Why Is Everyone So Self-Centered? Deep Talk at FriendZone
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FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime hosted a lively community debate regarding main character syndrome and why individuals often center conversations around themselves. The discussion explored whether this behavior stems from trauma, ego, or innate human selfishness. This thread highlights the community's desire for meaningful connection and diverse topics, proving that our members prefer talking about shared interests like space or...
Just curious
Cause they do bru
Well, I know they do but I don't know why
We are made that way
Doesn't mean we should be stuck that way
Life traumas
Its peoples choice to get out
And here we go with the traumas. I still find it hard to get one
Its what causes stuff
Because we're the main character
how do I get one
So we just got too many MCs and everyone wants to feel like the most important one?
Cos humans r selfish creatures who only care abt themselves
Yrs ago someone told me I act like a side character lol
I changed my tune
If we know that, why do we still do it
Bro u would not want it
Yea if you want to sit in the corner it's your problem
Cos we like doing it, it makes us feel good abt ourselves
I'm too happy to even get one
Trauma is the worst thing
Are you the main now?
In my own story, maybe tho idk
I don't want to sit in a corner,I just want understand people
Oh. That's why do you. Do we all do it?
I guess I will have to avoid getting one then
Maybe subconsciously, for me I just don't wanna put myself to the side so much
But you get tired of talking about yourself right?
Hmm depends, ppl with big egos love talking abt themselves
Some ppl try and connect to others with their own experiences tho
I love having a big ego
Oh. But not everyone wants to listen I guess
Yeah they dont
Because it's exhausting
If I have to hear about your day everyday 
I might get tired
Not true, it is bc people with big ego only care about themself and when they are tired being by ur side they go away
We can easily talk about spaceships
Or frogs
Something that isn't about us
Do they know that they have this big "ego" thingy?
After understanding what's going to happen? T
They do sometimes
Yes
You should be the main so nobody will overlooked you
Exactly what I'm tryna do lol
Well, I will reevaluate myself I guess
Not all of them
Ok
Alright
Basic human psycology
most people like to hear bout themselves
or have a convo in which they are involved
But we can always talk about something that doesn't consider any of the persons involved
yea only if that topic interest us
and its a major psycologic technique of talkin bout other people in order to influence them
Damn, . I like when things were just simple and not under studies like psychology
well it is..
but there are some people who like to hear bout others
and not want every spotlight on em
there are always exceptions
Well,I guess we can't help it
because everyone wants attention lol and some people are really full of themselves others js wanna share their world with you
Exactly, selfishness
It does become too much sometimes. The whole act of carrying two worlds
I barely manage mine
Alot of things matter besides my self
Like you for example
You matter even if it doesn't concern me
Alright. I believe everything matters even if it's not about me
Yeah, not everything should be about us
