How to Be Yourself: Finding Your Identity at FriendZone
Summary
At FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime, our community recently held a deep discussion on overcoming identity crises and the feeling of wearing a social mask. Members shared practical advice on starting small with personal preferences to rediscover one's authentic self. This meaningful exchange highlights the supportive and reflective nature of our community beyond just gaming and memes.
It's a very good question to ask and i need a very good answer how do you know your acting like yourself??
You know when you dont have to pretend to be liked
It's not like that my whole life i felt like i was acting and i tried to know who i am and how do i know if am acting like myself and i never found an answer
You know when you find ur self
I tried but every time i feel like am acting like myself i find that it's nothing but a mask
How could one act like themselves
Pay me 100mil dollars so I teach you...
If i had 100 mil i wouldn't be here
Where then...
On mars with elon musk
And why every time you talk it ends with....
To find out pay me 50mil dollars till then it would remain a secret
Fuck i don't have that kind of money
Then like I said it would remain a secret
ts like asking how to breathe.
Idk man am going through an identity crisis idk if am me anymore i feel like am wearing a mask 24/7 and not acting like me
At that point, you are the mask.
💀
but if you FEEL like you're wearing a mask.
then that means you have a sense of self.
which means you can still FEEL your sense of self.
WHICH MEANS YOU JUST NEED TO DO SHIT FOR YOURSELF.
🙏
😭
WALLAHI.
Lol
I kinda understood
You mean i do things i wanna do
Pretty much.
Yes.
That's difficult.
for someone who has worn a mask for so long.
which is why you need to start small.
start instinctual, 'what kind of snack do I like?'
'What's actually my favourite colour?'
'What scents and perfumes do I like the most'
Etc.
don't ask yourself the big questions right away.
Being a secretive person makes this very difficult.
You wanna know the best part about what I just said.
YOU CAN DO ALL OF THEM IN PRIVATE.
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Lol
Yah but
What i meant
Is how i act with ppl things that makes me unique that makes me me if that makes sense
mf u not wearing a mask, u just a code switcher. 😭
SONION.
And by secretive person i didn't mean doing things in private i meant if am sad about something or angry or feel any feelings good or not i wouldn't tell anyone and i would keep it for myself
Lmao
I don't see how that can interfere with what I said.
You don't need to tell anyone but yourself how you feel.
💀
But you said to do things i wanna do
Yeah, I just gave you a few examples, you don't need to them to a T, I just mentioned because to me, and I hope to most people, these things are small.
miniscule.
things that people accept can be changed.
So how can one drop the mask
And act like he was
I told you.
don't take it all of yet.
start small.
reveal a little about yourself, to yourself.
take it step by step, inch by inch.
I will ty btw for giving me an answer well not an answer but a road that leads to it
