thats what i have been trying to say
Do you or do you not agree that periods should be discussed more openly
Thats kinda the whole point of the conversation
I said that with people who dont mind it you can talk in dms or irl about it
And if others dont feel comfterable then refrain from talking that to them or if they have fear
right(?)
I dont belive it should be discussed in servera
Publicly
to an extent yes . I just don't find it that big of an issue but to each their own
But like depends on what you are talking about i guess
Which wont trigger anyone else
I do feel like the blood is discussed often, more so just the pain. I have no idea what kinds of people ur talking to tho
Well some goes to an extreme lvl
On socials much
People should have big understanding of the pain
And overwhelmingness
then why not just let them know ur uncomfortable ?
Everyone express different ways and like if you will comment on a post online people will just hate on you for commenting, and the best to just do is scroll
oh ok. Then just block and go on about ur day
Well i am tired of this topic
I hate 4 am
So many people sleep peacefully
owo h
Thts crazy !! Saying them to block u when they are expressing their honesty abt their fears nd as a basic thing they expect some comfy words from u
Shows how rude ur words can be if the topic is especially abt periody
They said they felt uncomfortable about people talking about it in detail online
Unfortunately you are not everyone and don't go by the same morals
So its more mature to just block
So u can reassure them by trying not to talk abt it .instead of acting as "I'm open abt evrything" typa guy
Approach them slowly abt their fears .nd later slowly u can open up
thats not what im talking about in this specific context dude
If u r trying to justify smtg..u gotta keep some patience
The internet is the internet and people are gonna share whatever they want
Well im talking abt u and ur talks
I can't keep judging every internet guy
But it's fine if I can to a guy
Oh ig we're changing the subject 👀

Before I didnt know qiqi had a fear of blood so that's lowk mb
Nvm let's chill
have a good day mate
you too 🫡
I dont think they meant anything bad about it, just their opinions on what to do when a situation like that , comes to someone who feels uncomfortable or triggerd with situation that block could be situation, i dont have expectations on anyone based on what they will say.
Plus they are a minor so it is reasonable they come to block conclusion
On hot takes it is also easy to misunderstand peoples intentions
Well expressing in a bad way might be the same as being rude to the other side ppl..anyways ..what u r saying is indeed correct
Maybe for some
But for some not
Depends how they handle the situation
I'm talking abt th negative side ..we gotta be mature to think of both the sides
Thts for sure
Maybe
woah
So periods are dirty....?
Just stfu dude
You would have been one of those period if you mum didn't get pregn
What exactly there is scary....?
Someone what to be a superman
Crows are intelligent
Nice compliment atleast we grouped on a pigeon
If you claim we were grouping on someone
Dude is hunting.... I see u...
Idk why this hot take has so much talks
Its simple the answer is yes
It shld be discussed more open
Coming from my perspective where society is less talkative of it from other societies like america or others
I'd say say
What sup y'all
Dawg..speak clean..it's not about scary or anytg..it's just y'all can make sure to make it clean nd make it sound as much as u can
Aww u liked my compliment 
Period is a normal word dude,anybody who thinks its weird or not clean has a problem,
What should it be called then strawberry juices....?
So it would sound good,
You have no point here...
I didn't say for the word period gng..wt r u even on about
I g you have amnesia then....
Your problem not mine
Shhh
Who's this dude....
Who's this dude....
Not much hbu

yes