Would You Forgive a Cheater? | FriendZone Community Debate

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The FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC community recently held a passionate discussion regarding whether one should forgive a partner for cheating. Members shared diverse perspectives, ranging from strict no-tolerance policies to the belief in second chances and personal growth. This thread highlights the active and engaging nature of our social hub, where members feel comfortable debating complex relationship topics in a supportive environment.

swiftknight-79 OP

bruh idk

snowyjungle-82

Yes,why won't I....?
then genuinely regret murdering them

@snowyjungle-82 Yes,why won't I....? then genuinely regret murdering them
swiftknight-79 OP

LOL

swiftknight-79 OP

but be fr, you wouldnt give them a chance?

azurehammer-14

Hey 👋

@swiftknight-79 bruh idk
wildmartin-15

Nah, the ship has sailed!!
She wanted something more which I was not- she should seek that!!
Getting back- F that!!

@swiftknight-79 but be fr, you wouldnt give them a chance?
snowyjungle-82

If you can disrespect me then cheat there is high probability of you killing me.... So no...

snowyjungle-82

Cus I am not valued and it shows that person lacks self respect and self control for himself

snowyjungle-82

The only chance I can give is the chance of meeting his creator

silvermonkey-92

Yes cause humans make mistakes and if they genuinely realised their mistake and regret it then I would forgive them

@swiftknight-79 bruh idk
pearlguitar-88

It depends on how deep the relationship is

@silvermonkey-92 Yes cause humans make mistakes and if they genuinely realised their mistake and regret it then I wo…
swiftknight-79 OP

but youre the only one here saying this 😭 i doubt if its the right thing to do

@pearlguitar-88 It depends on how deep the relationship is
swiftknight-79 OP

i guess so..

@swiftknight-79 bruh idk
sunnyzephyr-89

Definitely a big no
They don't deserve to be with us after that

swiftknight-79 OP

probably yes

wittycandle-34

Forgiveness is a personal thing and I don't think they need to know whether I forgive them or not

wittycandle-34

I'd just discard them like trash

plaidgarden-21

I'd block them and get over it

plaidgarden-21

Forgive them eventually but blocking them for the mistake

olivewillow-57

The issue is more then one,they broke trust,they decided u weren't enough,

swiftknight-79 OP

but doesn't everyone deserves a second chance? especially if they are ashamed of their mistake

swiftknight-79 OP

yeah but i wasnt talking about physical cheating..

CommunityOne
@swiftknight-79 bruh idk
mintviolet-51

No because I’d never be able to trust them again and I think once a cheater always a cheater and people know how act sad

If you forgive them don’t do it easily make them work for it so they actually mean it or in the future you’ll just keep going back

keenotter-63

NO

@swiftknight-79 bruh idk
briskwalrus-29

If you give them another chance what's stopping the from doing the same thing again

briskwalrus-29

They'll probably be more open about it now that's it allowed lmao

swiftknight-79 OP

yeah my bad, sorry for that.

amberyellow-59

No

amberorchid-42

no. nothing is stopping me from hitting another person just because i felt bad for hitting one person.

@amberorchid-42 no. nothing is stopping me from hitting another person just because i felt bad for hitting one pers…
CommunityOne
@snowyjungle-82 Yes,why won't I....? then genuinely regret murdering them
dustyyonder-40

ACTUALLY SAME

@swiftknight-79 bruh idk
sunnyhunter-71

Never, the thread has been broken

snowyorange-96

No

swiftknight-79 OP

nahh you don't need to be sorry 😭 i didnt mind anything we're good

smartcandle-36

I have realized people must be punished for their sins.
But through allot of self discovery i have realized if we have anger for any person, it get stored in our body to which later creates diseases etc in our body or creates a pattern which is repetetive in our life.
So for that we need to forgive and break it first.

@swiftknight-79 bruh idk
zestyheron-77

depends on how they regret it

@smartcandle-36 I have realized people must be punished for their sins. But through allot of self discovery i have…
zestyheron-77

a bit weird to not be angry solely because you think it'd cause a disease

happyjester-13

Some of yall really over here saying cheating ain’t cheating as long as it’s not emotional😭 how would it not be emotional if it’s physical, a big, BIG part of your and every emotional relationship with someone’s partner is “the deed”. There are some relationships where that’s not the case like with ppl that don’t feel anything emotionally from “the deed”, but that is a very specific disorder that very few ppl have. And it would still be cheating even if they don’t feel anything emotionally from “the deed” from anyone

@swiftknight-79 bruh idk
jadetiger-51

I choose death.

@jadetiger-51 I choose death.
swiftknight-79 OP

why choose your death just cus of someone else's mistake

@swiftknight-79 why choose your death just cus of someone else's mistake
jadetiger-51

Oh I meant for them.

@swiftknight-79 why choose your death just cus of someone else's mistake
wittycandle-34

Let hher, she's a furry!!!

swiftknight-79 OP

oh okie, nevermind

jadetiger-51

but not like actual death.

wittycandle-34

😭 😭

jadetiger-51

More like they're 'dead' to me, kinda feel.

tidycopper-93

Yes but I won't get back with the person. Cos cheating is a choice and not smth you'd do accidentally.

@jadetiger-51 but not like actual death.
wildmartin-15

Nah uh don't sugarcoat it now my man

@jadetiger-51 More like they're 'dead' to me, kinda feel.
swiftknight-79 OP

ignoring their existence?

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