¡NO

ES

RACISTA

TENER

PREFERENCIAS

PERSONALES

Punto.

Punto.

Tienes todo el derecho a no salir con alguien por su raza, porque SOLO TE AFECTA A TI.

No, pero yo argumento que las preferencias están bien, pero descartar a toda una raza me parece una locura. O sea, quizás no te atraigan muchos chicos blancos, por ejemplo, pero rechazar por completo la posibilidad de que te atraiga uno me parece raro. Quizás no sea racismo, pero sí tiene vibras racistas.

¿Sabes AL MENOS la definición de racismo?

La belleza es subjetiva.

DEFINITIVAMENTE puedes rechazar la idea de salir con toda una raza.

Es cómo lo dices. Puedes decir 'me gustan los chicos negros' en lugar de 'no me gustan los asiáticos', suena mucho mejor.

Y tu preferencia no debería ser dañina para otros.

Empieza a decir que son esto o aquello.

¿Por favor, ilumíname sobre cómo una PREFERENCIA PERSONAL que afecta SOLO A MI VIDA PRIVADA es "dAiÑiNa" para otros?

Empieza a pensar en esto quizás.

Bueno, es mejor mencionar cosas positivas que ir diciendo que no saldrías con alguien por su raza. O sea, sí, está bien porque es tu elección, pero la gente no debería ir presumiendo de que no le gusta cierta raza.

O varias razas.

Primero, no te alteres, bro. Segundo, si te dijera que saldría con todas las razas excepto con chicos blancos y que nunca, jamás, saldría con un chico blanco sin importar cómo fuera, ¿no te parecería al menos raro?

Léelo otra vez.

Primero, hablaba de la tontería que escribió "ladyinblue".

Segundo.

Estoy totalmente a favor de que no salgas con la raza que quieras.

Porque, de nuevo.

NO es racista considerar la raza al salir con alguien.

Eres libre de salir con quien quieras, me da igual. Estoy a favor de que lo hagas.

Luego te explico.

¿Qué tontería?

Que una preferencia personal es "dAiÑiNa" para otros.

Tómate todo el tiempo que necesites para estirar la espalda, abuela.😂

Chaval, ten respeto por los adultos.😤

Como dije, depende de cómo lo digas. Como decir 'no me gustan los negros porque su color es horrible', y cosas así, estás diciendo cosas malas sobre ello.

O usar estereotipos como razón.

Bueno, claro, pero eso no es "ser dañino", solo es ser grosero.

¿Crees que se sentirán bien?

Se sentirán heridos.

Deprimidos.

Si ELLOS no pueden soportar la idea de que UN DESCONOCIDO TOTAL que no tiene ninguna relación con ellos diga que no saldría con ellos por su raza, ni siquiera son adultos, no deberían ni votar ni conducir porque son niños inmaduros.

Alguien que se siente herido por las palabras de un extraño es simplemente un niño grande.

Bro, el problema no es no salir con ellos, es la estupidez que está diciendo.

¿Cómo va a ser una estupidez una preferencia PERSONAL?

Entonces no deberían arrestar a nadie por lo que diga.

¿Cómo te atreves a decidir lo que todos deberían gustar y aceptar?

Libertad de expresión, woo.

¿Entiendes las cosas?

¿Qué tiene eso que ver con lo que se está diciendo aquí?

La tenemos, pero es limitada.

Entonces no es libertad.

Bueno, la raza no es algo que la gente pueda cambiar, así que supongo que es más dudoso si la gente basa sus opiniones en eso. Aunque tendría más sentido si hubiera más factores.

Por eso dicen que tu derecho termina donde empieza el de otro, no puedes decir cualquier cosa y salirte con la tuya.

No, mi derecho nunca termina, de lo contrario es un permiso, no un derecho. Tengo el derecho a la libertad de expresión como humano, y nunca termina. Ni el tuyo ni el de nadie más.

Tengo todo el derecho a que no me atraiga una chica negra o india para salir con ella y, por tanto, decidir evitar citas con ellas. El problema podría surgir si las uso para conseguir citas y luego las dejo y las hiero, pero eso es otra discusión totalmente distinta.

