How to Move On From a Past Relationship | FriendZone Advice
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Its been around 2 years since we broke up...iv had relationships after that but i keep relapsing...wadduido?
Chill
Tbh
I never been into a relationship and never had a crush
Nah fam she was the one...i had been in flings before her but she made me committed....made me a changed person...now idk what do i even do
Idk man my celebrity crush is john cena sooo that explains a loot...
...
YOU'RE TIME IS UP MY TIME IS NOW YOU CAN'T SEE ME MY TIME IS NOW
Just move on man life will continue as you think about her
iv moved on
i dont love her anymore
but i cant stop thinking about her either
Don't think be stupid like me
ugh'
It's ez don't worry i can give you a tutorial 😃
Relapsing as in, do you just miss her or you guys …
i just miss her...it doesn't help that i run into her every once in a while
we dont talk much anymore tho
And is it over over?
You can’t ask her to get back together fs?
oh yeah its as over as it can get...there is no getting back together unless she changes her mind
which is pretty impossible
Then u just have to suck it up and probably start finding other things that make u happy 
i have been doing that
iv been working on my music
i enjoy it
but
her.
😮💨
Aww, Her! I think then the option is to have another her and fall for her.
not that easy ;-;
is she a drug?
Yeah it's called coke
the most addicting kind
U r so in love…. Its cute
Ask people here
Maybe they can help u forget her 
i saw her today
it wasnt good
Reflect on your current situation
What is there to improve
What is there to overcome
How will you change for the better
What will you do from here on out
Always think positive rather than thinking negative
I know that one significant other will always be remembered in your heart sometimes it’s ideally best to let go of them and not bother them whatsoever
They are called “exes” after all
Moving on is very rough but we have to fight the pain and suffering in order to move on from the past
I know the future can be scary but
This is based upon your own life and certainty
🤙
i mean iv moved on in that way
iv gotten better
at whatever i do
physically
mentally
emotionally
she's just stuck on my mind
I see
💔
Brooooo 💔
I hope u r fine
we'v been ignoring each other lately
There's nw out ngl💔🥹
just hope time does its works and u forget it slowly
Thats all u can do ❤️
Exactly
I miss her
Ik its not rational
And i hate that i do miss her
I want it to stop
Broooo, I understand 💔 💔
Breakups are like losing a person, all you can do is grieve 💔
Time heals everything
Let it do its job
Yeah but when you lose a person....you dont see them anymore....in my case....we somehow run into each other almost everyday
Thats just 💔 I cant think of anythign else.. It just sucks.....
i prefer crystal meth
Oh ok ok not bad
Bro chose a celeb crush you cant even see
Fr 
When the kids ask to see him and he just says "YOU CANT SEE ME"
Lmaoo
him?
she's a she if that's what ur asking
cant
🥺
Watch 500 days of summer
I ended up watching 13 reasons why
Ik it sucks
ahh u want him dead or what💔
He needs motivation
That's the best I can give
so the idea of killing myself is motivation?
i tried it twice before...on 2 different occassions
then it diluted into months of self-harm from which iv recovered now
not a pretty time
I didn't say that
I didn't say anything about killing
ugh
I didn't say anything
nah its alright
I've learnt by lesson 💔
im just confused
a lot
well now the current situation is kindda weird
with her
What why how??
Ohh sorry to hear that
okay so basically
i had moved away for my college...so i thought that my chapter with her was closed once and for all
then i got really sick there...had to move back home and now im back near her
we met one day and decided that we'll still be friends
That's complicated
But yea be friends
its not even 10% of the story
Idk what else to day
thats what's not happening
we were friends
and then one random day
she started acting hostile
she wouldnt talk and she'd just ignore me
Must be mood swings
and i never really tried to reach out to her after that
not for a month
💔
and she made it very clear to my friend
Ohh sorry about that 😔
plus to make it worse
her current boyfriend...the guy she "passivly cheated" on me with
went out of state for his university earlier this month
now her boyfriend wanted me and her to be friends
he was vouching for it for some reason
but now im just confused
about why she turned hostile
its messed on so many levels istfg
Mb she had her reasons
if she did...i'd have found out
i know her better than she does
she said it herself
even after we broke up
but this...its confusing the living fuck out of me
cuz i didnt do anything wrong
to be given that treatment
🥀
You deserve better bud
i know i do
Jus move on
i honestly want nothing to do with her anymore
but it doesnt help seeing her outside almost everyday
running into each other...being awkward
its like we are strangers
Hmm
That must really hurt.....
Bro i think u should just cut off...no type of online interactions and u should break the friendship too,if u will have things which remind u of her u won't be able to move on...being stuck with your past won't do u any good...u can try new hobbies which might lead to new friends it will help..but it's all up to u...as much as I read..she cheated on u or something..so I don't think it can be recovered...just remove her from your life...try to avoid interactions with her too
there is no online interaction...we cut off all contacts
U should also delete all the memories and stuff with her and start doing productive things and get a goal for your future
dude iv been doing that
iv been working a lot on my music
releasing stuff
performing at places
getting gigs
its going good...but
Ohhh
That's good broo
But?
dont kill urself over love. i thought we learned from romeo and juliet
you cant control your dreams 🤷♀️
well i can since im a shrink
tehemimi hamama llama
a therapist?
hi twin i wasnt tryna read at 175 message yall sent but try finding yourself first befor entering another relationship. Do things you like, hangout with friends, discover new hobbies etc. Youll find the right person whn it comes but dont force yourself into a relationship to cover your last one. if u ever wanna talk abt or jus vent pls dm me i would love to help you bc i totally get what ur feeling as i am in the save recovery phase but im doing so much better now and i hope it does the same for you. 💗💗
duh
if you ever need a pep talk sing golden from k pop demon hunters
bro if you've dated other people and still end up here, it's a you problem now
update guys
i found out why she's acting hostile
mostly cuz she walked up to me while i was leaving
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahaha.
