Mental Health Support: Coping with Difficult Urges

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FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime provides a safe space for members to discuss sensitive topics like mental health and coping with difficult urges. This announcement invites the community to share personal stories and support strategies in a non-judgmental environment. It highlights the importance of peer connection and understanding for those navigating personal struggles within our active social community.

vividtiger-76 OP

I know this is a very sensitive topic and I’m still kind of dealing with it, but I just wanted to know like when you do have that urge to hurt you know yourself what do you do? cause there’s times where yes I have people that help me but then the power becomes too strong. I guess I just wanna know other people stories cause I know mine and I’m honestly doing OK with that. I haven’t done it in a while and what I mean is like I think what the last time was a month and a half so that’s good. But ya.

vividtiger-76 OP

I know a lot of people say like don’t hurt your body or whatever I understand that like that’s not I get it but it’s it’s not about the scars

vividtiger-76 OP

it’s not really about how you feel after it’s how you feel now and I think for the people that don’t really understand like just stop like like people are like it’s not that hard to just stop

vividtiger-76 OP

but honestly makes me so mad because they think you could just stop, but it’s just not that easy.

vividtiger-76 OP

I don’t think a lot of people know this about me and so I think a lot of people that are friends with me on this social media will get a little shocked

vividtiger-76 OP

and I’ve talked to people about it that includes my boyfriend and a lot of other people, but it still does happen like just the thoughts not actually doing it, but the thoughts are pretty strong

vividtiger-76 OP

do it again like for the people that don’t understand you know this to be honest I don’t really care about the scars later. I just care about now like how you feel and all that.

vividtiger-76 OP

A lot of people did say get help which I’ve tried and it just haven’t. I just didn’t help so yeah.

vividtiger-76 OP

oh, and I guess the reason that I didn’t really share it was cause some people that do do it our attention seekers and I’ve been called one when I did say that I did it and I think that was the last time I’ve ever told someone I think that was like a year and a half ago my boyfriend is the only one that I told now. And now that I’m sharing it here I guess I just wanna know what it’s like for other people too like I’m know I’m not alone, but I also just don’t want the haters to come in.

vividtiger-76 OP

and cus i’m still dealing with it the thoughts yk?

calmanchor-77

you get therapy and call 911 bc when u do….u might end up doing it and seriously hurting urself so best to get help now

swiftdelta-92

hurt someone else instead

swiftdelta-92

duh

quickbadger-36

I have seen a few people do it. I do find it disturbing

quickbadger-36

There is nothing good anyone anyone or one's self:r_kermitcorner:

vividtiger-76 OP

true

@calmanchor-77 you get therapy and call 911 bc when u do….u might end up doing it and seriously hurting urself so…
vividtiger-76 OP

i’ve tried

vividtiger-76 OP

it never rlly accomplishes anything

vividtiger-76 OP

but

vividtiger-76 OP

i know my limit

@vividtiger-76 true
quickbadger-36

Hmm. What do the hurting do? Satisfaction? Pain redirection?

quickbadger-36

Why do it

@quickbadger-36 Hmm. What do the hurting do? Satisfaction? Pain redirection?
vividtiger-76 OP

well i’ve been tell that a lot

vividtiger-76 OP

i guess

vividtiger-76 OP

the first time i did it i felt empty

vividtiger-76 OP

i wanted to feel smt

vividtiger-76 OP

i redirected that with pain

@vividtiger-76 i redirected that with pain
quickbadger-36

Did it work?

@quickbadger-36 Did it work?
vividtiger-76 OP

i felt pain so yes

vividtiger-76 OP

it did

vividtiger-76 OP

BUT

vividtiger-76 OP

i guess

@vividtiger-76 i felt pain so yes
quickbadger-36

Not enough?

@quickbadger-36 Not enough?
vividtiger-76 OP

sometimes

swiftdelta-92

get a job instead

vividtiger-76 OP

sometimes i do it remind me of what i failed

@swiftdelta-92 get a job instead
vividtiger-76 OP

i have one lol

@vividtiger-76 sometimes
quickbadger-36

So besides that. You don't want an alternative?

@quickbadger-36 So besides that. You don't want an alternative?
vividtiger-76 OP

i don’t know any

vividtiger-76 OP

and i hate talking abt it

vividtiger-76 OP

i know i am rn

vividtiger-76 OP

but it’s with people idk

vividtiger-76 OP

like in real life

@vividtiger-76 i don’t know any
quickbadger-36

Hmm.

vividtiger-76 OP

no one in my life that’s close to me know

vividtiger-76 OP

knows

vividtiger-76 OP

i hide that

@vividtiger-76 no one in my life that’s close to me know
quickbadger-36

Oh. Why are you empty though

@quickbadger-36 Oh. Why are you empty though
vividtiger-76 OP

well

vividtiger-76 OP

i guess just the stress of growing up

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