Eso tiene sentido, pero podría verse como algo más individual sobre cómo ves a otros; podría tener menos que ver con la raza real de alguien y más con su aspecto, personalidad, acciones, etc.

Lo cual, de nuevo, tiene todo el sentido, refutando así la idea original de que tales puntos de vista pueden ser "racistas".

Bueno, entonces técnicamente no tiene mucho que ver con la raza de todos modos.

Aun así, hay factores.

Quiero decir, sí, pero a nivel personal, por lo que puede verse como "racista" dado que el racismo es algo que se impone a otros para justificar la discriminación contra un tercero.

Tiene sentido.

Tener preferencias y un tipo está bien. Pero ir pregonando que no saldrás con una raza en particular da vibras racistas.

Entonces llámame racista, luxe, me da igual.

Jejeje

Nunca supe que la raza fuera parte de la lista de requisitos. Pensé que todo lo que necesitabas era ser un ser humano decente

Esto es un hecho.

Ese comentario no iba dirigido a nadie. Entonces, ¿por qué me respondes? Como si me importara... ¿O estás obsesionado conmigo, Wolfee? 🫴 Veo a los racistas como gente tonta, así que supongo que tengo permiso para llamarte tonto de ahora en adelante...

Sí. Más diversión... ¿Por qué no haces uno tú mismo o es que alpha tiene miedo de ser reportado por aquellos que se lo tomarían en serio...? 😅 Pobre alpha (Omega)

sé que no estuvimos de acuerdo en el pasado, pero te has lucido con esta opinión polémica, lol.

Ok.

¿Cuál es tu tipo de alienígena?

Definitivamente no es racista, jajaja.

Es como decir que prefiero a las mujeres delgadas significa que eres gordofóbico.

Esta no es la opinión que crees que es. Puedes ser racista y aun así ser amigo de esa misma raza. Mucha gente lo hace⁉️

No funciona igual porque, por lo general, no querer salir con una raza específica tiene sus raíces en el racismo, y puedes controlar tu peso, pero no tu raza.

La verdad es que está más arraigado en los estándares de belleza. La gente de mente débil usa la carta del racismo para no pensar que hay personas a las que les parecen feos.

Bueno, se llama hipocresía.

¿Entonces es más como 'no me gustas' en lugar de 'no me gustas porque eres de este lugar'?

Entonces eso no tiene nada que ver con la raza.

Nah, esto tampoco funciona porque cada raza viene con personas que tienen rasgos diferentes. Es cierto que hay algunos rasgos que son más comunes en ciertas razas, pero eso no significa que TODOS los de esa raza los tengan. Está arraigado en el racismo, no porque la gente sea una llorona, sino porque es verdad. Y muchas cosas también están arraigadas en el racismo.

¿Pues claro?

Algunas personas simplemente tienen preferencias. No es como si fueras a saber quién es tu alma gemela solo por la raza, pero la preferencia no es racista. Quieres pasar la vida con alguien que sea adecuado para ti. Aunque te estés cerrando a posibles parejas adecuadas, es completamente comprensible.

Bueno, personalmente no tengo ningún problema con ninguna raza. Nacemos en esas razas, no las elegimos. Bueno, estoy de acuerdo en que las personas de una raza comparten cosas en común. Pero, ¿por qué el 'no' se basaría en lo que tienen en común como raza? Estoy tratando de entablar una relación con una persona y no con una 'raza'.

Simplemente no me atrae la piel oscura. No significa que no reconozca que hay personas de esa raza que son atractivas, pero simplemente no me resulta atractivo. ¿Cómo está eso arraigado en el racismo?🤣

"Está arraigado en el racismo porque es verdad". Si me das un argumento mejor que este, te tomaré en serio.

Oh. Ahora estás siendo específico sobre lo que no te gusta. La piel oscura, no la raza.

Sí, exactamente, la raza no es algo que elegimos, y creo que otras cosas sobre tener un tipo deberían tener más enfoque.

Te estás contradiciendo. ¿Cómo puedes encontrar a alguien guapo sin pensar que es atractivo? Se llama colorismo. ¿De dónde viene el colorismo? Del racismo.

