Is Having Multiple Exes a Red Flag? | FriendZone Debate

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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community is currently debating whether having multiple exes is a sign of personal growth or a negative trend. Members are discussing the importance of leaving toxic relationships versus the potential issue of treating dating like a collection. This engaging conversation highlights the server's active social atmosphere where members share diverse perspectives on life, dating, and personal stan...

sunnyjester-27 OP

It's not a trend:tomsip:

snowyjungle-82

Nah....
I most cases they should be appreciated for loving their life enough to get away from abuse and a marriage that would fall in the future
Better having millions of exes and having a healthy life and marriage than to be with a person who would mess up your life

freshmaple-47

i only have 1 so im good but i think more than 3 is the cut off:CB_hide_homer:

snowyjungle-82

who needs to hear this should know
Better have 100 exes than one devil
There is no shame in leaving people who would make life difficult for you

snowyorange-96

Cant be ashamed

snowyorange-96

Yk many will find people

snowyorange-96

And sometimes u only have bad luck

snowyorange-96

Until few years later

snowyjungle-82

You can't blame someone for the bad character of another person
People lie and pretend

snowyjungle-82

Don't be dumb
Manipulators and narcissist exist

snowyjungle-82

Most people mask their behavior till after marriage
So this invalid

pearlguitar-88

I didn't even have one :gigachad:

sunnyjester-27 OP

Everyone is right you shouldn't stay with a toxic person, and sometimes leaving is the healthiest choice. People grow, make mistakes, and not every relationship is meant to last. But at the same time, I'm talking about people who treat having exes like a trend. Instead of trying to fix things or learn, they just move on to someone new. Having exes has become something people are proud of, like "this is my ex" or "do you know how many people I've been with?"I don't think that's something to be proud of. It feels like the goal is to collect exes instead of building something real:armscrossed:

gentlemeadow-84

I feel :r_kermitcorner:

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