Why Are Youth Choosing Not to Have Families? | FriendZone

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The FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC community is diving into a deep discussion about why fewer young people are choosing to start families. Members are debating the impact of economic instability, the desire for personal growth, and the importance of emotional maturity. This conversation highlights the shift in modern priorities and the conscious decision to avoid parenthood until one is truly ready.

lightgarden-47 OP

Aside from the fucked up economy why are less and less youth not wanting to build a family?

happymartin-59

I‘d say because they don’t really want to take the responsibility on themselves or they just don’t want to give birth to children in a World that has such a bad political situation.

silvergarden-37

most are still too young and maybe incapable of the whole responsibility

plaidgarden-25

i think another reason is that a lot of young people have seen how having a family can go wrong when two people aren't emotionally and financially ready for it. some would rather stay single than end up in a relationship where they feel trapped or bring a child into an unhealthy environment. i also think people are starting to understand that having a family isn't the only way to live a meaningful life. some want to travel, build a career, explore who they are, or just have peace without feeling responsible for another person's life. it's not necessarily that they hate the idea of having a family, they just don't wanna make such a big decision out of pressure or fear of being left behind. i also think people are realizing that having kids isn't something you should do just bc society expects you to. raising a child takes more than love. it takes time, patience, emotional maturity, and commitment.

@lightgarden-47 Aside from the fucked up economy why are less and less youth not wanting to build a family?
jadetiger-51

We actually know how hard it is to raise kids, or at least, more of us know of how much harder and annoying it is.

@jadetiger-51 We actually know how hard it is to raise kids, or at least, more of us know of how much harder and…
silentnoodle-49

Exactly unlike some of the older generations who had too many kids too handle which caused more problems than these generations not wanting any

lightgarden-47 OP

yup, i know for myself i ain't raising no child when I cant even take care of myself

@plaidgarden-25 i think another reason is that a lot of young people have seen how having a family can go wrong whe…
lightgarden-47 OP

It's best not to have a child if you can't be responsible for his/her life, saves the child form the trouble of a bad childhood i guess

welp looks like i wont be giving my parents any grandchild anytime soon, specially since I don't even have a stable living yet, though maybe someday when i can actually afford and bear the responsibility especially as a male i keep hearing fromy elderlies that i will be the one to carry the family, the one to lead and yada yada and honestly sounds like a real pain. im not cut out for that ...yet

@lightgarden-47 It's best not to have a child if you can't be responsible for his/her life, saves the child form th…
happydolphin-33

I plan on having 5 kids, I'll leave them to fend for themself, survival of the fittest

@happydolphin-33 I plan on having 5 kids, I'll leave them to fend for themself, survival of the fittest
lightgarden-47 OP

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@happydolphin-33 I plan on having 5 kids, I'll leave them to fend for themself, survival of the fittest
lightgarden-47 OP

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