Sí, pero debido a que (en este ejemplo) la piel oscura es específica de una raza, puedo decir con seguridad que no saldría con esa raza específica (y otras también). Como ese otro tipo de antes que dijo que no saldría con chicos blancos porque no le gusta la piel clara y prefiere las más oscuras. No es racismo, son solo preferencias.

Eso no es un rasgo racial, eso es color de piel.

Tu elección se basa en el color de piel = colorismo = nacido del racismo.

Todo lo que veo es un malentendido muy extendido del significado de la palabra "racismo".

Sí. Podría decir que no me gustan las personas de piel oscura, pero no es por la raza. Espera... , ni siquiera tengo estándares, lol.

Entonces, si no me gusta el pelo rojo, ¿es eso "pelorismo"?

¿Cómo diablos puedes votar?

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Racismo
RAZA

Es posible ver que alguien es guapo y no encontrarlo atractivo, quiero decir, para mí así es como puedo ver a otros.

Entonces, ¿por qué no decir la preferencia en lugar de toda la raza? De todos modos, el racismo es odio o sentirse superior, la preferencia no es odio, supongo.

Así que estás bien, amigo.

Sí. La preferencia no es racismo.

Bro, sabes perfectamente que las personas con pelo rojo no fueron tratadas como inferiores a otros humanos. 🤔

Porque reconozco que tienen un conjunto específico de rasgos que los hace "convencionalmente" atractivos, al menos para esa cultura/raza específica, pero que personalmente no encuentro esos rasgos suficientes para hacerme sentir atraído románticamente por esa persona.

De la misma manera que tú puedes 👌

Es como no gustarte un tipo de fideos, eso no significa que odies todas las pastas.

Oh, ok, así que admites que todo se trata de hacerse la víctima.

Sí, eso tiene más que ver con cómo se ve alguien.

Y, por cierto, las pelirrojas a menudo eran consideradas demonios o brujas y quemadas o asesinadas.

Especialmente en la Europa medieval.

¿La gente todavía hace eso?

¿¡QUÉ DEMONIOS ESTÁS DICIENDO!?🤣 🤣

¿O tiempos oscuros?

Esto.

Bro, si no quieres salir con personas negras, nadie te está obligando y, sinceramente, no me importa. Sería un hipócrita si lo hiciera. Pero no te gusta un color de piel, lo cual se llama colorismo, y no puedes negar que proviene del racismo. 😭

EXACTAMENTE.

Por supuesto, la pasta siempre salva el día.

🤣 🤣

¿Cómo es eso de hacerse la víctima? Hay una razón por la que 'pelorismo' no es una palabra. Ese era mi punto.

Simplemente no me resulta atractivo, bro. Pero si quieres ser el 'chico bueno' y jugar la carta de la víctima acusándome de ser 'malo' solo para sentirte un poco importante y satisfacer tu ego para justificar una vida triste, adelante.

No odias a las personas, solo no quieres una pareja que tenga cierto rasgo, ¿verdad?

Tu punto gira completamente en torno a llamarme el malo para que puedas hacer el papel de bueno y sentirte mejor contigo mismo.

Uh, no estoy seguro de si esto es exactamente racismo basado en preferencias, pero una vez alguien me dijo que no saliera específicamente con filipinos, ya que aparentemente les cuesta expresarse, lo cual es un rasgo que no me gustaría (ellos mismos estaban saliendo con uno).

Exactamente. Pero aparentemente eso es malo porque Dios no permita que la gente tenga preferencias únicas.

Nunca vine aquí tratando de satisfacer mi ego y no tenía la intención de pintarte como el malo. Sal con quien quieras.

¿Cómo es un rasgo psicológico y extremadamente personal basado en la raza?😭 Quien te haya dicho eso claramente no le gustaban los filipinos, probablemente por eso.

La gente simplemente tiene problemas con la historia.

Nunca te llamé malo, ¿por qué actúas como víctima? Solo digo que el colorismo es algo real en todo el mundo y proviene del racismo, eso es todo.

No sé, y no, esa persona que me lo dijo estaba literalmente saliendo con un filipino, dijeron que aparentemente no pueden mostrar sus emociones o algo así, pero que no debería salir con uno.