😭
Time.
time?
And.....?
its a whole messed up situation now
my other ex is friends with her
Arghhhh okay okay
and now its become way more complicated
Because of something you did in the past?
not really
Then how is your two exes talking resulting in her being hostile towards you
thug this shit out easy as that
basically the other one thinks that i hate her and she went ahead and told her that i hate her and shit and now she thinks that im two-faced cuz i told her that i care about her and instead im going behind her back and telling people i hate her
Uhhh, misunderstandings... theya re the worst
she threated me
*threatened me
"stay out of my life and i'll stay out of yours...we both know how much damage i can cause with the amount of shit i have on you"
its stupid
BRuhh wtffff, what is this amount of shit stuff
she's using our relationship as leverage
i should have seen this coming
Okay this is very confusing, the ex you like or the ex you dont like, which she?
Lets call ex you like as A, and ex you dont like as B (as in bitch)
the ex im interested in is A(the one i loved)...the other one is a good friend but now the problem is she has become friends with her too
now B thought that i hate A cuz she was helping me move on over her....i let her get the idea that i do hate her....but i went to A and told her that i wanna be friends...she agreed. A and B have had no communication till this point....now B becomes A's friend and now was confused about how me and A are friends after she thought that i hated her....and now idk what kindda bs B fed A and now A hates me
Can you not talk to B. She was ur frnd
i found out about ts today
and i was leaving anyways before A came and confronted me
cuz i was asking B why wouldnt A talk to me
she prolly went to her and told her that im poking around
all i wanna do is cry rn
Omgggg, yes this is unnecessary misunderstanding
I feel u bro
Do u still like A?
idk
Then fk them both!
Let them be
Enjoy other things
its hard
if you dont have the one you want to share it with
Yeah cuz u liked her, and u liked the relationship you had
things changed
Its possible that you miss the times u spent more and her specific person less?
she changed
i miss them both
i miss the whole idea of her
it was perfect
holy
💔
💔
Why did you two brkup, or wait I will check if I have asked that already
she kindda passivly cheated on me
its not like i didnt mess up
i did too....but i fixed it
Argh, that is bad and messy. And kind of unfixable 💔
i put the cheating part behind me
but
ugh
why does it have to be so hard
even after almost 2 years
its a lot yea
Yeah, I get it….. it seems very hard to
Do you think she is your soulmate or something?
if she was...she'll come....otherwise im done chasing today
iv made all the efforts i could have
atleast i wont have any regrets the day i'll die that i didnt try hard enough
Yes bro! There is not point in all this. You have your whole life to live. I don’t believe in soulmates per say. But if the do exist, and she was urs, you will somehow en d up togther. And if they don’t then you will find somebody with a better connection and you will have something better than this….
Specially when you are so so young….
right everyone
update
i cut off all contacts with her
and anyone else involved
Bro!!!! Kudos to uuuu
Greatttt decision
my goat
idt u moved on if u still keep thinking of her and feel pain. pain could be from either regret or romantic pain as in the pain of not being w her anymore and missing how love was between u too. if u regret for what u have done in that time and just how it ended i think u should keep improving and just accept that u were childish and stupid back then but now u improved and u look forward to not fumble ur real next love ever again like b4.
yeah fam
atp im done compromising my mental health for her sake
the pain will be there
im pretty sure
but i have to not feel it anymore
thats my choice
i felt that i was obligated to feel painful cuz of her
now i dont feel that anymore
cuz she has messed up my self respect
which is very very valuable to me now
bro date an orthen girl u will forget
I have dated people after that dw
Thats crazy
ikr
HI , Eve 27 F ! LF, M gamer.. Chill, fun , DM 21+
id rather not
Sell her to the Hamas
Or Afghanistan
Don’t think about her repeat in your mind think about other people
i think it will be there as long as u dont come in terms with it. instead of feeling pain i think u should let it pass as a memory that didnt go perfectly well but its ok. besides, i know how it feels to still miss someone who did u wrong but if u grow an ego bigger than that pain the pain will shut down by itself trust me.
😭
Atp you should just hate her , just accept that she was a cheater and she don't love you anymore , you deserve better , the one who loves at the same level as you... Let yourself miss her , you can't avoid that thoughts cuz that has became habit of your brain to be stuck on her and thinking about her , The best you can do is to keep doing your work and don't mind these thoughts, All the best man , Accept your pain and lift yourself up , Be a Man... Remember - No flower grows without rain and no man grows without pain... Just motivate yourself and keep working on your dreams
crush the kindness.
yeah fam...thanks a lot
right now there are bigger problems than her tbh which are going on
everyone's life is hard man , just keep the courage with you and keep going no matter what , You are gonna get through it!
congrats man
I call Shot gun
go for it
