Stop People Pleasing: Why Authenticity Matters | FriendZone

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This announcement in FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime explores the importance of being authentic versus faking niceness. The discussion highlights that people pleasing is a waste of time and that true connections are built on honesty rather than a facade. It encourages community members to be cordial and respectful without losing their true selves, fostering a more genuine social environment for everyone.

noblewalrus-85 OP

faking niceness just so people like you will lead to more problems down the road as you cant act forever and they will eventually start to see the reality - that you arent as nice as they thought.

pearlguitar-88

You can try to i mean it's not hard in my opinion

noblewalrus-85 OP

its not a struggle its just a waste of time

noblewalrus-85 OP

its pointless

pearlguitar-88

Id you see it that way i mean you shouldn't always be nice sometimes you need to draw a line but it's different if were talking respect bc you have to be respectful to anyone you see bad or not respect is respect

noblewalrus-85 OP

no not respect

noblewalrus-85 OP

essentially people pleasing

pearlguitar-88

Why not

noblewalrus-85 OP

i meant like no im noy yalking about respect

noblewalrus-85 OP

respect is a good thing

pearlguitar-88

Oh ok

pearlguitar-88

Yah i understand you don't have to nice all the time if you were than it's not normal

quickranger-40

I mean you can be cordial but not fake

quickranger-40

Ppl can smell fakeness from a smile away

quickranger-40

Being cordial doesn’t mean fake

quickranger-40

U don’t have to be a straight up bitch to be real

quickranger-40

But yes some ppls automatic default can be being overly fake nice and it’s sooooo obvious

snowyorange-96

Na

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