Porque estás tratando activamente de pintar mi preferencia personal como "racismo", atacando así mi identidad personal y (voluntariamente o no) pintándome como racista frente a los demás.

Hmm. ¿Por qué siquiera vemos el color como un problema?

¿Por los niños?

Lol, bueno, probablemente pensaron que su pareja representaba a toda la raza.

All I wanted to point out is that people being offended by your personal preference when it comes to race isn’t necessarily them playing the victim card but it’s true that racial preference can be rooted in racism that’s all. Didn’t mean to make you feel that way, mb.

Yh probs tho they did have experiences with a few of the same race

Right. If racism was never a thing

Then all colours would be okay and attractive right

But I, like every sane person, couldn't give a singular shit about how others feel about MY PERSONAL PREFERENCE THAT IMPACTS ONLY MY OWN LIFE. If they get offended by others having different preferences and opinioms than them, they should lock themselves up in their own houses, never come out and save all of us from heaving headaches from dealing with this attention seekers

Could sorta be, tho diff ppl may sought for diff colours but it'd be less of focusing on trying to get lighter for much of the world (for example India)

Prob. It might also be a culture thing. Idk about the Filipino culture, but I can suppose they though that their partner was being reserved with their emotions due to their own culture yk

So what if someone only likes someone of a completely diff race than them? Are they racist towards themself?

Lmfao🤣 🤣

Gotcha ig

Like a Mexican girl ONLY likes black guys. Is she racist towards Mexicans ?

Internalised racism is a thing but that's diff since it'd be a personal preference and doesn't mean they hate their own race

This seems like the racist apocalypse

Why do we have an issue with colour. Isn't not like it a trait that causes harm. Oh I guess it's like I don't like short people thingy I guess

That’s called being a fetishist and those people are often weird af ngl

Good luck explaining to a black person who only dates their race that they’re actually internally racist

Yh I'm guessing it was more of a cultural thing than to do with race tbh

How can you make a fetish out of a type?

All my exes were comp sci majors so I have a software engineer fetish

They were all taller than me so do I have a tall fetish

They were all men

So I have a man fetish

LMFAO

I mean u could connect it to history and certain ideas being pushed but yh, preferences r diff

it’s called having a type.

Can’t really blame those people that are still victims of discrimination for reacting strongly, that’s their reality.

More like those are what you are into

🤣

Imagine getting rejected by someone and just saying that they’re racist bc they don’t fw you

Could have always tried the opposite

Sounds more like you want to dictate how others should think, feel and act with their own lives...

East Asians have sometimes said it is from others liking their race, not sure if that counts tho

Indeed

🤣

Yea this sounds like a person who was rejected bc they weren’t someone’s type and is just trying to cope with it rn

yeah theres nothing wrong dating somebody thats also into interracial love too

True, since sometimes they may have had experiences related to traits of them that they can't control

No, reality is that they should stop acting like kids, and more like mature adults cuz nothing is handed to them. They, LIKE EVERYONE ELSE ON THIS FUCKING FLOATING ROCK, have to work for it and earn it

Oh. So biological factors are the main issues? I thought we were more like worried about the other factors like character, personality, etc. the non physical parts of a person

No that’s great but the argument is for people who only date specific races and not open their holes for all

Exactly💯

idk what else to say this is a strange topic

Also why are we disregarding the fact that maybe people who only date within their own race share the same cultural values and morals ?

Not everything is surface level as in looks or skin color are we that shallow

Cause I have never left my country

If you’ve only dated comp sci majors that doesn’t mean that you’re entirely against dating anything else. Earlier you mentioned a Mexican or white girl that ONLY dates black guys and nothing else. Like she wouldn’t consider dating anything else , so if she had the perfect man according to her standards but he isn’t black she wouldn’t date him. why not ? It’s a bit obsessive and that’s how fetishists act.

You can't date outside what you don't see

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Or maybe that's simply how preferences works?

Would you say the same thing if I said she only dates white guys

Depends what's being focused on, physical traits Vs non-physical and ppl will focus on one or the other more sometimes or judge in an equalish way

No, that is white supremacism or racism. I'm sure she'll say this

I couldn’t care less , you don’t think it’s weird if someone only dates a specific race and doesn’t care for the others ? Like if you were around someone that’s like I only only only want a Peruvian bf ever when they’re not , you wouldn’t find that weird at all?

