Should You Forgive a Cheater? Community Advice | FriendZone
Summary
The FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC community recently held a deep discussion on whether a partner should be forgiven after cheating. Members debated the complexities of insecurity, trust, and the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. This conversation highlights the supportive nature of our server, where members share real-life experiences to help others navigate difficult relationship dilemmas.
but left them cause why would I stay.
also being cheated one for the first time was well an unusual experience
you trust someone only for them to cheat on you for some petty reason, either for the chase or some validation
Or like an ego boost
yeah but regardless I'm glad I got the reason to leave them alone cause they were clinging too hard.
They realise their loss, but at least they got a hard life lesson lol
yeah but honestly they were a lost cause. shitty childhood, mother cheating with bunch of different men
so I understand them and forgive them but they need to be punished for their behaviour
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bruh neverrrrrr
ik, but onces you're in love you tend to rationalize it
yeah but whats the point of building back relationship on broken foundation?
why not hurt them back?
why be more mature? isn't revenge much more satisfactory
since you don't plan staying with them, why not hurt them back and be over with it
thats good if you can move past it without hurting them
I think there are 2 approaches
either you forgive and forget which is a far more superior option as you save your energy and move past it
or stay with them, cheat on them and let them know about it later.
, it really honestly depends on so much. Do you still love them? Can you forgive them? Do they deserve another chance?
