Is Chivalry Dead? Join the Debate at FriendZone

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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime server is hosting a deep discussion on the evolution of chivalry and modern dating dynamics. Members are debating how shifting social roles and the use of metaphorical masks in society impact relationships. This engaging thread invites the community to share their perspectives on whether traditional courtship is still relevant in today's world.

wildmartin-15 OP

As Dave Chappelle said!!
Chivalry is almost dead(not until I and my friends are living lol).
Women were the price in the relationship- it was traditional, we know this because men have always been hunters. And as strategies of hunting, men had come up with different things to attract women or seduce women!!
Chivalry was one of the thing(based on idea of treating valuable people with care).
But the thing that happened is there was a shift in that dynamic- women gave away themselves too easy to men and even worse to men who were never very good at responsibility!!(bad boy arc).
The shift became that men were the price now- so they started questioning if I am the price then what does the woman bring to the table for me??
As a result chivalry got killed- as men now did not think that being chivalrous is necessary anymore.
Also the feminism movement also had a big role I think!!
What are your thoughts ladies and gents??

@wildmartin-15 As Dave Chappelle said!! Chivalry is almost dead(not until I and my friends are living lol). Women…
pearlguitar-88

Wait until a strong independent woman see this lmao

@pearlguitar-88 Wait until a strong independent woman see this lmao
wildmartin-15 OP

More like a misogynistic woman who disguises herself to support other women!!
Wolf in sheep's clothing lol

@wildmartin-15 More like a misogynistic woman who disguises herself to support other women!! Wolf in sheep's cloth…
pearlguitar-88

Lol trueee freedom of speech is used as a weapon these days

@pearlguitar-88 Lol trueee freedom of speech is used as a weapon these days
wildmartin-15 OP

Yup, some people are real evil and manipulating!!

@wildmartin-15 Yup, some people are real evil and manipulating!!
pearlguitar-88

Trueeee

wildmartin-15 OP

It is only that you follow a person's action for a long time you get glimpses of what they are really like- people love to wear fake masks to not reveal their pathetic side

@wildmartin-15 It is only that you follow a person's action for a long time you get glimpses of what they are real…
pearlguitar-88

Yeah i love ppl who are honest like me

@pearlguitar-88 Yeah i love ppl who are honest like me
wildmartin-15 OP

True that!!

@wildmartin-15 It is only that you follow a person's action for a long time you get glimpses of what they are real…
gentleunicorn-93

Everyone wears a mask, metaphorically speaking

@gentleunicorn-93 Everyone wears a mask, metaphorically speaking
wildmartin-15 OP

Yes they do but some use that mask to manipulate others!!
People wear mask to hide their insecurities but some people know that if their real self is shown to the society they would be scorned upon!! So they form complete fake persona to get along

@pearlguitar-88 Yeah i love ppl who are honest like me
wildmartin-15 OP

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@wildmartin-15 👍
pearlguitar-88

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@gentleunicorn-93 Everyone wears a mask, metaphorically speaking
pearlguitar-88

Some wear the mask for too long

@pearlguitar-88 Some wear the mask for too long
wildmartin-15 OP

Which is why often times they have identity crisis when they desire different things and react differently to situations lol

@wildmartin-15 Which is why often times they have identity crisis when they desire different things and react diff…
pearlguitar-88

Exactly just how i feel and i don't recommend i always asked myself how do one act lik themselves that's how bad it is and it still is

@pearlguitar-88 Exactly just how i feel and i don't recommend i always asked myself how do one act lik themselves t…
wildmartin-15 OP

Yup, it's bad!!
What I have observed Is we got to keep integrating or fake persona with our real one unless we feel as if we act one with mind and body

wittycandle-34

Lol, it's interesting that men always bring this up as an issue among many issues.

Sincere chivalry isn't dead. Insincere chivalry is what got killed, which isn't much of an issue imo. Expecting something in return is what killed it. Chivalry is a character trait, not something used as leverage against women. Open doors for EVERYONE without expecting a thank you in return. Be sincere in your courtesy toward EVERYONE, without expecting the same in return. That’s character—which is something you do not have! 😉

@wittycandle-34 Lol, it's interesting that men always bring this up as an issue among many issues. Sincere chivalry…
pearlguitar-88

So strong and independent

pearlguitar-88

Am jealous

@wittycandle-34 Lol, it's interesting that men always bring this up as an issue among many issues. Sincere chivalry…
wildmartin-15 OP

Well I have been polite and the most respectful with my words, articulation everything without any expectations lol.- so I don't know what you are going in about miss!!
You seem to be in denial- everyone wants something from the other person which is why they behave a certain way with different people!!
And if as you say sincere chivalry is not dead do tell me examples of why you say so!!
If men are not opening doors anymore that simply means chivalry is dead- what is this sincere, insincere joke you are speaking about lol.

@wittycandle-34 Lol, it's interesting that men always bring this up as an issue among many issues. Sincere chivalry…
wildmartin-15 OP

And again what you describe is not chivalry its normal kind and generous behaviour as repectable human beings lol!!
Women and men both remain curious and respectful to each other!!
But I do know one hypocrite person who is never respectful and cusses on everyone, so don't know what you are talking about character either lol

wildmartin-15 OP

Lol, just seeing how you reacted!!
I can't lol thank you for making my day haha

wittycandle-34

I'm gonna have pizza soon lol yayy

wittycandle-34

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wildmartin-15 OP

Enjoy!!

wittycandle-34

I will! Thank you

@wittycandle-34 I will! Thank you
wildmartin-15 OP

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quickbadger-36

:pepetea: all that sound like old era stuff

quickbadger-36

Ain't seeing anyone as a price

quickbadger-36

The price is get my mular

quickbadger-36

:r_kermitcorner: some cash Nd life goes on

quickbadger-36

It does come with even updates like easy lady access

@quickbadger-36 It does come with even updates like easy lady access
wildmartin-15 OP

My my you know your game my man!!

quickbadger-36

Chivalry is what stories tell yah

quickbadger-36

Not how you like your life

@quickbadger-36 Chivalry is what stories tell yah
wildmartin-15 OP

But I do genuinely feel happy being chivalrous to ladies

@wildmartin-15 But I do genuinely feel happy being chivalrous to ladies
quickbadger-36

Why?

quickbadger-36

Which be chivalrous when they can also be that way

quickbadger-36

It's something anyone can do

@quickbadger-36 Which be chivalrous when they can also be that way
wildmartin-15 OP

I know they can open the door themselves but no harm in opening for them

@wildmartin-15 I know they can open the door themselves but no harm in opening for them
quickbadger-36

:pepetea: sure. If it makes you happy

quickbadger-36

I don't see the need doing all that if the person can do it themselves

wildmartin-15 OP

Yeah, but you should also be aware.
Some women don't like that- they somehow got that male ego now saying like I can do it myself

@quickbadger-36 I don't see the need doing all that if the person can do it themselves
wildmartin-15 OP

Ohh!! Really??

@wildmartin-15 Yeah, but you should also be aware. Some women don't like that- they somehow got that male ego now…
quickbadger-36

Well, I see

quickbadger-36

I don't expect anyone to be chivalrous to me so I don't expect anyone to expect that from me

quickbadger-36

It only works in a few settings

quickbadger-36

And only for a few valued people

quickbadger-36

Maybe my sis or my mum

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