Bro you can be friends with people while being racist in private , it’s called being a hypocrite? I’m not calling you a hypocrite I’m just saying that saying that doesn’t get your point across.

I guess so

That's for those who don't want to branch out which is also fine since it's a set idea for many ppl

No? Why is it someone's job to care for others? And if YOU find other people's preferences wierd, maybe you're the racist one cuz according to your vision of reality, everyone should think and act like you do or they're "wierd"

Yeah I would

I'm sorry but you only sound like a narcisist

Yh exactly

you said you don't find black attractive when it comes to a partner, why exactly?

Big words 😹

If you have black friends and you say slurs and make racist comments but smile to their face that would make you a hypocrite ?

What about men who prefer curvier women? Are we gonna shame them for not giving the already desirable skinny women a chance?

No! Because what’s wrong with people who know what they want?

If they’re dating someone who is their type, the other party isn’t being forced to date them the attraction is clearly mutual

I just don't find particulary attractive darker skins in general. Even slightly "whiter" skins like the indian one or the middle eastern one.

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No one’s forcing or shaming anyone for their choices

Says the one that use "racism" without knowing its meaning, stripping the word of its impirtance

you literally said that my hypothetical girl who only dates black guys has a fetish!!!! LMFAO

So what's the difference btw the ones you find attractive and the others, it's all just colour in the end

YOU CALLED MY PREFERENCES RACIST YOU MORON

Nah I meant that the “I’m not racist bc I have black friends” line doesn’t work in general

Some Indians might literally look whiter than 'white' ppl

racial discrimination
- the belief that different races possess distinct characteristics, abilities, or qualities, especially so as to distinguish them as inferior or superior to one another.

On a physical level yes, then there's also personality and how they act yk. But to het to that, it means I've already ruled out the physical part, otherwise I wouldn't even consider it

Lol yeah, you've never seen a scandinavian probably 🤣

Well if she only wants to date black guys when she’s not black what’s the reason behind not wanting to date anything else ?

And where does thay definition fits into this argument about PERSONAL PREFERENCES IN DATING?

What's racism exactly then, I'm guessing negative discrimination against a group of people only cos their race

Because she thinks they’re attractive ????????

Maybe she likes darker skins?

I only date men. I’ve never been attracted to women nor have I ever had any desire to experiment. Am I sxist?

Well idk I've just seen some 'non-white' who could pass of as literally Scandinavian or European even tho they're Asian or smth

If any of yall pass on her you’re a racist

That, but when you also push your views of superiority/inferiority of races on others, trying to convince people to treat people differently because of race

🤣 🤣

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I didn’t call YOUR preference racist , I literally explained to you earlier that my point was that when you say that you wouldn’t want to a certain race the people reacting strongly and calling it racism isn’t necessarily wanting to be victims but it’s because having a preference when it comes to race CAN be rooted in racism. I never called YOU a racist. I said that some people that have racial preferences CAN be racist.

Still don't understand why we have preferences

Fucking clankers

There’s a word for that , it’s called sexuality

Right. Based on what you find attractive!

Your whoel point doesn't make sense. You just said MY preferences are based in racism, so it automatically means that you're calling ME racist you illitterate idiot

The most amazing thing about attraction is that it’s mysterious and there’s no one that can decide it for you but yourself. There’s no need to feel like you need to mansplain why you fw people.

Ah ok that makes sense

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Gosh I hope when I’m at my wedding with my lightskin Mexican husband I don’t need to justify why I find them attractive and how I’m not a racist

Can you check your DMs pls the server won’t let me send a definition

I'm not attracted to very short girls because of the whole height difference. A logical reason

Lmfao you just have to invite woke people to your wedding😂

Just read it. I get what you’re trying to say but who are we to police others for their relationship choices

i just told you that I didn’t say that. I do believe that some people genuinely have no interest in a certain race without being racist but some people can have the same standards with not so good thoughts behind that’s it. I never said you were one of them, all I was discussing is you calling other cry babies over smth that is very much real.

