Who DMs First? The Dating Debate | FriendZone Community
Summary
The FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC community recently sparked a lively debate regarding who should initiate contact in dating. Members explored gender biases, the role of first impressions, and the importance of genuine human connection over looks. This discussion highlights the active and engaging social atmosphere found within the server, where members openly share perspectives on modern dating and relationship building.
How would y’all approach it as?
Who usually starts the initial contact first?
I got a questionDo Man DM to Woman first Or does Woman DM to Man first (don’t say it depends)
I got a question | Do Man DM to Woman first Or does Woman DM to Man first (don’t say it depends)
Man
Bc many women is usually not doing it
So they do it instead
Human DM to human first
That includes with a gender affiliation
Fair fair
Yeah that is if men does make a good first impression that is
Oh standards wise
Yeah sometimes
How abt 8 degree literally tilted eyes and eyebrows, low set eyebrows, high set cheekbones?
Wdym? Like how close is this group?
Actually ykw
Just talk offline bro
Huh?
Do you know what im even saying here
Yes
But talking offline is better(especially for a relationship)
We’re going above and beyond here
We’re in the first stage of having to talk to somebody first lol
Ohhhh
Yeah
I think it just really depends on who wants to chat first
My title says (dont say it depends)
From a biases perspective
Which gender would initially start the contact first
Hm
Uhhh
There are various factors to consider about the couple. But if I had to go with one, maybe the woman?
Cuz I'm a clueless bastard, so uhh
Yeah
Interesting
Women that walks to up a man rarely comes up as much
But i mean its a rare occasion however
Right
I mean yes it is rarer
yh cuz urs is negatively tilted
ok cool
wait fuck i meant to type lateraly tilted not literally
Yh that's correct 100%
Also assuming that both want a healthy relationship
And not chasing those kinda things
Oh is this Looksmaxing??
Looks is good for the first impressions realizing they have big potential in them to the point their just too perfect of theirselves (personally looks dont define a person) its rather the human self and nature about them
Yeah thats very high expectations for most relationships
yhh...
