Deep Dive: The Psychology of Drama & Social Pet Peeves
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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community recently engaged in a deep discussion regarding social red flags and the psychology of chaos. Members analyzed why some individuals feel compelled to create drama, linking it to past experiences and the need for familiarity. This engaging thread highlights the diverse perspectives within our server as we explore complex human behaviors and personal pet peeves in a chill, open environ...
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when she's a pick me
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when she is 21 is from nothern part of europe had a pet dog uses snap chat currently has a pet guinea pig prolly uses ipad and has alotta family porblems and stuff likes k drama
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damn thats a super bad combo
Damn good one, I have seen some people would create unnecessary drama or conflict in families when it is peaceful.
Studies says that these people usually come from families where they have become familiar with chaos so peace makes them uncomfortable because they cannot feel secure, they do not know how to deal with peace and silence....
she could have said you hates metal but likes rock i could have accepted that many people don't fw metal but rock? comeon
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my point
this isn't considered doxxing right?...
(gulp)
Ppl who hate metal don't understand how great and big the genre is so yes I judge for both that and rock since they're both great
I think alt and nu metal is cool mixed with rock
you are thinking right
Interesting, I mean how can creating unnecessary drama and chaos in their own lives be entertaining is beyond ne. If they do it in ofher people’s lives I understand that they are just less empathetic towards others and borderline evil.
But ur own lives, its just funny
I'm a woman, but this is based on my observation among my peers.
It's when we women crave attention, and we can't help ourselves if people don't glance at us from time to time. We have that sense of self-esteem, and we crave it so much. To the point where we change ourselves for it
Its just sad to me!!
When your brain becomes familiar with a pattern of situation it assures you that you can get through that if it were to happen again resulting in you trying to again and again create that same scene because it makes you secure.
When you face an entirely new situation it will create panic inside you as you cannot predict what will happen next and how to deal with it.
It's uncomfortable to face an unexpected situation that you have never dealt with...
Its just sad to me!!
When your brain becomes familiar with a pattern of situation it assures you that you can get through that if it were to happen again resulting in you trying to again and again create that same scene because it makes you secure.
When you face an entirely new situation it will create panic inside you as you cannot predict what will happen next and how to deal with it.
It's uncomfortable to face an unexpected situation that you have never dealt with...
Theoretically it makes sense… but practically wtf 
Yeah lol I know..
But have you not had the pleasure to meet some people who just thrive on chaos??
Or ask yourself this question-
If you could choose a situation which you are familiar with or a situation which you have never experienced, which one would you choose??
Most people choose a familiar situation because you'll normally think you would be able to handle it and navigate it because you have done so before.
Uncertainty scares people and creates fear.
I have mer such ppl. I get it. Just unrelatable af to me.
How can peace be a problem is wht i dont get
Not a problem, just something about peace makes them think it is not enough!!
There should be excitement and other chaos for them in live- peace is boring for people who have lived most of their time in harsh situations where peace was not an option. also part of the reason is that these people feel they are seen when they get involved in such conflicts.
These people feel validated when there is a conflict and they are a part of it.
Not a problem, just something about peace makes them think it is not enough!!
There should be excitement and other chaos for them in life- peace is boring for people who have lived most of their time in harsh situations, where peace was not an option. Also part of the reason is that these people feel they are seen when they get involved in such conflicts.
These people feel validated when there is a conflict and they are a part of it.
That sef makes sense…. Validation mkaes us do crazy fhings
Yeah ur right
Everything
Female what?
Female cat?
Fox?
Human?
Apple?
Cucumber?
what
Can't say ig. Everyone is different
