What If Men Had Periods? | FriendZone Community Debate

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The FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC community is diving into a thought-provoking debate about gender dynamics and biological experiences. This announcement highlights a member-led discussion exploring how society might change if men experienced menstruation. It serves as a space for members to share perspectives on empathy, societal power structures, and the challenges women face, fostering active engagement within our social hub.

vividbridge-89 OP

Agree or not but lowkey I wish that men should also experience menstruation, y only women suffer? Ik it's illogical n that's not biologically possible so js kindly do not start to type a bio lecture under this...
I js want u to imagine what the world would be like if men started having periods, how suddenly everyone will sound like, about dominance, power, control, patriarchy etc etc.... whatever comes to ur mind lemme know beloww👇🏻

vividbridge-89 OP

Yeaaa truly agree with ur statement!

@vividbridge-89 Agree or not but lowkey I wish that men should also experience menstruation, y only women suffer? I…
quickbadger-36

Hmm, isn't it better for you to wish it away. I mean, you do know it's not really a good experience, so probably best to use it for something like getting rid of it rather than making both sides share the same fate

quickbadger-36

I don't think anyone would want someone else to experience what they don't want themself

warmtiger-85

brochacho tryna rage bait some peeps here

@quickbadger-36 Hmm, isn't it better for you to wish it away. I mean, you do know it's not really a good experience…
vividbridge-89 OP

Yea in contrast the way men make it difficult for women to even talk about periods plus the way some of them starts to feel weird about even talking about this while this was the only reason they r now alive to say that plus how they treat women during periods n how they expect them to fulfill their desires plus when they underestimate the pain of it plus how they expect women to act normal while saying the most raige baiting thing .... Literally boils my blood from inside n they definitely deserve this opportunity to experience menstruation themselves!

vividbridge-89 OP

Frr 😭

youngfrost-72

kinda seems unfair

@vividbridge-89 Yea in contrast the way men make it difficult for women to even talk about periods plus the way som…
quickbadger-36

I mean,I don't know about other people but it's definitely a weird topic for a girl to be holding with me, (I do have those kind of conversations btw)

quickbadger-36

Firstly,I don't even get it. Best I know about periods Nd all that is from biology school study and seeing sales of pads and all that

youngfrost-72

well the dominance and stuff, I'm with you

quickbadger-36

Besides,I can't really relate. So it's okay for something to feel a little bit different on certain things I guess

youngfrost-72

I'm tryna figure out what made the society to mark women as weak beings, if they're intelligent, they marked them as witches

@youngfrost-72 I'm tryna figure out what made the society to mark women as weak beings, if they're intelligent, th…
quickbadger-36

I don't think they are marked that way anymore, they do scientifical study on strength and all that

quickbadger-36

And also being weak doesn't mean you don't have strength into other aspects of life

@quickbadger-36 I don't think they are marked that way anymore, they do scientifical study on strength and all that
youngfrost-72

yk scientifically women have stronger physical structure or whatever the term is

@youngfrost-72 yk scientifically women have stronger physical structure or whatever the term is
quickbadger-36

Should be the science in that

quickbadger-36

You do have your reasons. So back up that statement

@quickbadger-36 You do have your reasons. So back up that statement
youngfrost-72

I heard it from someone

@youngfrost-72 I heard it from someone
quickbadger-36

And you couldn't do a simple research on it. Anyways it's fine

quickbadger-36

Not like all that matters

quickbadger-36

We deviated

@quickbadger-36 And you couldn't do a simple research on it. Anyways it's fine
youngfrost-72

well we were doing a different task back then, sorry

quickbadger-36

The truth. There are people who are empathic on what on the hottake is about that includes people from both sides, although the men side can be a bit indifferent to it. And yeah,they could change given time and proper knowledge on such matters but not everyone does want to hold conversations on things like that. It's not about we not caring, it's just what they don't want to talk about

quickbadger-36

Which is fine given freedom everyone has

@vividbridge-89 Agree or not but lowkey I wish that men should also experience menstruation, y only women suffer? I…
dustyheron-33

You gotta go check about Adam and Eve what happened and then understand..

@vividbridge-89 Yea in contrast the way men make it difficult for women to even talk about periods plus the way som…
quickbadger-36

What do you want anyways?

quickbadger-36

Some people don't find it weird to have conversations on periods, some dudes are like that. Other do fine it weird, which is understandable from their perspective it's not something they can relate to, at most they can say sorry about that,and that's not the only reason why they are alive. And yeah, there are cases where people do treat people differently due to them undergoing their natural occurrence ,I can't say much about that anyways. But yeah,I do get that it boils your blood like you said. I myself don't wish people having to go through that,I wouldn't lie I can't relate, I can't even tell what it feels like. I do hope you guys get treated right by those who can and want to (not really demanded thing though) but yeah, we don't have to experience what you go through for us to understand when you don't even like it

