Coping with a Sudden LDR Breakup | Support & Advice

I don’t know what to do(ldr relationship)

It’s just that no one ever made me feel like that before
When I’m with him I feel special
I can be myself
I don’t have to hide or lie about myself
He sees right through me
I’m so comfortable with him I can tell him about anything and I never met someone like that
I’m so attached to him
It’s hard to act like I’m moving on but he is everywhere in my room
His presence is everywhere in my life so it’s very very hard

Moving on would feel like I’m forgetting a part of myself
I was the happiest it’s like I’m abandoning myself if I move on idk why I feel like this

He decided to break up and I couldn’t even say no or yes
But as he said he is struggling mentally and doesn’t want to drag me down with him but I was ready to stand by him no matter what but idk anymore
Tomorrow will mark the first week
I’ve never been away from him for so long it hurts
I wonder if he comes back much later healed and all idk
I miss him
I miss my sweet baby boy
I love him so so much it hurts

Okay🫩💔

Okay😔

I can’t block him…

Why?

I just want him to get better mentally because he is struggling rn

I mean my last text to him was that I support him and I hope he gets better and it was Sunday and since then nothing from him so I’m not really trying to go there and disrupt his progress

Oh..

Well he said that he cannot be the man that I see in him for the moment and that he can’t give me what I want for the moment because of his struggles

Everyday
And that Friday night I fell asleep on the phone with him and when I woke up the following day that’s when he broke up with me

Yes

I know it’s just hard to accept it because we made plans for the future so I’m hanging on the “what if’s”
I know that ill move on it’s just that it’s the first week and I feel like I’m dying for some reason
I’ve had heartbreaks before but this one takes it to the next level
I thought I’d sail the deep waters with that person I thought I’d sleep and wake up next to them I’m still holding on in a way so I’m sorry

you might feel like you're stitched together by strands of something you can't name. It might feel like you've lost him, like he's slipped away into some great void, some place you can't touch. But that's not how it works, not really. You're not meant to "move on", and nobody who tells you that has ever known the gravity of love. It isn't a path to walk away from, but a root that grows deeper, twisting through you, holding you steady even as you break. He's not gone, he's only dissolved. Like sugar stirred into water. He's everywhere now, in the hum of the air around you, in the strange stillness that wraps you up when you feel like you're alone. Do you feel that ache in your chest? That sorrow? That's not emptiness, it's just the shape he left behind, reshaping your soul into something you, and it's a messy process. You're not just grieving them, you're becoming them, piece by piece. The way he smiled, the way he spoke, the way he loved you so fiercely. All of that is yours now, and you probably don't even realise it yet. So there's the truth: you're not losing him, you're absorbing him. Every breath, every step, and every tear is him moving through you, finding ways to remain. You are his legacy, echo, and home. Let yourself feel everything. The sorrow, longing, even the anger. Let it hollow you out, because only in that hollowing can something new take root. And one day when you've grown used to his weight inside your soul, you'll find he's not a burden at all. He's a part of your rhythm, pulse, and life. You don't have to let go, you just have to keep living. He'll take care of the rest. And remember, you are special, you are real, and you are loved.

Thank you

I actually just texted him about how I feel I hope he doesn’t feel pressured or worse
I truly love him ❤️

you'll heal, and then get hurt again.

it's reality.

Things will get better and better

I want him back
I wanna hear his voice
I wanna see him
I want everything back
But nothing will be the same anymore
I just hope that he heals his mental health
That he gets better
And when he feels like he is ready and want to try again… he reaches out to me

Okay...how old are u guys if don't mind me asking

I’m 25 and he is 27

It's gonna be real hard and you don want to be stuck in someone cycle of mental health healing or what ever he is going through okay.
I get the thing of wanting to talk to him everyday buh you have to find a way to feel the void. It's okay to cry darling. Healing is liner

I know I just idk anymore

I want him to come back

But if we keep the old patterns

We would be back at the start and that sucks

So I’m focusing on myself rn

I miss him dearly

Reall advice. Cry.

I want you to cry as much as you want

I’ve been crying all this time

It's gonna be all right one day darling

Not today buh. One day

Can i send you a DM?

Yeah I just miss my sweet sweet boy 🫩💔

UPDATE : he just texted me saying
“Hello..”
“I’m sorry Angie”

Oh I’m cool now

We talked
More like I vented my anger and everything out

You will be okay

But yes you can share what you went through

I’ll be all ears