Should Women Propose to Men? Community Debate
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So you’re in a relationship and you do not want to marry them?
its either that or you do want to marry them
And if you do want to marry them then why dont u propose
stupid arguement
I'm taking about stuff associated with masculinity and femininity didn't you see that part bro
Generally, doesnt happen.
Im pretty sure she would definitely ask the guy before buying a ring for him because it doesnt seem smart to buy a ring for him without having a conversation about marriage with him. And if she does spark the conversation and you still let her buy a ring for you then idk man, not smth i would want personally but sure its your own life do wtvr u want
In my personal opinion, women have full right to propose to men. Gender equality. Men propose to women, so if a woman feels its the right time, whats stopping them?
But its not atupid when men propose directly before having a conversation of marriage with them?
Thats stupid. Its because of biology. And nobody on earth gets to pick what they want to be. A deer does not consent to being born as a deer and get killed by a lion just after.
Yeah,
My point here is what if the man was already planning on proposing to her? Her wasting her money on her own proposal would be a waste. Thats just how it is, accept it.
I dont get u man. If he was planning to propose but didnt, its her money wasted for propsoing first, why? I mean why is it so hard to accept that she proposed and gave u a ring and thats not money wasted or opportunity wasted or something
Men propose women and women propose men
Why isnt that equal
and trust me ur a woman so u wouldnt get it, but if i let my gf propose to me and buy me a ring nd stuff that would literally make anyone feel pathetic.
its the same energy as saying let ur wife go to work while u take care of the kids at home.
Lol! And u have no idea how pathetic this sounds. Ur wife going to work and u taking care of kids, there shouldn’t be anything wrong in tht
My point is,
Before she takes the initiative of a proposal, she should ask the guy beforehand. Because GENERALLY, a guy would not let a girl propose and hes going to get her the ring beforehand. So proposing to him while he had something planned up for the future is not really wise. Its their own life so obv do wtvr tf u want but i wouldnt want that.
well im not gonna argue with this haha
Do whatever feels good for you ig
No way people r still arguing about this
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And then “generality” is what we are trying to break by our discussion here
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Are you stupid.
Nvm leave it
Its pointless arguing with random ppl on the internet
Lol I feel the same. I understand u but dont agree with u
Well. You mentioned that why am I in a relationship if I don't want to marry them (ofc I want to marry them) but am I the only one that wants to get married in the relationship, she doesn't? She just waits to accept or reject? And bringing biology as fact for an event that doesn't have to do with biology is just not cool.
Well, I guess it's only men that wants to get married then if we follow your logic
Women are just reactive
And hold no agency of their own
They don't seek to be with their partner
If men don't initiate, women would never get married ig
Are you some kind of femboy or something???
Just a regular dude
I don't think so deadghost
Why do you say so
Biologically men are built to get someone a companion not the other way round
They chase not being the one chased
Are you a man?
Cause I don't get how you prove that that's a biological fact rather than a learned habit
Some dudes might not even want to chase, the whole chasing thing just seem idk. And also nothing is wrong being a guy being chased
After
Animals, plants same thing
Male Birds have colourful features so they can be accepted if they go after the female
Plants pollen grain goes to the female reproductive part of flower not the other way round
Pursing as a male isn't socially constructed in any way,it is biological
Yes
Oh. Okay, well every guy is different
Humans are complicated
For some events, it can be male driven
But not In all cases since we do have events of female driven agency too
