Is Long Distance Love Sustainable? | FriendZone Discussion
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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime server recently hosted a deep dive into the sustainability of long-distance relationships. Members debated the complexities of digital connections, the importance of real-life verification, and how distance can ultimately strengthen a bond. This discussion highlights the community's focus on meaningful social interaction and honest advice regarding modern dating challenges.
People who break up just because of temporary distance are fools
Exactly
Sustainable but not really easy.
Most of the time it's hard and often not what you think it is.
Okay, long distance where the two people never ever met is definitely dangerous territory.
And it def can be harder than short distance. But it also strengthens the relationships to other levels
Also wht do u mean by its not wht u think it is? People cheating or something
So you mean all this only for relationships when they have never met?
Nope happens in offline too,
But much more easy to decieve and hide your ugly self when you are online.
(Ever noticed??- everyone has god level skills in flirting on chat and they give out perfect reply lol).
- this is exactly why advisors tell you to observe the behavior and do multiple test on those people whom you date- put them in different places, see how they treat people below their status, see how they react and act when no one is watching etc....
Cap
I'm in relationship right now and I never LDR before but I might say I'm proving myself wrong I've been committed for about 1 and half weeks now I'm so surprised about it and even more I'm in love 🫨
My point is not for people who have never met in real life.
But if you are talking online and slowly progressing, the relationship can get better. Its harder I agree.
And its natural to be flirty on chats, less on vc, lesser on video call and dumbfound when u meet on reallife.
I am exempting from cases of catfishing btw. But if you have met this person, and you have known them irl for a shortwhile itself. You have that first sense of security.
And i m not saying tht you shiuld outright marry in long distance mode only.
But long distance enables a big constraint, that you have to choose to be together to make it work. And thats what makes it stronger
I am in a relationship rn. It has been a long.. longggg journey. And half of the journey was long distance. Currently its long distance too
It makes it stronger
it's sustainable but painful
It does if both sides want it to work
So how does one know if both sides when it to work
When both sides are outting in efforts
I see
What happens if one disappears one day without saying anything?
Yeahh thts really bad.
And now u dont know why it all ended 🥀
Yeah. Unfortunately
Thts very sad 🥀 
such is life
Yeah… life sux
Anyways. How's life on DC
Its food, fun people.
Oh
I see
Wasn't expecting that
Hottakes are kinda of full theses days
Well, it's not like I come here that much
But most hottakes ate meh
That's an honest way to describe them
I think at this point people are just using them for really much things that shouldn't be talked about
I have heard it used to be much better. There were intelligent debates
Hmm. Probably
Now its just random insulting ppl sometimes or jst bad topics
Yope you got it
