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The Right to Consent

It’s come to our attention (because apparently it still needs spelling out) that some of us are having little trouble differentiating between "I'm not consenting to that" and "I'm being a brat". Let's clear the air on what constitutes bratting before we get out little feelings/dominance hurt.

All subs are expected to abide by the server minimum expectations, they are non négociable.
That means :
- Using at least the base honorific (Sir) every few messages.
- Greeting the rooms(Hello Sirs and subs) when entering the room
- Remaining respectful to Sirs
- Using full words, and anything else listed in the guide or pins.

Anything beyond that: kneeling on command, calling someone"Daddy Suprême Overlord", and any other requests, is optional consent territory. If a sub says "no thank you" (Politely), the correct response from a Sir is "Understood"- not "Come on, just this one time" or "No brats on this server"
Choosing not to consent is not bratting.
"But.. but.. you're a sub!"

Once someone has chosen not to consent to something, no one should push or persuade. Consent is respected always.

Declining a Sir request is not bratting unless it is either:
- Done disrespectfully (name calling, eye rolling, tongue sticking out, dropping of honorifics, "make me", arguing, etc)
- Something that was previously agreed to but is now purposely not doing without communication (remember consent can be withdrawn any time as long as it is communicated respectfully)
- Straight up Ignoring a server rule (for example, a Sir keeps reminding a sub to use honorifics, which is required by the server, but the sub continues to not use them)

If you, Sir or sub, have stated a boundary and another member tries to push that boundary or punish you for that boundary (including calling another member a brat if all they’ve done is respectfully communicate their consent or lack thereof), please open a ticket, rather than arguing in the chat, and staff will help resolve the issue with the zéro patience it deserves. When it becomes a fight in chat, you're both wrong.
Let's carry on with safe kinks, remember the first C in cnc is infact not silent and no is a complete sentence.