How to Move On From a Past Relationship | FriendZone Advice
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In the FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC community, members are discussing the difficult process of moving on from a past relationship. This thread features heartfelt advice on overcoming emotional relapses, focusing on personal passions like music, and finding ways to stay positive after a breakup. It highlights the supportive nature of the server, where members share personal experiences to help others navigate heartbreak and personal growth.
id rather not
Sell her to the Hamas
Or Afghanistan
Don’t think about her repeat in your mind think about other people
i think it will be there as long as u dont come in terms with it. instead of feeling pain i think u should let it pass as a memory that didnt go perfectly well but its ok. besides, i know how it feels to still miss someone who did u wrong but if u grow an ego bigger than that pain the pain will shut down by itself trust me.
unfortunatly thats the problem...i cant get that ego idk why...im just kind
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Its not ego that you need, its self respect bro
Atp you should just hate her , just accept that she was a cheater and she don't love you anymore , you deserve better , the one who loves at the same level as you... Let yourself miss her , you can't avoid that thoughts cuz that has became habit of your brain to be stuck on her and thinking about her , The best you can do is to keep doing your work and don't mind these thoughts, All the best man , Accept your pain and lift yourself up , Be a Man... Remember - No flower grows without rain and no man grows without pain... Just motivate yourself and keep working on your dreams
crush the kindness.
yeah fam...thanks a lot
right now there are bigger problems than her tbh which are going on
everyone's life is hard man , just keep the courage with you and keep going no matter what , You are gonna get through it!
congrats man
I call Shot gun
Lock in
Use your feet
go for it
here
starts from here
i have to read allat?
to get the gist yea...its an interesting read
gimme a sec then
It's normal to feel that way but the thing that you have to know is that your love for her will always be the same, she might not be yours but your ability to love her to the point of missing her even if she's not yours anymore just shows how passionate you can be about someone, and someone else will be so happy to have you because of that ability, dont think of missing her as something bad, love is never wasted, protect your heart and accept that, wish her the best in everything and be happy for her instead of wishing you had her, because if it happened that's what's supposed to happen, only thing you can do is how you act about it, you got this, bless ur heart 🤍
so true
all i can do i make peace with it now
It's genuinely better for you to let it be, one thing that changed my perspective on everything was never judging too quickly, give everyone a benefit of a doubt, because thinking something like "That person just cut me off the road" its better to think "Maybe that person has an emergency and needs to get to somewhere quickly"
Protect your heart but never stop loving, that's what the heart is for
honestly thats how i used to think to...give people the benifit of doubt but in the end...it ended up hurting me again and again
Did you have strong boundaries?
i broke em down for her...thats the only mistake i made
i told her about my insecurites
and when she didnt respect them
i let it slide
Its very easy to want to do and give everything for someone we love
But know where you stand
Boundaries are very important and communication is as well
i lost all my self respect...everything
That's genuinely saddening, how are you right now?
Are you taking care of yourself?
im honestly so much more better
i cut her off
after i realized i fell in love with a different version of her
If you think that's what will help you then that's what you need to do
It happens, people often fall for potential rather than what they have now
shes a changed person now
