Age Gaps in Relationships: Is 18+ Always Fair Game?
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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community is currently debating the ethics of large age gaps in relationships. This discussion explores whether legal consent at 18+ justifies significant age differences or if power imbalances remain a concern. Members are actively sharing diverse perspectives on maturity, societal norms, and personal autonomy within our social gaming and chat server.
Then it's their freewill
why
yeah yeah something like that
For me,I would probably do a relationship with 5 or 7 years different at most
im 27, the lowest i would date an adult would be around 22-23 but preferably i rather date somebody around my age or woman older than me by 1-2 years
preferences ya know
you do you, im saying if its 2 consenting adults let them make their choice without being judged. thats all
For me I can't date anyone adult than my parents or their age mates, it so weird, disrespectful
Well, at this point in this can't even judge relationships like that
The least weird things we have seen
You would only go into a relationship when it's love right?
My friend is 19 and her bf30 I judged and everyone around did and later on she realized her mistakes
Someone like you would be in a relationship with a 6yrs old if consent was reduced to 6

And a predator nothing more
Was there anything wrong with it besides the age. Just curious
they prolly judge the age gap for sure
your personal experience IS NOT data.
my friend walked near a black man and got robbed by a black man. he realized his mistake
you see how bad it soudns?
Yea but I don't go for anything in the name of love, it like saying I should stay w a man who beat we become I love him
Cus you just care about age not even the person's state of mind
So it's not even judged based on what's actually happening in the relationship
wtf. stop accusing me of being that
cant always assume everythng
until it truly happens
Right
you literally making random assumptions about me?
What your problem w black lol give another example
just giving an example in your own language to show you how bigoted you sound
just swap age with race and your entire logic falls apart
thats how weak it is
I never said that a 20yo is undeveloped but still developing so yeah it’s ok for them to be able to make life choices and have their own « contribution » to society and idk where you live but the process is gradual. You don’t just throw someone into society at a specific age without a progressive approach and expect them to do well.
But trying to sound racist?
Not an accusation but your mentality and you know it
Imagine saying that?
Literally bro 😭
NO. YOUR MENTALITY IS LIKE THAT SO YOU THINK THAT WYA

Are you trolling ?
she accused me of being pdf? file
If you think something is okay for you doesn't me I should be okay for me, understand so if the age stuff is not shocking for you it's for me and my value
I CLEARLY MENTIONED 18+
You said 18 bc that’s the legal age , didn’t you ?
then dont complain when people treat you worse for being immigrant or black. because they have their own bias
She's obsessed w black ppl ig
then lets make it 21. 21 and 50 yr old
Anything about 25 is fine
. If both are above that
why not 24?
Ok today most be my worst day Ig
I keep interacting with dumb people
Only few are sensible
You said your thoughts and motive now what to play victim card
You just dumb no one is buying that
That’s such a wild comparison ?
I don't know. I just gave a random age