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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime server is hosting a deep discussion on the evolution of chivalry and modern dating dynamics. Members are debating how shifting social roles and the use of metaphorical masks in society impact relationships. This engaging thread invites the community to share their perspectives on whether traditional courtship is still relevant in today's world.
As Dave Chappelle said!!
Chivalry is almost dead(not until I and my friends are living lol).
Women were the price in the relationship- it was traditional, we know this because men have always been hunters. And as strategies of hunting, men had come up with different things to attract women or seduce women!!
Chivalry was one of the thing(based on idea of treating valuable people with care).
But the thing that happened is there was a shift in that dynamic- women gave away themselves too easy to men and even worse to men who were never very good at responsibility!!(bad boy arc).
The shift became that men were the price now- so they started questioning if I am the price then what does the woman bring to the table for me??
As a result chivalry got killed- as men now did not think that being chivalrous is necessary anymore.
Also the feminism movement also had a big role I think!!
What are your thoughts ladies and gents??
Wait until a strong independent woman see this lmao
More like a misogynistic woman who disguises herself to support other women!!
Wolf in sheep's clothing lol
Lol trueee freedom of speech is used as a weapon these days
Yup, some people are real evil and manipulating!!
Trueeee
It is only that you follow a person's action for a long time you get glimpses of what they are really like- people love to wear fake masks to not reveal their pathetic side
Yeah i love ppl who are honest like me
True that!!
Everyone wears a mask, metaphorically speaking
Yes they do but some use that mask to manipulate others!!
People wear mask to hide their insecurities but some people know that if their real self is shown to the society they would be scorned upon!! So they form complete fake persona to get along
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Some wear the mask for too long
Which is why often times they have identity crisis when they desire different things and react differently to situations lol
Exactly just how i feel and i don't recommend i always asked myself how do one act lik themselves that's how bad it is and it still is
Yup, it's bad!!
What I have observed Is we got to keep integrating or fake persona with our real one unless we feel as if we act one with mind and body
Lol, it's interesting that men always bring this up as an issue among many issues.
Sincere chivalry isn't dead. Insincere chivalry is what got killed, which isn't much of an issue imo. Expecting something in return is what killed it. Chivalry is a character trait, not something used as leverage against women. Open doors for EVERYONE without expecting a thank you in return. Be sincere in your courtesy toward EVERYONE, without expecting the same in return. That’s character—which is something you do not have! 😉
So strong and independent
Am jealous
Well I have been polite and the most respectful with my words, articulation everything without any expectations lol.- so I don't know what you are going in about miss!!
You seem to be in denial- everyone wants something from the other person which is why they behave a certain way with different people!!
And if as you say sincere chivalry is not dead do tell me examples of why you say so!!
If men are not opening doors anymore that simply means chivalry is dead- what is this sincere, insincere joke you are speaking about lol.
And again what you describe is not chivalry its normal kind and generous behaviour as repectable human beings lol!!
Women and men both remain curious and respectful to each other!!
But I do know one hypocrite person who is never respectful and cusses on everyone, so don't know what you are talking about character either lol
Lol, just seeing how you reacted!!
I can't lol thank you for making my day haha
I'm gonna have pizza soon lol yayy
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Enjoy!!
I will! Thank you
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all that sound like old era stuff
Ain't seeing anyone as a price
The price is get my mular
some cash Nd life goes on
It does come with even updates like easy lady access
My my you know your game my man!!
Chivalry is what stories tell yah
Not how you like your life
But I do genuinely feel happy being chivalrous to ladies
Why?
Which be chivalrous when they can also be that way
It's something anyone can do
I know they can open the door themselves but no harm in opening for them
sure. If it makes you happy
I don't see the need doing all that if the person can do it themselves
Yeah, but you should also be aware.
Some women don't like that- they somehow got that male ego now saying like I can do it myself
Ohh!! Really??
Well, I see
I don't expect anyone to be chivalrous to me so I don't expect anyone to expect that from me
It only works in a few settings
And only for a few valued people
Maybe my sis or my mum