Should You Change for Others? | FriendZone Discussion
Summary
The FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC community is diving into a thought-provoking debate on whether it is healthy to change for the people we love. This announcement explores the balance between positive self-improvement and maintaining one's identity. Members are sharing their perspectives on when change is a beneficial choice for growth versus when it becomes an unfair condition for being loved.
you should change for people.
for people you love, if it’s in a good, positive way.
don’t change in a negative way. never.
but in a good way. if there’s something about you, what’s bad, wrong, what gets people upset, angry, annoyed, you should change these things.
only change in a better way.
never in a negative.
now there are tons of things, people are stuck with on you. here’s the point where it takes a healthy, judgmental conscience and mind, to distinguish what is right and important to change, and what is not.
simple words, just as an input. love to hear your opinions and views.
i’d say i agree.
but change should ultimately be a choice, something we do for ourselves to help us grow, not a condition for being loved
you’re right, no one should be forced to change.
