Community Discussion: Victim Blaming & Social Issues

Summary

FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC hosts an open community discussion regarding the harmful nature of victim blaming and societal views on clothing. Members share perspectives on how to address these sensitive topics while maintaining a supportive environment. This thread highlights the importance of empathy and respectful discourse within our active social community.

silvergarden-37 OP

If for some reason you blame a assault or 🍇 victim for the way they dressed, ure a fvcking monster.

silvergarden-37 OP

just came across this conversation where a girl has been 🍇ed and like.. some people.. be talking about , "well what was she wearing" ..

what?? 🫩

rapidumber-17

Facts

happycomet-73

Not always if a man is that messed up then it doesn't matter how many clothes they are wearing

warmtiger-85

highkey agree

quickxenon-97

Facts

nobleforest-33

what relevance does this have in this argument 😭

@nobleforest-33 what relevance does this have in this argument 😭
freshturtle-85

Idk

@freshturtle-85 Idk
nobleforest-33

oooh hows calc going 😛

@nobleforest-33 oooh hows calc going 😛
freshturtle-85

Fries

freshturtle-85

We finish unit 2 and have a test soon and I gotta catch up on some assignments and study for unit 1 retake 😂

@freshturtle-85 We finish unit 2 and have a test soon and I gotta catch up on some assignments and study for unit 1…
nobleforest-33

lmao i faked sick today

nobleforest-33

im at home on a friday 😛

nobleforest-33

PLUS A THREE DAY WEEKEND OML

nobleforest-33

:this:

@nobleforest-33 lmao i faked sick today
freshturtle-85

I ain’t got no school today either🤪

@freshturtle-85 I ain’t got no school today either🤪
nobleforest-33

oooooh 😛

nobleforest-33

mhm its actually sad

silvergarden-37 OP

I do have another question..

is revealing clothes a factor because it ;
causes easier access to their body
or
increases the urge in men?

silvergarden-37 OP

it doesn't at any cost need to be a justifiable factor for 🍇..

like you could tell someone to dress better and be careful ( for her own respect.. not because men might get the urge ) .

but when it's happened, no one should ever ask what she was wearing.. it's fvcking insane

silvergarden-37 OP

a 100% lol

freshturtle-85

I’m not being weird or anything but like in terms of grape no matter what the woman is the victim and man is a horrible perpetrator. But I do think in this day and age there is like an oversexualization of girls as like a community making dudes more likely to do this stuff. But in grape, the same guy would still do it if she had every piece of clothes on or none, so. Not the woman fault, but like society is making the problem worse.

@silvergarden-37 a 100% lol
dustyheron-33

yeah, just the same way.. women should be asked of dressing, 100% lol...!

@freshturtle-85 I’m not being weird or anything but like in terms of grape no matter what the woman is the victim a…
dustyheron-33

yeah, its now very different.. more the reason we make our laws i guess.. and forgotten original laws..

silvergarden-37 OP

u've completely missed the point.
let's say Ure walking at night with ur phone and u get robbbed and beaten up.
then someone asks..
well why were u walking with ur phone.. dude

dustyheron-33

anyone can get robbed at night.. night time incidents arent a good example for dressing.. even guys can get attacked at that time.. if someone has sense.. they wouldnt walk at night to give opportuinity.. it isnt a gender thing

dustyheron-33

and if both a couple bf/gf walk together.. and someone on bike comes with a knife or gun to steal.. even it is expected a male to stay there and defend.. even males get judged.. even daytime incidents... what they want is money not how manly a man is.. or how slutty a girl is..

dustyheron-33

u be careful and stay away from such areas or incidents.. half the reasons to be judged for whatever incidents that dont turn up..

quickbadger-36

It's obvious not a justified reason why that should happen

quickbadger-36

But you do increase your chances of getting such a scenario

quickbadger-36

So yeah. Probably both sides need a change

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