Should You Forgive a Cheater? Community Advice | FriendZone
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The FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC community recently held a deep discussion on whether a partner should be forgiven after cheating. Members debated the complexities of insecurity, trust, and the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. This conversation highlights the supportive nature of our server, where members share real-life experiences to help others navigate difficult relationship dilemmas.
should a cheater be forgiven if they calm they regret it?
Not really
why
Because you should have known u were gonna regret it so not have done it in the first place
Cheating is wrong no matter what so if ur gonna do it atleast not feel bad about it
yeah but shouldn't they get a second chance
Not really imo
Because if they feel bad then they could have chosen not to
If they didnt feel bad it would hurt less
yeah but they claim it was a mistake and they regret it.
shouldn't have done it but they now realise that they're are in wrong and they are upfront about it
How long is the relationship?
1 year
Dont forgive then
why
How could anyone forget a relationship of 1 year
I'll give you some more context, it was a situationship that turned into relationship
she assumed it was never gonna work out hence cheated.
Ehhh, might make it even worse since they would have known u more lol
Even worse bro ✌️😭
yeah but she felt ugly. cause she was insecure her reasoning btw.
she felt that I never gave any compliments or attention and she felt ugly.
hence she slept to feel attractive and feel validated
Still doesn't justify cheating
If someone's going to cheat, they should just breakup with that other person
its weird. onces you fall in love
you tend to justify and find reasons
to forgive them
And its also disrespectful
yeah but wasn't it in the past?
And seeing that u forgive and forget, she'll be more confident to disrespect u even more
and they were upfront about it and told you this
instead of hiding it
Still
Not really justifying anything
Sure u can forgive them but DONT get into a relationship with them again
whats your mindset
do you lean towards Redpill?
I guess
I like a person whos loyal and trustworthy and that goes for any type of relationship
nice. you got your priorities right
while young too
I suppose so
But its lead me to not trust people right away
I always think someone's bad before even getting to know them
that's fairs
Guilty until proven innocent
Or other way round
well In my situation it did happen
Nah this is right
