Should You Skip Dating and Get Engaged? | FriendZone Debate

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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community recently sparked a lively debate on whether dating is necessary or if skipping straight to engagement is more efficient. Members discussed the risks of bypassing the dating phase, the importance of vetting partners, and personal experiences with long engagements. This discussion highlights the diverse perspectives within our active social hub regarding modern relationships.

silvertemple-38 OP

Like what the purpose of dating when you can learn about the person while being engaged its fr one less step like lets stop playing games here lol

plaidgarden-21

What happens if you're legally engaged with the person and they are abusive or smth, dating gives you a chance to learn about the person before making that commitment

plaidgarden-21

And what happens if you can't?

plaidgarden-21

It depends on the person really if they do change that amazing but if not then what then? Tolerate abusive habits and manipulation in an effort to fix them?

lightsilver-62

I think 💬🤔

happypocket-92

I think dating shouldn't be skipped and just go straight to engaging. Dating will let you know whether or not the person you're dating is the right one for you

lightsilver-62

How about we go straight to kids?

@happypocket-92 I think dating shouldn't be skipped and just go straight to engaging. Dating will let you know whet…
wildmartin-15

Yup true but if you go for it again and again it does become annoying lol.
But it is surely an essential process

happypocket-92

Dating a couple times is okay but it can start to feel like a chore sort of so I get the annoying part. I only dated my fiancée three times before getting engaged

@plaidgarden-21 What happens if you're legally engaged with the person and they are abusive or smth, dating gives y…
silvertemple-38 OP

You can still leave the person being engaged is not the same as marriage

silvertemple-38 OP

Being engaged is the step before getting married but you can drag that out as long as you want to

silvertemple-38 OP

You dont have to get married rught away

silvertemple-38 OP

My sister was engaged 2 years before getting married

@silvertemple-38 My sister was engaged 2 years before getting married
lightsilver-62

Don't agree we should be married have kids directly then see if it's a fit or no

@lightsilver-62 Don't agree we should be married have kids directly then see if it's a fit or no
silvertemple-38 OP

Um idk about that i think thats a bit to far

lightsilver-62

maybe

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