Relationship Advice: Is He Using You or Choosing You?
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The FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC community is buzzing with a relatable discussion about navigating a complicated love triangle. Members are sharing advice on how to handle a situation where a potential partner seems indecisive between two friends. This thread highlights the supportive nature of the server, where users provide direct, honest feedback on setting boundaries and communicating clearly in romantic situations.
A few months ago I moved, went to a new school and in the first week I found out a guy liked me, j started liking him back and then I found out that he liked my friend, after my friend rejected him he asked me out and I said no, few weeks go by his group and my friend group start hanging out and he starts flirting with me, he still likes my friend but I start flirting back and today he held the door for me and walked me to the bus stop, I really do like him but I think he still likes my friend or he can't decide 😭😭
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You should just ignore him otherwise he will always take you for granted and think of you as an option(from my experience)
Damn
Idk it seems like he's kinda choosing me after getting to know me
I could be wrong though
so do you want your friend to take him or do you want to take him....
Learn to ask questions…
Just be direct with him and know where you stand
My friend doesn't like him
She rejected him but he wanted to asked her out for a second time but he hasn't yet
No she doesn't even like him as a friend
how tf is this a hot take