I didn't expect physical traits to be so important tbh, valid if u want a certain look for a lover but tbh personality seems like a better focus (at least an afterthought that u should mainly focus on)

Not trying to police, just trying to understand why they make those choices

Physical traits matter if you meet the body before the mind of the person

Is “you’re not my type. They’re my type” not enough for you?

Well I just find it kinda weird that someone even dislikes their own to that point but I wouldn’t go out of my way to be like : hey you’re a fetishist and so so weird. That’s their personal choice, if their partner is ok with it , I don’t have anything to say.

I'm calling crybabies people that gets offended by other people's opinion, CUZ THAT'S WHAT THEY ARE.

Nope.

Well ppl do have opinions abt many things and we're discussing it here, everyone will always have issues with how certain ppl may act, think, have preferences of (even outside of love)

If you say you don't like short guys, I look at the height and also maybe if you are doing it for like wanting tall kids

True ig

I don’t like skinny white blonde men. But I am super attracted to my lightskin Mexican boyfriend who could be white passing. I’m half Mexican. Am I half racist ?

Well a cry baby is someone who cries for no reason , I think there’s a reason in this case but you’re not the category that they should be calling out.

50% racist, bro got nerfed🤣

Nah. You are not racist. Why don't you like skinny white blonde guys though

Not my type

Why do you have a type

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Attraction works in mysterious ways

Oh, so now it's about dividing people into categories, I see... I can clearly understand what kind of person you are...

Looking for a logical reason

Well I don’t like skinny white blonde men bc I don’t like the colour combo

Especially with blue eyes

Why. Is it just on a biological level reason?

Trueee what about the people who prefer brunettes over blondes? Are they haircist?

Oh, well according to a certain someone in this chat that can be rooted into racism...

All are fine

Bro, I just said that you shouldn’t be a target when people calling out racism bc you’re not racist ? How do you manage to find a problem in that. 🫩

Sorry, I've already trademarked the word "hairism" and all its derivations. You now have to pay me 12 quadrillion dollars

Hmmm 🤔 honestly I think blue eyes are scary and I think blonde accentuates the blue eyes.

It's just a colour

Don't worry, I'm just enjoying myself into calling you out for the hypocritical and pointless argument you made before

Yeah I’m racist af

Indeed

Oh no ref do something!

I KNEW YOU WERE JUST PROJECTING🤣 🤣

I don’t like that colour

A cat is also a sufficient form of payment

I told you I’d be a hypocrite if I called you a racist over racial preference earlier, you’re not even paying attention. You just like to “debate”. You’re bored af. 🤣

I guess that's what comes with when you have many choices but the people born with it didn't choose those though

Big words from someone that knows the meaning of half of them

But it’s ok tho

Those people can date someone else too

Unfortunately, the whole dating system is kinda broken

Those days pref were simple I guess

Yeah unfortunately you can’t be everyone’s type 🙁

Nah, only if you give up too soon

Yea because everyone was ACTUALLY racist

Thank God

But he is a good guy, doesn't that matter?

💯 🤣

I’m bored too but I do know the meanings of the words I use

Sure

From what I'm getting at, u basically mean ppl shouldn't be saying how they prefer not to date certain races because of things related to them like facial features or smth...? (Idk how to explain now)

Isn't racism hate?

I don’t think you should date someone only for their personality , a relationship without physical attraction is pretty much over from the start 💀

I'd give an example but I'd sound rude💀

Sent you the def I just think you dislike me , bro called me a narcissist 😭

What if I liked them before I saw them in "body"

Bodies get old in the end

I would probably go for the unphysical parts of a person

But most of the time is what makes you get interested in the first place

Not really

I’m saying that people shouldn’t say they don’t want to date a whole race bc of offensive reasons kinda yeah.

I have liked someone before I even got to know what they looked like

Well once you see them in body you will end up disliking them at some point

If someone you find unattractive keeps pushing for physical interactions you’ll be pretty annoyed

Then that means I never liked them.

What the fuck are we talking about once you see them “in body”

Physically

Like in real life , I think that’s what he meant?

Are we talking about a love is blind situation?

Oh alr, valid

I don’t really know how they fell in love without seeing each other 😭

Let's say you talk to a person for like years but you don't know what they look like. Just texts Nd calls Nd VN. No pictures or videos or physical meeting. Would you like them at some point?