@vividbridge-89 Agree or not but lowkey I wish that men should also experience menstruation, y only women suffer? I…
ironcloud-78

why wish bad for both and not good for both

jadecipher-43

Cancer

@jadecipher-43 Cancer
ironcloud-78

yes please

grandsummit-19

Hello 👋

grandsummit-19

how are you doing?

oceandolphin-65

men should be grateful women are asking for equality and not revenge imao

@oceandolphin-65 men should be grateful women are asking for equality and not revenge imao
jadecipher-43

Sexist

jadecipher-43

I agree

gentlezenith-18

Hieee goizzz

gentlezenith-18

:armscrossed:

vividbridge-89 OP

What I believe is that men should learn about menstruation rather than making faces whenever it's about it, they should treat it empathetically rather than making it a taboo and shame for women, they SHOULD talk about this like we talk about a fever with no embarrassment and care for one another rather than feeling awkward whenever it's the topic of MENSTRUATION! I js have beef from those guys who unnecessarily feel weird while talking about this topic, I mean bro— u wouldn't be able to even exist on earth if ur mother never had it, plus it's about reproductive health of women, which is important to keep the humanity alive, and if u're not gonna talk about this openly then I don't have words for you, I mean u can comment about women's private parts with 0 shame and can use abuses based on women's body but when it comes to menstruation suddenly u feel all the shame and awkwardness at once.. Why? Where was that embarrassment when u were commenting on her body ?.... women have to suffer for almost a week every month due to periods which comes with cramps, mood swings, back pain, ulcers, headache and what not!? And when an XY chromosome says "oh don't talk about this, I feel uncomfortable..." Pisses me off asf, like dude what's making u uncomfortable? She's the one carrying all the pain and stuff and u js have to listen and understand her situation! It's the FCKIN PATRIARCHY which has convinced u that period is something to be ashamed of discussing in public! And that's why I said Men Deserve Periods! Once they get to know how hard it is to control ur anger n all during that time and someone's son starts giving an unwanted opinion is so frustrating, then only they'll be more open about it

gentlezenith-18

Woahhhhh

gentlezenith-18

What eh dis

gentlezenith-18

:sus:

@vividbridge-89 What I believe is that men should learn about menstruation rather than making faces whenever it's a…
vividbridge-89 OP

And No you cannot convince me otherwise cuz that's called morals which should be the same for everyone

@gentlezenith-18 What eh dis
vividbridge-89 OP

Read n u'll get to know sis

quickbadger-36

Freedom of choice. There are people who can talk about it if they want to. Some of us just don't see the need.

@quickbadger-36 Freedom of choice. There are people who can talk about it if they want to. Some of us just don't se…
jadecipher-43

🫡

@vividbridge-89 What I believe is that men should learn about menstruation rather than making faces whenever it's a…
jadecipher-43

I do agree with you it's js a case of majority effecting minority and like people go along with that and they after some time they r the same😐,u know I thought it was also awkward for u guys to talk about it so i never do bring this up and yeah i am also complely clueless about it like i think it would make me look like a weirdo or creep,i don't really mind talking about anything but will i don't want others to see me as a creepy,i think that's the main reason it has like became a taboo more or less,I agree with u though it should be normalized

jadecipher-43

(sry if it came out sexist no offense)

quickbadger-36

Hmm

quickbadger-36

Why do you think so. Even if both genders experienced that, business still need to make some cash

@quickbadger-36 Why do you think so. Even if both genders experienced that, business still need to make some cash
mellowwalrus-89

men would just lay on the couch complaning while the women would be doing everything

quickbadger-36

Hmm. I don't know, I guess we would never know since that can't happen

@mellowwalrus-89 men would just lay on the couch complaning while the women would be doing everything
quickbadger-36

What do you mean by that, everything? Are we on a different topic rn?

@quickbadger-36 What do you mean by that, everything? Are we on a different topic rn?
mellowwalrus-89

oh i didnt mean to reply to that

quickbadger-36

Well. That should be taken up to people in those respective fields. There are people of both genders in the medical field, there are probably makes who do or would do research on it and also so are there females. Even if men did deal with those it's not a sure grantee that it would be well researched in. There are many other things people prefer to research it, not because they don't care, it's just a different preference and goal. Also what's to say if we did experience periods it would be the same body reactions. Sure I can't even see how that would work. Well, with time young girls like you can even go into the field and take up the research for the good of all.

@mellowwalrus-89 oh i didnt mean to reply to that
quickbadger-36

I see. I don't get what you meant then. Men just sitting is a generalisation of all men which I don't fancy cause I as a men don't do that same as all women don't do "everything " as you said they did

@quickbadger-36 I see. I don't get what you meant then. Men just sitting is a generalisation of all men which I don…
mellowwalrus-89

i ment most men

@mellowwalrus-89 i ment most men
quickbadger-36

Okay :ducksip:

royalwillow-60

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