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I don't know, theses days I feel like I'm just right around that corner
We do because those who stayed, stayed
Those who stayed?
Talkative people exist and socially awkward people exist.
Certainly now more people do not find talking to others really worth it because of how fake it can be but people who keep on talking do exist ..hahaha.
What does that mean
Your real friends dummy
Haha yeah you got the brethren brother!!!
You won.
Just ask
Real friends. You mean there are fake ones?
Oh. I see
Absolutely
More like I don't talk to some people theses days cause they probably don't know how to hold conversations
Well, in the end they are all friends
Sometimes we seem to forget that you can consider someone your friend but they don't
Does that tell more about yourself or others..
I wouldn't say that
Well for starters even if you don't think of it as a task it still is one. And also about what interests me it's funny cause that change alot one moment oh I am into watching animes and then damn to energy to watch is gone same with alot of other things but it still comes back once in a while I guess. I can't be my best friend, I can't even be my friend cause that's not what a friend means I can only be me, and me is not something I would be able to discover till the end I guess.
Yeah. If you engage too much you can basically overwhelm some people
Oh, you think so??
Hmm okay man.
Care to tell me what is a friend according to you??
I believe so
Oh. A friend let's see
Oh okay.
I don't know really, what people would call an acquaintance. Even from that level I would call them a friend
Just anyone I can talk to I guess
Oh, like you talk to someone for a few minutes and you term them friend??
That's a nice profile you got there
Who are you
Exactly, I don't think it should be that hard
If you try to bundle up expectations or certain terms on what a friend should be you would be disappointed maybe
Thank you bro.
Who am I??
Yeah, to put it simply I am just a man who is trying to be better.
People are like two sides of a coin, it has a head Nd a tail, it is both at the same time. A friend could be good or bad, it's just the nature of people I guess. And also we don't have to have been talking for ages for me to consider someone my friend I guess
Oh. Trying to be better
Better than what?
Well I choose my friends wisely, because most of the time they influence me
Better than what I am, what I believe, what I represent, what I protect, what I Care for, and many more...
Oh. You choose your friends? That's surprising. If I go by the standards on what you guys what consider a friend
We all kinda just happened to be friends
It's not like there was no I don't want to be your friend or be my friend phase
All Just natural ig
That's alot of things, don't go stressing about it go. It's nice to want to be better. But sometimes that might end up not being satisfied even if you achieve it
When I was a kid it happened like that but now I choose with whom I associate with, we do become what is around us, maybe there are exceptions to this but most people do morph into what kind of people are always around them
Yeah true, but I'd be much happier not having the regret later in life that I could have done something when I was young.
maybe then I would be somewhere other than where I am right now.
The regret is heavy!!
I don't want that!!
Are you sure about that. When you say we do become what we are around. That's like saying we lose control just because we aren't around the right circle. People always make a choice when change is about to happen I guess, it may or may not be consciously.
Alright. I guess you do have a solid reason for what you speak of
Regret sure is heavy
Nope not true in every case, but time is a precious thing and I'd be much happier with giving that asset to people who want to grow, learn, build with me rather than those who go about blaming everything, go towards drugs, other addictions,
Fighting and bullying the weak etc.
Yeah.
Oh. Those things
I do find them weird