The show has examples of that where people meet through a wall and fall in love sight unseen. But there are some who DO have previous racial preferences that either get redefined or reinforced.

Some ppl literally just have a type even if they TRY to be attracted to someone that differs

I think if you get a long well you can develop a crush but honestly I don’t think I could ever fall in love with someone I’ve never even seen

Without meeting irl is alr pretty hard but faceless ? Hell nah

But they didn't choose their body I guess

So do you like them as the body

Or as a mind

That is true and it is what it is

Could possibly be connected to what's considered 'conventionally attractive' to them

Kinda of sad though.

You can like the way someone thinks , their personality etc but if you’re not attracted to them then there’s no point in pursuing them romantically. That’ll just lead to wandering eyes.

If you don’t find them attractive , stay friends

Not rly unless their preferences align with society’s standards which are NOT reflected in the show

There was a guy who said he preferred big booty latinas even though his fiance was objectively GORGEOUS but she was thin hot and blonde

What if I am okay with the non physical

Yh true ig

Well are they ok with it tho? As long as the two of you are ok with it , it’s aight

Ngl that's a bit funny (no hate tho)

It made AMAZING reality tv u should rly give it a watch

One of my fav shows

Nice. At least I know that they didn't choose their biology but the personality Nd all that they did

What's the name again, love is blind? (I can't keep up with these messages)

A relationship is between two people , it’s all about what the two of you are ok with. Don’t let others influence it. 👍

Right

Yes it’s on Netflix! There’s helllla seasons if u actually want to give it a chance just dm and I can point you to a good season to watch first

Tbh I'm not rly someone who's interested in love and all that but I might check it out, maybe

Well then I’d point you to one of the messier seasons 🤣💀💀

They’re the better ones to watch but there are ppl that actually find their spouses on this show and many have families now

Oh cooll

Which ones

Season 6 is PEAK ASF

or season 4 is really good

There was a girl who described herself that she looked like megan fox while in the pods and when they did the reveal the guy said that “she lied” 💀💀😭😭🤣

Oh wow hahaha

Dirty black fellow. (Mama didn't allow me to say the n word)

At the end of the day, be happy what type of man or woman you'll be with regarding of the color of their skin bc we're all human either way not other species

Having a preference is okay....
Just like saying I prefer black men okay but saying I will never date an Asian man
Then go extra miles to public shame the other person or broadcasting it gives racist vibe
Especially if you don't have any useful reason just because of their race...

No one cares if you serious or not ,Mt,
Your only power is blocking others when you have not to defend yourself with
What are you without a block button.....?
A coward....?

Is this" the rise dumb crackers"
Interesting comedy...

It's preferences
Can't you get the point but completely removing them for your list without any reasonable reason is bias...
And going about broadcasting it
Your preferences is for your not others...

Everyone has preferences and it's okay

Everyone has their choices
Black,white , Asian etc....
When it gets to racism is exempting one race without any reasonable reason and broadcasting it like it's anyone's business

Preference has nothing to do with racism....

MAXIS cooking up the hea t

I never said it wasn’t ok to have preferences. Racism is def not as narrow as you define it. There are lotsss of layers to it. You can have a preference that comes from racism, those two aren’t necessarily separate.

Racism or no racism some people can have preferences on even little things that might not matter to you like skin colour, height,eye colour etc
Still preference may or may not be from racism

That’s literally what I was trying to get that guy to understand. I’m not saying that him not wanting to date a race = he’s a racist but that some people have preferences based on racism. So he can’t just say that preferences never have anything to do with racism.

Never said anything about public shame wtf ru on

I think attraction preference is literally based on an inherit bias for any trait about someone

But yea obviously if you’re just a shit person who is racist and uses that as the only justification for dating/not dating someone that’s different

I guess I have a shot being black then ..HI👋

On a more serious note I think racism has got to do with viewing a certain race as inferior and an issue of preference has got nothing to do with that ... It's best to know what you like as a human

💯

Same stuff that you are on......
can't you see that I was giving an instance of when such so called preferences turn to racism....

Whoever wrote it is an idiot thinking they're not one